Another "sucky" Valentine's Day about over.

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Danny

Sheridan, AR

#1 Feb 14, 2011
To me Valentine's Day sucks. Most people who feel this way are not in a relationship. I am, but it doesn't matter. Like always, I spent a lot of time, effort and money to make her feel special and appreciated. What did I get? Nothing...not even a "Happy Valentine's Day" comment. I'm tired of feeling like a damn sucker. I didn't expect wine and roses but...NOTHING? Why should I be the one who makes all the effort in this relationship? I've heard many women complain that they have to pull all the "romantic" load, in their relationship. Well, I'm a romantic guy, trying my *$$ off, for nothing. So, ladies, what the #@## is wrong with my woman? Aren't women supposed to be the "sensitive ones", and care about making their guy feel appreciated? She seems to enjoy everything I do for her Valentine's Day, and other special occasions. Plus, I try to make her feel special and appreciated every day. Does she not realize I have feelings, or what?
Danny

Sheridan, AR

#2 Feb 14, 2011
Sorry about posting twice...I didn't think the first one went through.
Amazing Grace

Monticello, KY

#3 Feb 14, 2011
Poor Danny. Have you tried to explain to her how you feel? If she gets mad about it, look for another lady. There's BAD women, just like there's BAD men. The world is full of them, and Knox County seems to have more than their quota. No reason to stay in a relationship that depresses you.
whocares

London, KY

#4 Feb 14, 2011
Danny wrote:
To me Valentine's Day sucks. Most people who feel this way are not in a relationship. I am, but it doesn't matter. Like always, I spent a lot of time, effort and money to make her feel special and appreciated. What did I get? Nothing...not even a "Happy Valentine's Day" comment. I'm tired of feeling like a damn sucker. I didn't expect wine and roses but...NOTHING? Why should I be the one who makes all the effort in this relationship? I've heard many women complain that they have to pull all the "romantic" load, in their relationship. Well, I'm a romantic guy, trying my *$$ off, for nothing. So, ladies, what the #@## is wrong with my woman? Aren't women supposed to be the "sensitive ones", and care about making their guy feel appreciated? She seems to enjoy everything I do for her Valentine's Day, and other special occasions. Plus, I try to make her feel special and appreciated every day. Does she not realize I have feelings, or what?
ok i'll dump mine for you
same here

United States

#5 Feb 14, 2013
I know just how you feel, tho here the roles are reversed...how long do I wait for him to wake up?
Barney Gribble

United States

#6 Feb 14, 2013
I had a pretty great one. Wife gave me a gift bag when I woke up that had lots of goodies in it. Later in the day I had flowers, chocolates, scented candles and a nice card waiting on her.
well

Madisonville, KY

#7 Feb 15, 2013
Be Happy with the love of your life if you love them sometimes people have not been taught how to consider someone else feelings, it has a lot to do with the way there were raised up as a child, in a home where love was not shown, I lost my one True love back several yrs ago to cancer but every day just about I think about him and I know if he was here he would do things for me but that's not why I miss him Sometimes I can see his hands and I can here his voice on what he say if he was here and could see some of the thing that are happen now. no one has every filled his place in my heart and I don't think they will every. if you have someone you love just hold on to them and enjoy everyday you can with them for they can be gone in just one heart beat.
True

Danville, KY

#8 Feb 15, 2013
well wrote:
Be Happy with the love of your life if you love them sometimes people have not been taught how to consider someone else feelings, it has a lot to do with the way there were raised up as a child, in a home where love was not shown, I lost my one True love back several yrs ago to cancer but every day just about I think about him and I know if he was here he would do things for me but that's not why I miss him Sometimes I can see his hands and I can here his voice on what he say if he was here and could see some of the thing that are happen now. no one has every filled his place in my heart and I don't think they will every. if you have someone you love just hold on to them and enjoy everyday you can with them for they can be gone in just one heart beat.
This is so true. We never know when we will lose someone and have our lives turned upside down. We never know when our time will come either. So why not enjoy every day like its our last.

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