Married men/women with families

Married men/women with families

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Well

Mayfield, KY

#1 Sep 29, 2012
Why do married men/women cheat? Married men cheats on their wives & leaves there children behind! Then married women cheat on their husbands because the men are to dumb to realize what they have in front of them or they are pill heads & to lazy to get off of a couch & get a job! It's a shame that you see little kids grow up & no know who there dad/mom are because they are needle junkies & won't take care of them! Or either the kids are calling someone else mommy or daddy! I hate seeing children grow up like that, it tears me apart! 
I'm not talking about anyone pacific just saying!
Why have a child if you can't take the responsibility for your actions? A man should be a man a be a father! A woman should be woman enough to put her children first before anyone or anything! 
jungle bell

Mayfield, KY

#2 Sep 29, 2012
Well wrote:
Why do married men/women cheat? Married men cheats on their wives & leaves there children behind! Then married women cheat on their husbands because the men are to dumb to realize what they have in front of them or they are pill heads & to lazy to get off of a couch & get a job! It's a shame that you see little kids grow up & no know who there dad/mom are because they are needle junkies & won't take care of them! Or either the kids are calling someone else mommy or daddy! I hate seeing children grow up like that, it tears me apart!
I'm not talking about anyone pacific just saying!
Why have a child if you can't take the responsibility for your actions? A man should be a man a be a father! A woman should be woman enough to put her children first before anyone or anything!
Agreed!!

“Mental Toughness”

Since: Dec 10

Cannon, KY

#3 Sep 29, 2012
Well wrote:
Why do married men/women cheat? Married men cheats on their wives & leaves there children behind! Then married women cheat on their husbands because the men are to dumb to realize what they have in front of them or they are pill heads & to lazy to get off of a couch & get a job! It's a shame that you see little kids grow up & no know who there dad/mom are because they are needle junkies & won't take care of them! Or either the kids are calling someone else mommy or daddy! I hate seeing children grow up like that, it tears me apart! 
I'm not talking about anyone pacific just saying!
Why have a child if you can't take the responsibility for your actions? A man should be a man a be a father! A woman should be woman enough to put her children first before anyone or anything! 
Sometimes people just need a little more.
BoggsBunting

London, KY

#4 Sep 30, 2012
People cheat because they are selfish, plain and simple. They put themselves and their wishes first, ahead of their children and/or husband or wife. They selfishly think about themselves first and foremost. Some people might say: "how about if you're in a hopeless relationship...what do you do then"? Well, I WAS in a hopeless relationship, with a useless old hag at one point and time. I didn't cheat on her though. I left her @$$ and kept supporting my kids. I, then found someone else. There was no cheating involved on my part. There was no point in me cheating. I was in a bad situation, and I solved it the right way.

Since: Mar 12

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#5 Sep 30, 2012
BoggsBunting wrote:
People cheat because they are selfish, plain and simple. They put themselves and their wishes first, ahead of their children and/or husband or wife. They selfishly think about themselves first and foremost. Some people might say: "how about if you're in a hopeless relationship...what do you do then"? Well, I WAS in a hopeless relationship, with a useless old hag at one point and time. I didn't cheat on her though. I left her @$$ and kept supporting my kids. I, then found someone else. There was no cheating involved on my part. There was no point in me cheating. I was in a bad situation, and I solved it the right way.
I agree with u. Men n women r only thinking of themselves not their children. If u have to cheat in one relationship what makes u think u can deal with another?? The children r the only ones hurt as for the adults u deserve what u get.
Well

Corbin, KY

#6 Oct 4, 2012
I mean it rips me apart to watch little children be thrown around like play toys. The way I see it is if you can make a child than you can take responsibility for it! I'm pregnant right now & married, no cheating involved in our relationship we have been together for 5 happy years :) this is our first child & very excited..
workerB

Salem, WI

#7 Oct 5, 2012
I see this going on where I work. The people are both married, but they hang all over each other. I know the woman's husband, but I don't know the man's wife. At times I feel obligated to tell the woman's husband, but I bite my tongue because I don't feel like it's my place to mention it. I feel torn about what to do so I do nothing. I know, doing nothing is doing something, but I don't want to be caught in the middle.
dr phil

