confused

United States

#1 Jan 2, 2013
So here's the deal. I've been sleeping with someone about 6 months now about twice a month. That's it. No hanging out, no dating. They stay the night gone the next day until next go round. I obviously know I'm being used but yet I can't shake these feelings. What can I do? Besides the obvious stop sleeping with them. We never had an intial relationship talk but yet when the subject comes up they are not ready for a relationship yet?I know I know smoh...
confused

United States

#2 Jan 2, 2013
Twice a week not month

“life is what you make of it.”

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#3 Jan 2, 2013
confused wrote:
So here's the deal. I've been sleeping with someone about 6 months now about twice a month. That's it. No hanging out, no dating. They stay the night gone the next day until next go round. I obviously know I'm being used but yet I can't shake these feelings. What can I do? Besides the obvious stop sleeping with them. We never had an intial relationship talk but yet when the subject comes up they are not ready for a relationship yet?I know I know smoh...
Quit sleeping with him. If that's all he's wanted for the last 6 months and doesn't want to have the relationship talk,, then it's nothing more than what you're thinking it already is. Break it off before you do get hurt
confused

United States

#4 Jan 2, 2013
Actually I'm a man. Believe it or not some women know how to play the field as well I guess

“life is what you make of it.”

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#5 Jan 2, 2013
confused wrote:
Actually I'm a man. Believe it or not some women know how to play the field as well I guess
Oh lol. Well quit giving it to her! She will either come around and talk relationship or move on. Don't let her walk all over you buddy
confused

United States

#6 Jan 2, 2013
I felt kinda stupid that's why I didn't mention that I'm a man at first

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#7 Jan 2, 2013
confused wrote:
I felt kinda stupid that's why I didn't mention that I'm a man at first
Don't feel stupid about it. I guess it's actually cliché to think that only men have that mentality to play mind games.:/ but I do hope that you find what you're looking for soon and are happy :)

“life is what you make of it.”

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#8 Jan 2, 2013
_princess1_ wrote:
<quoted text>Don't feel stupid about it. I guess it's actually cliché to think that only men have that mentality to play mind games.:/ but I do hope that you find what you're looking for soon and are happy :)
Cliche*
nice

Tucker, GA

#10 Jan 3, 2013
Sounds like she's not ready for a commitment.
average honkey

Bardstown, KY

#11 Jan 3, 2013
Might wanna check her out. She might be with someone already and likes your sex better. I've been in both sides of that.some people want their cake and eat it too.
Btw. While writing that saying down it really doesn't make sense. If you have a cake wouldn't you want to eat it also. I dunno. But you get the jest. Do some snooping.
Gerth Books

Bardstown, KY

#12 Jan 3, 2013
I agree with the average honkey, you should do some investigating. I will say this though, you only live once and if your getting this type of uncommitted sex and your enjoying it then take that road as far as it goes. Of course if that investigation uncovers that she is involved with someone else then it is only right for you and the other person that you end it. That cake and eat it too stuff is bullshit if she is cheating. Not saying she is, but just check into it deeper.

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