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confused

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May 5, 2013
 

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you act like you cant live without me when you want me to do for you. but then you ignore me the rest of the time.

you say you love me. i love you. i try to show it. but nothing is moving forward. everything is at a standstill. all promises broken.

i try to talk to you. you interrupt me. or change the subject.

we no longer talk about anything important. we dont do anything together at all. not sex. not meals. not helping each other. we dont even sleep next to each other.

you are grumpy every day. i try to keep smiling but its wearing on me.

do you even want me here with you? if so, act like it. if not, say so.
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May 5, 2013
 

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It sounds like he/she wants you around when they need you but doesn't have a real interest in you or the relationship, like it's all in a rut and he/she just hangs in there because it's the norm?
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May 5, 2013
 

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Easy, you're being used dude/chick.
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#4
May 5, 2013
 
Unknown Source wrote:
Easy, you're being used dude/chick.
That's what it sounds like to me too but we don't know a lot from the OP...Like, how long has it been a relationship? Do they have any problems the poster didnt mention, like fighting or cheating etc...

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May 6, 2013
 

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Unknown Source wrote:
Easy, you're being used dude/chick.
Man, I've been there before.
confused

London, KY

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May 11, 2013
 

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sometimes i think you do stuff that annoys me just to try to annoy me.

it makes me wonder if you are trying to run me off or if you are just attention starved. you always did have to be the center of attention.

i do not want to stay where i am not wanted. but i cant stay in a relationship where i am ignored unless you want something from me.

you promised me marriage. i have waited a LONG time. still there is no ring on my finger.

you promised me a lot more. none has came to pass. i keep my word to you.

you tried to change who i am but i never lied to you about who i am. you did lie to me about who you are.
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May 11, 2013
 

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move on life is to short
confused

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#8
May 22, 2013
 
i know you are not happy. not like you used to be. neither am i. not like i used to be. i do take some of the blame but not all.

you caused a lot of what has passed between us, by insisting on things you knew would be harmful to 'us' and to our relationship. and by insisting on having your way.

i have done a lot that i didn't feel good about because YOU insisted on it. i tried to compromise and to make sacrifices to make you happy. in doing so, sometimes it made me very unhappy.

i put up with a lot of sh!t off you that no other person would have. i feel like i have lost a lot of my self-respect and my self-esteem in doing so. the resentment has been building for a very long time.

i do love you and i know you love me, or at least you say you do. i have had to prove to you over and over that i love you. now prove that to me by keeping your word to me!

don't reply to me here on topix. sit me down and talk to me face to face. tell me what it is you want and need. tell me if you want me to stay or go.
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Danville, KY

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May 23, 2013
 

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"Concerned" is right. Move on, life is too short.

If you're not married, be thankful. It will be easier to get out of. If you are already being treated badly, please do not marry this person. Find your happiness elsewhere and let someone else have the drama.
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#10
May 26, 2013
 
you still haven't sat me down and talked to me about all this.

you are too busy watching tv and doing what makes you happy to even have a conversation with me.

every day you tell me that you love me.

but keeping your word to me would show me.
yeah yeah

Corbin, KY

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#11
Jun 5, 2013
 
Either talk to the person about it or get over it. Either it can be fixed or you don't care enough to fix it. Why get on here and whine about it, go to them with it. It would save you time and a lot of misconceptions don't you think! Geez, people these days! And everyone wonders why their personal business is on this sight. Because THEY put it out there of people to see and add to and twist around. Some people just like the drama that comes with it I guess. That or they are just young and too dumb to understand that they are just being that stupid!!! lol

“Delicate Sound of Thunder”

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Cannon, KY

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#12
Jun 5, 2013
 
Just take one day at a time.
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Jun 6, 2013
 
The Specialist wrote:
Just take one day at a time.
Some times take one breath at a time!

“Delicate Sound of Thunder”

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Jun 6, 2013
 
truth wrote:
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Some times take one breath at a time!
Don't we always take one breath at a time?
truth

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#15
Jun 6, 2013
 
The Specialist wrote:
<quoted text>Don't we always take one breath at a time?
Don't we always take one day at a time. I don't think you can take 2 or 3 in a 24 hr period!

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Jun 6, 2013
 
truth wrote:
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Don't we always take one day at a time. I don't think you can take 2 or 3 in a 24 hr period!
Yes, I thought about that when I typed the last post...lol
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Jun 7, 2013
 
The Specialist wrote:
<quoted text>Yes, I thought about that when I typed the last post...lol
Lol
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#18
Jun 7, 2013
 
wonder where and who this person is actually writing about???? check it out !
http://loathsomecreek.wordpress.com/2012/01/2...

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