Yes. I hear your words. My aunt said the same thing when her last husband passed about 14 years ago. And she has stuck to it. However a year or so ago a gentleman walked into her life and all at once she was 16 ( with 60 years experience) again!!! Her face--and his-- would absolutely glow when the other walked into the room. She shyly confided in me that even though she'd been married 3 times (she buried the last two) she had never felt like this before! They were the most watched couple in their church and enjoyed every minute of it!! Lol<quoted text>
Oh, but I DO know !!. I said that 10 years ago and sticking to it. My friend is my best friend mainly because she feels the same way. We enjoy our time together, and enjoy doing our own thing when we are not. I am too old to be retrained and so is she. LOL
Alas, she lost her precious friend to cancer within the year but she holds the most wonderful and treasured memories in her heart!