Is there ONE good woman left?
James

Greenbrier, AR

#46 Jan 26, 2011
"Clueless", since you are a woman, and KNOW what women want, explain why the woman asked me to be her "friend with benefits?" She was not interested in a "real" relationship, only the bedroom part. That is how most women are today. You said, "God bless any woman who would fall for someone like me." Why would you say that? Is it wrong to want a "REAL" relationship? At least the "friend with benefits" woman was up-front with me. Why should I "waste" a few weeks on a woman who has only "bedroom eyes"? Yes, I walk out when I see that the bedroom is the extent of the relationship. How am I supposed to know all this ahead of time? I'm not a psychic like you assume I should be!
nolongerlooking

United States

#48 Jan 26, 2011
Clueless wrote:
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Im a man, and you're right, you simply don't get it.
Good luck!
Then why don't you explain it for us genious!!
laughable

Ford City, PA

#49 Jan 26, 2011
nolongerlooking wrote:
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A woman can take on ten men in a row without skipping a beat. A man can't do ten women without a break after each one. No ONE man can "keep up" with a homan.
well who said the man needed to keep up with ten women? if he is a good man he will at least try to keep up with the one he has at home!!!
local

Ford City, PA

#50 Jan 26, 2011
Oger wrote:
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What man In his right mind would want a woman to go get him a cup of coffee or make him a sandwich!?, When they would sure enough fuhk It up one way or another...TYPICAL FEMALE..lol, No thank you, I'll get it myself.
actually you are wrong, oger...we wouldn't fu%$ it up at all. we would get it right the first time just so we wouldn't have to listen to your whiny ass crying about it not being perfect...TYPICAL MALE.

if i am waiting on you, like getting your plate for you, its not because i WANT to! it's ONLY because you make such a mess when you do it yourself it just isn't worth the hassle to have to clean up after you! and if you do the dishes, they will just have to be rewashed! you can BET that is the ONLY reasons we do these things....TYPICAL.

but if you actually go make your own sandwich i will have to give you kudos for that, because it seems to be typical that hillbilly men think women are supposed to wait on them hand and foot.
Ogrette

Ford City, PA

#51 Jan 26, 2011
James wrote:
I guess the reason I haven't had much luck finding the right woman is because ROMANCE is dead these days, and I am a "die-hard" romantic. I believe in treating her like a lady, romantic dinners, flowers, surprise gifts, etc. However, most women aren't into that these days. How can you treat a someone like a lady when she does not consider herself to be one? Most women I meet these days are very "up-front" with what they expect from me in bed, and could care less about anything else. In fact, today, a woman asked me if I wanted to be a "friend with benefits" for her. I barely know her! What's romantic about that? It is 1000 times easier to find a woman to sleep with, than to find a woman who wants a meaningful relationship. I don't want to go from one "one night stand" to another. However, that seems to be about all most women I meet are into. Seems like they want to continue their "teenage" type behavior forever...years after their teen years have passed. Therefore, I guess nice guys like me, who want a real relationship, are out of luck with today's women. We are left with going from one "one night stand" to another, or nothing at all.
James, they all are ROMANTIC and bring flowers and take us out for dinner and dancing--till they think they have us! Women are not stuck on stupid. We all know that most men will treat us like queens till they think they have us wrapped around their little finger. Then everything changes and they wont even make an effort. After awhile we, as women, get tired of being treated like we dont exist till you want or need something...Then our feelings of romance, passion, affection and all the wonderful stuff eventually dies.
hummm

Ford City, PA

#52 Jan 26, 2011
nolongerlooking wrote:
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I have had the same experience!! All they wanna do is lay in bed and screw. After a few weeks of that, I'm done. I don't even give em a reason why I don't wanna see them anymore.
use 'em, abuse 'em and kick 'em to the curb, huh?
Oger

Fulton, KY

#53 Jan 26, 2011
local wrote:
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actually you are wrong, oger...we wouldn't fu%$ it up at all. we would get it right the first time just so we wouldn't have to listen to your whiny ass crying about it not being perfect...TYPICAL MALE.
if i am waiting on you, like getting your plate for you, its not because i WANT to! it's ONLY because you make such a mess when you do it yourself it just isn't worth the hassle to have to clean up after you! and if you do the dishes, they will just have to be rewashed! you can BET that is the ONLY reasons we do these things....TYPICAL.
but if you actually go make your own sandwich i will have to give you kudos for that, because it seems to be typical that hillbilly men think women are supposed to wait on them hand and foot.
"actually you are wrong, oger...we wouldn't fu%$ it up at all. we would get it right the first time just so we wouldn't have to listen to your whiny ass crying about it not being perfect...TYPICAL MALE."

Now THAT IS funny, If I did allow the woman to go fix something for me and once she messed It up, Why would one whine or complain about It?, I would however take them back to the kitchen and show them the proper way to do it, No complaining and such...

"typical that hillbilly men think women are supposed to wait on them hand and foot."