Corbin, KY

#8 Oct 5, 2012
Well wrote:
Why do married men/women cheat? Married men cheats on their wives & leaves there children behind! Then married women cheat on their husbands because the men are to dumb to realize what they have in front of them or they are pill heads & to lazy to get off of a couch & get a job! It's a shame that you see little kids grow up & no know who there dad/mom are because they are needle junkies & won't take care of them! Or either the kids are calling someone else mommy or daddy! I hate seeing children grow up like that, it tears me apart! 
I'm not talking about anyone pacific just saying!
Why have a child if you can't take the responsibility for your actions? A man should be a man a be a father! A woman should be woman enough to put her children first before anyone or anything! 
i'm not trying to act likr dr phil or anything,but i have been around for along time an have seen alot.an from what i gather of it is that most people do it for the excitement,or the thrill of it.ofcoarse they think they wont get caught.an alot of people do it because it makes them think that they STILL HAVE IT.LOL.i will have to say that i have never cheated in my life,i could never figure out why anyone would chance loseing their family.however my wife did cheat,an more than once.an she not only lost me but she also lost her two daughters.they was very young at the time an to this day they will have nothing to do with her.just a word of advise,,,,people think before you act because its not worth it at all.an you will sooner or later get caught an you will end up without your spouse an the person you are cheating with because they also know you are a cheater.lol.
Beenthere

Raccoon, KY

#9 Oct 6, 2012
workerB wrote:
I see this going on where I work. The people are both married, but they hang all over each other. I know the woman's husband, but I don't know the man's wife. At times I feel obligated to tell the woman's husband, but I bite my tongue because I don't feel like it's my place to mention it. I feel torn about what to do so I do nothing. I know, doing nothing is doing something, but I don't want to be caught in the middle.
In my opinion, it's a tough situation so mentioning it depends on how close u r to the husband. Maybe you can talk to the 2 people involved and tell them every knows what's going on. Hopefully, they will cut it out before they ruin their families. Again, it's a tough situation to be in.
dr phil

Corbin, KY

#10 Oct 6, 2012
workerB wrote:
I see this going on where I work. The people are both married, but they hang all over each other. I know the woman's husband, but I don't know the man's wife. At times I feel obligated to tell the woman's husband, but I bite my tongue because I don't feel like it's my place to mention it. I feel torn about what to do so I do nothing. I know, doing nothing is doing something, but I don't want to be caught in the middle.
i know that you dont want to be in the middle but on the other hand the woman knows that you know her husband an still continues to do this in front of you.the bad thing is that if this finally comes out in the open the husband which is suppose to be your frien will know that you was keeping it from him...the woman should'nt put you in this position to start with.
hoehater

Lexington, KY

#11 Oct 8, 2012
workerB wrote:
I see this going on where I work. The people are both married, but they hang all over each other. I know the woman's husband, but I don't know the man's wife. At times I feel obligated to tell the woman's husband, but I bite my tongue because I don't feel like it's my place to mention it. I feel torn about what to do so I do nothing. I know, doing nothing is doing something, but I don't want to be caught in the middle.
shout it from the roof tops and let the chips fall where they may,all hoes need the covers snatched off them and the light shown on them for what they are !!!
duhhhh

London, KY

#12 Oct 8, 2012
Well wrote:
Why do married men/women cheat? Married men cheats on their wives & leaves there children behind! Then married women cheat on their husbands because the men are to dumb to realize what they have in front of them or they are pill heads & to lazy to get off of a couch & get a job! It's a shame that you see little kids grow up & no know who there dad/mom are because they are needle junkies & won't take care of them! Or either the kids are calling someone else mommy or daddy! I hate seeing children grow up like that, it tears me apart! 
I'm not talking about anyone pacific just saying!
Why have a child if you can't take the responsibility for your actions? A man should be a man a be a father! A woman should be woman enough to put her children first before anyone or anything! 
YA got hehores, ya got shehores, they all got excuses...both the he's and the she's...

nosey self-righteous bittys like you have probably been down that road also, most of us have....some of us get caught, some of us dont...it all balances out=====half hehores, half shehores, the kids will eventually go through the same cycle...mind your own business and all will be better off, the he's the she's and the kids.
useless

Manchester, KY

#13 Oct 8, 2012
hoehater wrote:
<quoted text>shout it from the roof tops and let the chips fall where they may,all hoes need the covers snatched off them and the light shown on them for what they are !!!
From what I have seen over the yrs it does no good to tell the wife. the men are so good at lieing the woman usually ends up believing them and it is so devastating to the wife she really doesn't want to see it.

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