If suffering is the only way to be a better person, then I suppose we should start torturing people. Or maybe, just maybe, you are wrong. Do you have the humility to think you just might be wrong?<quoted text>
No I didn't say answered prayers are not God's going. What? How did you get that?
And no, maybe someone else learned or grew stronger from someone passing. The person that passed is in a better place anyway if they were a believer. And it could be argued that the non-believer is in a better place too.
If god is not causing the miracles, then who or what is causing them? I have asked this several times yet you keep skipping it. Is it the devil?