Dating a black man?
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Ivory

United States

#1 Feb 16, 2010
I am 31 and single. Never dated outside my race. My parents are VERY prejudice and i am NOT. An attractive black guy asked me out. He seems so sweet and charming. Should i go? I may be starting a war with my family. I live on my own and teach school for a living. I am in control of my own life but don't want to start a problem with mu family. Help?

“Speaker of Mountain Wisdom....”

Since: Jan 10

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#2 Feb 16, 2010
No One can tell you what to do... its a balance of what you can accept.. Can you except the belittling of family and friends to follow your heart?

Will tell you a story.. a relative of mine was dating a black man.. She was loved by the family... But when the family heard of it she was outcast by many... after they married and had 2 beautiful kids it still took years for the family to except them and her and her husband in the family but after years they have come to except that her husband loves her and is a good man and that skin color is not the measure of the man..that is measured by Honor within and it matters little the color if the person inside has no Honor...
iCare

Somerset, KY

#3 Feb 16, 2010
Well the bible says....wait...

Who cares what that old piece of garbage says. Do what you want. Your will is the most powerful will...because you are the only person that can perceive the things around you...thus live for yourself.

iSay.
Sweets

London, KY

#4 Feb 16, 2010
Quantummist wrote:
No One can tell you what to do... its a balance of what you can accept.. Can you except the belittling of family and friends to follow your heart?
Will tell you a story.. a relative of mine was dating a black man.. She was loved by the family... But when the family heard of it she was outcast by many... after they married and had 2 beautiful kids it still took years for the family to except them and her and her husband in the family but after years they have come to except that her husband loves her and is a good man and that skin color is not the measure of the man..that is measured by Honor within and it matters little the color if the person inside has no Honor...
I didn't hear about that in the family.
tom

Corbin, KY

#5 Feb 16, 2010
don't do it. stick with your own race. white should with white and black with black. jmo
been there

United States

#6 Feb 16, 2010
even if your family accepts it,you will deal with social retards from now on,you said it was just a date,right?Go for a walk with him in a public place and see how it feels
Ivory

United States

#8 Feb 19, 2010
I am falling in love with the most sexy, charming and intellectual african-american in the universe. Am i wrong? What should i do? I need to let this out, the way i feel about him!!!! Advice someone PLEASE?! He is the greatest man i have ever had the pleasure of meeting but i am 5'8 slim blonde hair blue eyes,,,,,,,we do NOT favor.lol. Lots of stares for sure. Help me..........PLEASE!
Ride that big boy

United States

#9 Feb 19, 2010
I think your full of crap because your isp says b ville....your description of yourself says ~~~~WOW~~~~ so that plus a good job on top of finding an intellectual handsome man anywhere around here = bullshit 2 me!!!

I believe someones bored & using the mixing topic to get shit started!

“SpidurMan”

Since: Feb 10

Websville

#10 Feb 19, 2010
Ivory wrote:
I am 31 and single. Never dated outside my race. My parents are VERY prejudice and i am NOT. An attractive black guy asked me out. He seems so sweet and charming. Should i go? I may be starting a war with my family. I live on my own and teach school for a living. I am in control of my own life but don't want to start a problem with mu family. Help?
Mixing it up with others isn't so bad,
Look at my Avatar photo....

http://www.topix.com/forum/topstories/TCJ5FPT...
Are you serious

United States

#11 Feb 19, 2010
Ivory wrote:
I am 31 and single. Never dated outside my race. My parents are VERY prejudice and i am NOT. An attractive black guy asked me out. He seems so sweet and charming. Should i go? I may be starting a war with my family. I live on my own and teach school for a living. I am in control of my own life but don't want to start a problem with mu family. Help?
This is ridiculous. I have never seen such racist people in my life until I moved here. I here the N word constantly. Well guess what. That N word means ignorant just so you know. So, next time you use it look in the mirror and you will be looking at one. Black, white, brown, green, purple, we are all people. Some people are good and some people are bad. It does not matter the skin color. If you feel this man is worthy of your time than his skin color doesn't matter, and if your family doesn't want you to be happy then f*ck them. They aren't worth your time.
Hottie

United States

#12 Feb 19, 2010
all white girls should date black men,they are so much better in bed you will never even think about those skinny little white boy peters again,if your boyfriend cheats on you or screws you over go get a little black snake,they really hate that,teach that little pink ass a lesson
what

