I know what you are saying when you say you are with someone & in Love with someone Else! I have been Married 6 yrs now, to a Man that I have to pretty much Support! The one I walked away from 1996, I have looked at his cards he sent & all the words he wrote! None of which my Husband now says or writes in a Card! I find my self thinking about the Man that I walked away from , every single Day! Sad part is, I didn't see the Love Untill I no longer had him in my Life! I have Photos & Cards that I read & Photo's that I haven't thrown away in 7 yrs! Because I still need to see the words he wrote & see the Photos & remember the days we were together! My Husband Now is selfcentered & is all about himself.... The Man I had in my life before the Man I Married, truely loved me & I made a Horriable Mistake!!! I found some bad movies in his house & I couldn't Deal with that, so I just cut myself free from him! If I had asked the man that I cared about & Loved, I am sure he would have thrown them away! I left & I didn't ask, because OF Pride! I know how your Heart Feels! If I had it to do over, I would have Never married & I would have found a way to find the Man that I Loved & I knew that Loved me!!! I would have confronted Him & said it's either me or your Movies! Porn has a Strong Hold on Many Men & I can't competete with that ! I am just Me! I know what it feels like to Love some one Else & & be Married to Another! I know how you Feel!!! I hope you can go back & say what you need to say & make a difference in your World, Because I can't!!! God Bless you! Go Back & say I'm sorry, say I Love you & say I can't live without you!!!! Don't setttle for someone who says they Love you, But Doesn't!!! Make the choices you need to make, to make your ife Happy for you! I wished I could! I would walk away in a Heart Beat!!! God Bless you... Do what ever you have to do!!!