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hurt to the bone

United States

#1 Aug 10, 2013
I'm deeply hurt at my husband and don't know what to say or do. He talks about me to ppl we meet his family friends just whomever he can really. He puts me down and belittles me right in front of my face and he thinks its funny! I walk away. I try to talk to him but he gets angry at me and says I can't take a joke he's only joking but it really hurts my feelings! I don't know how to get him to stop its hurtful and embarrassing!
just help

United States

#2 Aug 10, 2013
Bust him in the nuts the next time he does it no matter where you are and say just kidding thought you would think it was funny
Enche Longpeter

United States

#3 Aug 10, 2013
make jokes about the size of his penis..then say "just kidding"
Oger

London, KY

#4 Aug 10, 2013
Enche Longpeter wrote:
make jokes about the size of his penis..then say "just kidding"
I was just setting here thinking she should do the same, see how he likes it. Then again, sounds as if she is a bit insecure, perhaps that's another reason he does it, simply because she won't do anything about it.
hurt

United States

#5 Aug 10, 2013
Oger wrote:
<quoted text>I was just setting here thinking she should do the same, see how he likes it. Then again, sounds as if she is a bit insecure, perhaps that's another reason he does it, simply because she won't do anything about it.
Omg NO! I have blew up to the point I was about to explode. It caused a really terrible fight. At this particular time it was wrong place wrong time kinda thing I didn't want to show my ignorance so I let it be. When we were alone you bet your bottom dollar he heard it! I'm just tired of being the center of his jokes and punch line!
Oger

London, KY

#6 Aug 10, 2013
hurt wrote:
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Omg NO! I have blew up to the point I was about to explode. It caused a really terrible fight. At this particular time it was wrong place wrong time kinda thing I didn't want to show my ignorance so I let it be. When we were alone you bet your bottom dollar he heard it! I'm just tired of being the center of his jokes and punch line!
Well, then move on or let me guess, afraid to do so?
beenthere

United States

#7 Aug 10, 2013
i once was like your husband i made jokes about my wife like that i didnt see no harm in it when she would jump my case about it i just thought she was just lookin to complain but now that its to late i see i was a ba!!!!! to her i didnt know the pain i caused her and to this day she will not talk to me and idk if she ever will one thing is for sure if i never make thing right with her ill die one lonely man
hurt

United States

#8 Aug 10, 2013
Oger wrote:
<quoted text>Well, then move on or let me guess, afraid to do so?
No, not afraid. Just wish he wouldn't do this.
Oger

London, KY

#9 Aug 10, 2013
hurt wrote:
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No, not afraid. Just wish he wouldn't do this.
If you aren't afraid, then why wish one or even anyone wouldn't do something?

*grin*
crocodile

Richmond, KY

#10 Aug 10, 2013
Punch him in the fracking mouth throw his ass out the door.
hurt

United States

#11 Aug 10, 2013
beenthere wrote:
i once was like your husband i made jokes about my wife like that i didnt see no harm in it when she would jump my case about it i just thought she was just lookin to complain but now that its to late i see i was a ba!!!!! to her i didnt know the pain i caused her and to this day she will not talk to me and idk if she ever will one thing is for sure if i never make thing right with her ill die one lonely man
It really does hurt. He thinks its ok but it's not. Example: I am a stay at home mom and going to school myself. I also provide care for a family member. I get tired of the same old routine day in and day out. I cook almost daily. I clean like a fiend, but there are days I will just fix something really quick and there may be a few dishes in the sink from time to time. Here's what he said.... Omg I have to come home from working all day and load the dishwasher with Arby's bags Wendy's bags cause all we do is eat out! That is a lie and he knows it. I have to fold laundry and clean the house. No, I hadn't had a chance to get the towels out of the dryer yet cause I was busy cooking his dinner so he got mad over that. He made me sound like a nasty housekeeper and I'm not by any means. Granted I get tired of doing it and cleaning up after his muddy shoes he tracks all through the house but I do clean! Forgive me if school is out and our child is from one room to the next playing and messing! Geesh! If everything isn't perfect I catch it or he makes up tales to make me look like a lazy slob. I really feel like a maid and a cook! He comes in eats and goes to sleep. He's not happy with his job and looking for another so he takes it all out on me. I don't deserve this. I've talked to him about his anger he yells at our child and says some pretty nasty things. We walk on egg shells lately! I dread seeing him come home cause I don't know what mood he's gonna be in. I know it's his job but he needs to handle it or he's gonna come home to a empty house!
oldnews