That's true with most men, I however love the look on womans face when I do the dishes and they get done correctly, As far as the rest of your comments, It sounds like you get Into the same relationships as I do only with you It's men, And trust me women do the same things that you mention men doing.
But all In all I suppose that's a good thing, I would hate to be In a relationship where we would fight over who done the dishes..lol
Buford T

United States

#54 Jan 27, 2011
I'd settle for one that can help me cook and clean. One that works and takes pride in her apperence. One that will ride beside me on "her own damn bike"
jambone

United States

#55 Jan 27, 2011
I like cheese

“is it truth or is it lies”

Since: Nov 10

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#56 Jan 27, 2011
Della, Hotter than a 2 dollar pistol. She's Hard Worker, Owns her Own Business. Will make a "Good Man" Very Happy. You must be a Hard Worker, makes alots of Money and Great Lover. She needs a Man that will be Faithful and Loving. Serious Inquries Only!
LADY LOVE

United States

#57 Jan 27, 2011
i think all us single ladys in barbourville should meet up and have lunch meetings go to a club go get our nails done etc , lets start a ladys singles club, Lets get it started im up for it lets do it....
local

Ford City, PA

#58 Jan 27, 2011
Buford T wrote:
I'd settle for one that can help me cook and clean. One that works and takes pride in her apperence. One that will ride beside me on "her own damn bike"
now, now, quantum.. i guess match.com just isn't working for ya huh?
lady loves

London, KY

#59 Jan 27, 2011
dennis famer is the best ok ok ok hot babe
SmileUrIt

Ford City, PA

#60 Jan 27, 2011
There's a few of us good woman left

http://www.barelyhangingon.com/wp-content/upl...
jambone

United States

#61 Jan 28, 2011
Cheese is the greatest thing ever
James

Greenbrier, AR

#62 Jan 28, 2011
SmileUrIt, you say there are a few good women left. Well, where are they, send them my way! I happened to run into a woman in a store today. I have seen her here or there occasionally, but don't even know her last name...have never really talked to her before, or anything. In fact, when she said, "Hi", to me, it took me a moment to recall her first name. Well, a few seconds later, as we walked through the store, she said, "let's hook-up." She then proceeded to describe, in great detail, what she would do to me. She also described what she looked like "down south", and how she was an "artist with a gillette." She said all this without me having said a word about being interested in her...or her talents! She didn't even ask if I had a girlfriend! This is typical of today's women. For those of you who get on Topix crying about "love'em and leave'em guys", and "poor ol' misunderstood women", well...what's not to understand about a situation like mine today? She didn't want a RELATIONSHIP, never even mentioned anything like that. Men, today, who want a relationdhip, are out of luck in finding one. Today's women are just interested in one thing, and it starts with the fourth letter of the alphabet!
alan

Greenbrier, AR

#63 Jan 28, 2011
Women today are just interest in your number. No, not your phone number, your other number.
One Good Woman-1

Detroit, MI

#64 Jan 28, 2011
I must be the only one left then... Surely not! I am not into the bar scene, one night stands, friends with benefits, or any other type listed here. Yes, I've had a couple bad relationships with men and both of those was due to what most of the women on here had to say about men these days. From this good womans point, men these days are not into one woman. They will start out that way but once the new wears off they are searching for someone else. And please don't say it's not because they weren't satisfied...please! If ur in a relationship you are suppose to be open, honest and trustworthy. You learn from your mate what each other need emotionally, physically and sexually. If you can't communicate with each other, know each others limitations and what "keeps the fire burning" then your asking for the start of trouble. You have to be able to trust each other. And that is earned but once that is broken as what happened with me, then the feelings you have toward that person is forever changed. Yes! There is good women and good men out there!! We both just have to search to find them. I'm still looking myself as a matter of fact just decided to open myself back up to the dating scene as it has changed in the past 10 yrs and its like I'm starting new all over again. From the prior posts I can assure you there is still one good woman out there and for us women I'm sure there has to be one good man left too. Wish you luck and myself too!!:)
local

Ford City, PA

#65 Jan 29, 2011
Buford T wrote:
I'd settle for one that can help me cook and clean. One that works and takes pride in her apperence. One that will ride beside me on "her own damn bike"
we all know why buford wants one who will ride 'her own damn bike'!!! most of the women around here are so fat it would flatten his tires!!!
local

Ford City, PA

#66 Jan 29, 2011
One Good Woman-1 wrote:
I must be the only one left then... Surely not! I am not into the bar scene, one night stands, friends with benefits, or any other type listed here. Yes, I've had a couple bad relationships with men and both of those was due to what most of the women on here had to say about men these days. From this good womans point, men these days are not into one woman. They will start out that way but once the new wears off they are searching for someone else. And please don't say it's not because they weren't satisfied...please! If ur in a relationship you are suppose to be open, honest and trustworthy. You learn from your mate what each other need emotionally, physically and sexually. If you can't communicate with each other, know each others limitations and what "keeps the fire burning" then your asking for the start of trouble. You have to be able to trust each other. And that is earned but once that is broken as what happened with me, then the feelings you have toward that person is forever changed. Yes! There is good women and good men out there!! We both just have to search to find them. I'm still looking myself as a matter of fact just decided to open myself back up to the dating scene as it has changed in the past 10 yrs and its like I'm starting new all over again. From the prior posts I can assure you there is still one good woman out there and for us women I'm sure there has to be one good man left too. Wish you luck and myself too!!:)
right you are. once the newness wears off they just seem to give up and act like we dont exist unless they want or need something. then they either cheat, or try to. or they sign up on dating sites pretending to be alone while they are looking for your replacement.
anything that goes wrong is your fault and they take no responsibility for anything.
open and honest helps but most say they want this then bawl you out if you are honest with them. they dont even try to be pleasing but expect us to.

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