Mount Vernon, KY

#13 Feb 19, 2010
Ivory wrote:
I am 31 and single. Never dated outside my race. My parents are VERY prejudice and i am NOT. An attractive black guy asked me out. He seems so sweet and charming. Should i go? I may be starting a war with my family. I live on my own and teach school for a living. I am in control of my own life but don't want to start a problem with mu family. Help?
Do what your family taught you or once you with the guy you will be total used trash that no one will ever want.Do you ever see a red bird in a blue birds nest? NO,they stay in there own race.
Pink ass

United States

#14 Feb 19, 2010
teach those white boys a lesson,show your family youre in charge of the kitty,just try a black man once youll never go back to pinkie,just say super size me
Masters

Burlington, KY

#15 Feb 19, 2010
f/k your family. if that man is good for you, and you're happy with them, and if they want to remain ignorant, thinking that black people are somehow 2nd class citizens, then they need to go back and live in the 1950s. if you're family isn't happy because you're happy, then you don't need them. they are letting their own feelings get in the way of yours.

i had a sister who dated a black man, and loved him to death, but let my racist father and grandmother eventually break them up. that's such bull. the only time they really intervene in her life is to wreak a good thing. having a great friendship or relationship is having something special, and if other folks want to intervene on your happiness, then i've got to seriously question their love. if they have a problem with it, then they don't love you. they'd rather control you than let you be happy, as you define happiness, since that's the only terms a person knows how to live by, their own.
homie

United States

#16 Feb 19, 2010
Ride that big boy wrote:
I think your full of crap because your isp says b ville....your description of yourself says ~~~~WOW~~~~ so that plus a good job on top of finding an intellectual handsome man anywhere around here = bullshit 2 me!!!
I believe someones bored & using the mixing topic to get shit started!
i say one of the sisters on the lane sounds jealous
bro

United States

#17 Feb 19, 2010
blacks have proven theirselves to be the superior race,the only possible way for the white race to survive will be for the women to breed with blacks otherwise the white bloodlines will disapear completly

“always speak your mind be true”

Since: Jan 10

barbourville

#18 Feb 19, 2010
tom wrote:
don't do it. stick with your own race. white should with white and black with black. jmo
let me ask you if you had a daughter would you rather she be married to a black man that treated her like there was nothin like her or married to a white guy that beat her controled her every move and would not support her of work for a living now answer that question honestly if you can
a Racist

Burlington, KY

#19 Feb 19, 2010
tom wrote:
don't do it. stick with your own race. white should with white and black with black. jmo
Tom is a racist! Look everybody! I find one. Yep, they still exist. Who knew? Especially since it's 2010. Grow up and quit basking in your backwards dumb ignorant racist views. How can anybody respect somebody that would pick on a group of people that represent less than 3% of Knox County's population? Knox County is like 97% white, so you got, what, 10 black families? And these macho redneck wannabes want to show how dumb and backwards they are, and being proud in their overly racist ways... these people make me sick. These people are ruining my country, and they need to leave.

“always speak your mind be true”

Since: Jan 10

barbourville

#20 Feb 19, 2010
a Racist wrote:
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Tom is a racist! Look everybody! I find one. Yep, they still exist. Who knew? Especially since it's 2010. Grow up and quit basking in your backwards dumb ignorant racist views. How can anybody respect somebody that would pick on a group of people that represent less than 3% of Knox County's population? Knox County is like 97% white, so you got, what, 10 black families? And these macho redneck wannabes want to show how dumb and backwards they are, and being proud in their overly racist ways... these people make me sick. These people are ruining my country, and they need to leave.
barbourville is lucky to have a black population they are some of the finest people you ever talk to.
Tom

Corbin, KY

#21 Feb 19, 2010
a Racist wrote:
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Tom is a racist! Look everybody! I find one. Yep, they still exist. Who knew? Especially since it's 2010. Grow up and quit basking in your backwards dumb ignorant racist views. How can anybody respect somebody that would pick on a group of people that represent less than 3% of Knox County's population? Knox County is like 97% white, so you got, what, 10 black families? And these macho redneck wannabes want to show how dumb and backwards they are, and being proud in their overly racist ways... these people make me sick. These people are ruining my country, and they need to leave.
I don't have anything against black people. i just don't believe in mixed couples.

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