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i am thinking about forming a group,,(men only)so we can support each other thru and beyond divorce,,,i know in my case i would have really liked to have had someone to talk to about my divorce,,,which was a bad one ,,,i lost almost everything and she was the one that cheated,after an 8yr marriage,,now that i look back i see where i made my mistakes,,,i was thinking of what was in the best interest of my daughter,,,while my x-wife was taking everything,,with less concern for our child,,,i know that men have a hard time talking about things like this but i also know that it helps us think more clearly when we do have someone to talk to,,,im am not a doctor ,,just a redneck with ears to listen with and in a group setting we could offer suggestion to each other,,and maybe pervent someone from getting into trouble during the divorce,,i survived my divorce without any epo`s or any law being called and in the end of it all even no hard feelings toward my x-wife ,do u all think this would work,,or not,,,maybe meet 1 on 1,,have coffee and talk,,,go to the duck pond and fish and talk,,,i dont know ,,,im just willing to listen ,,i have also thought about maybe getting a phone and giving out the number that anyone can call and talk about what ever is on there mind,,just to give them someone to talk to when they need a friend,,,and u can start now say what ever u wont to,,,,
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I think it's a great idea!!!!
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Jan 31, 2013
 
friend wrote:
i am thinking about forming a group,,(men only)so we can support each other thru and beyond divorce,,,i know in my case i would have really liked to have had someone to talk to about my divorce,,,which was a bad one ,,,i lost almost everything and she was the one that cheated,after an 8yr marriage,,now that i look back i see where i made my mistakes,,,i was thinking of what was in the best interest of my daughter,,,while my x-wife was taking everything,,with less concern for our child,,,i know that men have a hard time talking about things like this but i also know that it helps us think more clearly when we do have someone to talk to,,,im am not a doctor ,,just a redneck with ears to listen with and in a group setting we could offer suggestion to each other,,and maybe pervent someone from getting into trouble during the divorce,,i survived my divorce without any epo`s or any law being called and in the end of it all even no hard feelings toward my x-wife ,do u all think this would work,,or not,,,maybe meet 1 on 1,,have coffee and talk,,,go to the duck pond and fish and talk,,,i dont know ,,,im just willing to listen ,,i have also thought about maybe getting a phone and giving out the number that anyone can call and talk about what ever is on there mind,,just to give them someone to talk to when they need a friend,,,and u can start now say what ever u wont to,,,,
I am not a man but however,I was treated the exact way. You are a rear man most are so hard hearted and always another woman. I am attracted, kelp up with styles and adored my family . I didn't not want to marry then let myself go in appearance. But, my exhusband was seeking out other women and dousing them in money so they would desire him, I was not enough although I worked hard from every aspect, sexual too. There came a porn addiction, next handing out large amounts on money to women that was so so ugly and not only from my stand point but ones own husband as well. I felt something was wrong before I actually knew. A gut feeling you might say. No mater what sex you r things go wrong and maybe a lady could understand just as good .

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Sounds like a support group for Cry-Baby's to me.
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Barbourville, KY

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Jan 31, 2013
 
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Sounds like a support group for Cry-Baby's to me.
so no one ask a hard hearted man like u to join anyway, u must be me ex

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Read wrote:
<quoted text> so no one ask a hard hearted man like u to join anyway, u must be me ex
The thread title was called..."what do you think."

Therefore, your post here is asinine.
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Jan 31, 2013
 
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I think it's a great idea!!!!
which idea the group,,,or having a phone number that people can call anonymously,,,,,,,just curious
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Jan 31, 2013
 
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<quoted text> I am not a man but however,I was treated the exact way. You are a rear man most are so hard hearted and always another woman. I am attracted, kelp up with styles and adored my family . I didn't not want to marry then let myself go in appearance. But, my exhusband was seeking out other women and dousing them in money so they would desire him, I was not enough although I worked hard from every aspect, sexual too. There came a porn addiction, next handing out large amounts on money to women that was so so ugly and not only from my stand point but ones own husband as well. I felt something was wrong before I actually knew. A gut feeling you might say. No mater what sex you r things go wrong and maybe a lady could understand just as good .
sounds to me like hes the one with the insecurities,,,he can spend a million dollars on a women,,and still not find one that looks as good as a women that takes care of her kids and her family,and i know that their are men out there that,,has the best thing that will ever happen to them right at home taking care of their kids and cleaning their house and washing their colths,and loving them deeper then most men will ever know,but a man will get that look in there eyes and think that what they need is on the other side of the fence,,and it will never cross there mind that in that split second they are destroying thems selfs there kids and there wifes,,they think it just me its (my life)when its takes the whole family down with them
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Jan 31, 2013
 
I have worked in Family Law for many years, Seen first hand the ravages of divorce. I think your idea is wonderful and much needed. I cannot believe how few groups for support or othewise they have here. GO for it and go luck.

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Jan 31, 2013
 

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It will probably turn into one big circle jerk.
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Feb 1, 2013
 
I agree. A bunch of cry babies. Waste of time.
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Feb 1, 2013
 
friend wrote:
<quoted text>which idea the group,,,or having a phone number that people can call anonymously,,,,,,,just curious
I would start with the group,then if someone needs to talk one on one use the anonymous number.
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Feb 1, 2013
 
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<quoted text>The thread title was called..."what do you think."
Therefore, your post here is asinine.
You have made two self descriptive statements.. cry-baby and assinine, I will add a couple more words you can use to describe yourself...pervert and dumbazz.....you're welcome. >smile<
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Feb 1, 2013
 
ExHub wrote:
I think it's a great idea!!!!
Agree.
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Feb 1, 2013
 
Justified wrote:
I agree. A bunch of cry babies. Waste of time.
from what I have seen of the local female resources...he is lucky to be out of the mess.
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Feb 1, 2013
 
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I agree. A bunch of cry babies. Waste of time.
when i saw my x-wife with her now boyfriend,,i can assure you that (cry baby) was the last thing on my mind ,,,a thousand emotions went through my mind,,,but (cry baby) was not one of those emotions,,,what im trying to do here is offer a person a life line ,,someone to reach out to before one of those thousand emotions take over,,,its takes only a second to do something stupid,,,to say something stupid ,,and be arrested or worse,,and believe it or not ,,every second counts in that moment when you realize that your life will never be the same,,did i ever cry?,,,yes i did ,when i realized that my home life was gone ,,,my little girl said daddy please dont go,,yea i was a cry baby,,,but i was there for her to say that to me ,,,i wasnt locked up for doing something stupid,,or saying something stupid,,and i know some men will act before they think,,and it will cost them later ,,no matter who is at fault,,,i believe that if u cant get a person to talk in a crisis situation they stand a much better chance of thinking clearly,,,,
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I would start with the group,then if someone needs to talk one on one use the anonymous number.
Sounds more like a in the closet guy - guy hookup thing you fellers are looking to start. Is that why the women split, caught you fellers tryin on their panties and bras?
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Feb 1, 2013
 
its insane
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Feb 1, 2013
 
ment to add that to number 6 post
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Feb 1, 2013
 
hedevil wrote:
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Sounds more like a in the closet guy - guy hookup thing you fellers are looking to start. Is that why the women split, caught you fellers tryin on their panties and bras?
hahahahaha,,,,,funny,,,i dont have a problem with gay people ,,,but this was not the problem in my case,,,,she had her bloomers,and i had mine,,,,lol

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