Hazard, KY

#12 Aug 11, 2013
He is cheating on you, they all change the minute that starts, he is a cheater and don't want to leave just yet, so he is tore between the two, wake up lady.
Comical

Mount Vernon, KY

#13 Aug 11, 2013
hurt to the bone wrote:
I'm deeply hurt at my husband and don't know what to say or do. He talks about me to ppl we meet his family friends just whomever he can really. He puts me down and belittles me right in front of my face and he thinks its funny! I walk away. I try to talk to him but he gets angry at me and says I can't take a joke he's only joking but it really hurts my feelings! I don't know how to get him to stop its hurtful and embarrassing!
He has a real winner here, he should be proud of you and your social acceptance by barbourville topix. You know, a lady that wants to hang her dirty laundry out for all to see is hard to find around here, most ladies want to solve their problems privately. I am sure that you will make him, yourself and both sides of the family proud, by seeking marriage counciling on barbourville topix...yep, a real winner.
gator

Indianapolis, IN

#14 Aug 11, 2013
crocodile wrote:
Punch him in the fracking mouth throw his ass out the door.
and then make a truck payment and be done with it
beenthere

United States

#15 Aug 11, 2013
Comical wrote:
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He has a real winner here, he should be proud of you and your social acceptance by barbourville topix. You know, a lady that wants to hang her dirty laundry out for all to see is hard to find around here, most ladies want to solve their problems privately. I am sure that you will make him, yourself and both sides of the family proud, by seeking marriage counciling on barbourville topix...yep, a real winner.
if you have not been there you dont know maybe she has noone to talk to and just trying to find some reasoning but some ppl just dont have no understanding it not there lives so they dont care in fact instead of helping someone with a problem they get a big kick out of it and porclam there good ppl
Brit

Middlesboro, KY

#16 Aug 11, 2013
If your husbands mouth was where it should be you couldn't understand what he was saying.
beenthere

United States

#17 Aug 11, 2013
some ppl are not happy with there self but do not want to change so they play the blam game like its my job or so and so did this or that or even my wife but never ones do they look at there self andsay ok what do i need to fix about myself so i can be a better person do and hope to god that others forgive me for the thing i do you know this sounds alot like me and my ex when i was younger i was too dumb to see i had something good and i have never rebounded from it ppl say move on but sometimes moving on is not something you can do! its not there life oneday he will see what his got hopefully it will not be to late for him to change
beenthere

United States

#18 Aug 11, 2013
oldnews wrote:
He is cheating on you, they all change the minute that starts, he is a cheater and don't want to leave just yet, so he is tore between the two, wake up lady.
i treated my ex like crap but never one did i cheat on her not everone is a cheater sure after me and her was over i tryed dating but i couldnt do it i knew were i wanted to be and it didnt feel right to meny close minded ppl in this world
Comical

Mount Vernon, KY

#19 Aug 11, 2013
beenthere wrote:
<quoted text>if you have not been there you dont know maybe she has noone to talk to and just trying to find some reasoning but some ppl just dont have no understanding it not there lives so they dont care in fact instead of helping someone with a problem they get a big kick out of it and porclam there good ppl
No iam not there nor have I been there, I am just having a good laugh at the whole idea, that you can get good advice from the posters on this forum.

Over 30,000 people in the county and she is seeking advice from 200 topix regulars, a real jewel lol.
Oger

London, KY

#20 Aug 11, 2013
Comical wrote:
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No iam not there nor have I been there, I am just having a good laugh at the whole idea, that you can get good advice from the posters on this forum.
Over 30,000 people in the county and she is seeking advice from 200 topix regulars, a real jewel lol.
You do understand what "forums" and there purpose is, yes?

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