Barboursville Youth Football
Just Saying

Elizabeth, WV

#116 Oct 9, 2012
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Hello

Charleston, WV

#117 Oct 14, 2012
Done wrote:
All u hear on hear are people blaming the board! Y don't the parents start taking some responsibility for their actions. Yes the board isn't the best! Do they know the rules and By-Laws, no not all of them. Who puts the board in year after year? The parents!
Then u hear about how bad the coaches are. Who votes the coaches in? The board votes the coaches in. We're all the right coaches put in this year, NO! That is why the president stepped down last year. It has become a continuos battle over who has done what wrong.
The bottom line is that the kids are the ones who are suffering. Now there are 11 kids that don't have a team. Not because of the board or because of coaches but because of parents.
Yes conditioning is hard but when you only have 13 kids and they are playing a full hour of Iron man football at the age of 9, yes 9 years old, you want them to be able to hold up during a game. Yes a little more praise could of been given, but that is when you as a parent step in and explain to your child that some people just don't give out positive attention enough and you make up for it on the side line and at home.
If anything is gonna change at BYFL then it comes down to the parents to step up at the end of the year and volunteer for a board position. Let the parents vote them in then when a coach puts their name in the box to coach, make sure the rules and guidelines are followed and coaches that praise the kids, know the sport, and want to be there for all the kids, not just their own are voted in and maybe things will change.
Until this happens you need to address you problems to the current board and coaches ( away from the kids) and let these kids know that they are the reason all of us parents have been out at the field every night.
Bottom line is as a parent your not always gonna get to choose your kids coach, teacher, wife, or boss. I try as a parent to explain to my child that they need to do the best that they can and understand that some people are just Stupid! So now 11 kids don't get to play football because people want to sit on Topix and voice their opinion instead of talking like Normal civilized adults!
Yes, every BYFL Executive Board member is to know the Constitution AND the Bylaws inside out. Hello, this is the purpose of an executive board. The BYFL E-Board is to follow and abide by these bylaws as well. The BYFL E-Board is to set an example to the entire league by doing so. No excuses, ever!! When your Board fails you, your league begins to crumble. It is then up to the PARENTS of the children within the league to stand up and make their voices heard! If the voting and placement of the coaches was followed as the BYFL Bylaws have set forth, there would have been a C-Team this season. Coaching decisions have been the responsibility of the BYFL Executive Board. However, if this is not being carried out according to the BYFL Bylaws, then the BYFL Bylaws should be ammended, or the entire Executive Board should be replaced. Yes the previous president stepped down due to this among other conflicts. However, you must be aware, coaching positions are voted upon by ALL E-Board members, excluding the president, in less a tie. Majority wins. Randy's name was illegally placed on the ballot for the position by an e-board member. But, ALL members knew this when they voted him into the position of c-team coach! Randy has been with the league for many years and despite what many may say, is an awesome coach. However, we all know who should have rightfully been appointed the position. BYFL POLITICS!!!
Dont hold out too much hope for 2013 either. Tara may be out, but she was NOT the one whom added Randy's name to the coaching ballot. Remember, she didnt even have a vote!
Look for future problems within your league as the snake is still in the grass.
Pixie

Nitro, WV

#118 Oct 14, 2012
This behavior has been going on within this group for I know of the past 3 years! Someone is always pointing the finger and calling out names of someone to accuse for this or for that. Bottom line is, if you don't like the way things are being done, let it be known at the meetings, not with your gossip and bickering! Everyone says it's all about the children. Really? To an outsider looking in, that's sure not the way you all make it look! If it were really all about the kids, you would stop with this nonsense and make this league what it used to be! A GREAT LEAGUE THAT HAD GREAT PARENTAL SUPPORT FOR THE KIDS AND THE COMMUNITY! Instead, you all sound like a bunch of cry babies that just sit on the sidelines and think up crap to complain about. If you think you could do a better job than those that were voted in, why didn't you put your hat in for the positions that were voted on? This league used to be one that parents and community were proud of, proud to support and didn't always have PARENTS talking bad about them. That's really bad when it gets to the point that the parents are the ones that are giving the league the bad name. What kind of an example are you setting for your children? I'm sure they have overheard alot of the talk that the parents are having about their league. Would you want to be a part of that? Come on parents, shape up! Get behind your league instead of creating drama! Let your community once again be proud to be a part of your league, and once again be the envy of others!!!
Omin a

Ardsley, NY

#119 Oct 14, 2012
Hello wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes, every BYFL Executive Board member is to know the Constitution AND the Bylaws inside out. Hello, this is the purpose of an executive board. The BYFL E-Board is to follow and abide by these bylaws as well. The BYFL E-Board is to set an example to the entire league by doing so. No excuses, ever!! When your Board fails you, your league begins to crumble. It is then up to the PARENTS of the children within the league to stand up and make their voices heard! If the voting and placement of the coaches was followed as the BYFL Bylaws have set forth, there would have been a C-Team this season. Coaching decisions have been the responsibility of the BYFL Executive Board. However, if this is not being carried out according to the BYFL Bylaws, then the BYFL Bylaws should be ammended, or the entire Executive Board should be replaced. Yes the previous president stepped down due to this among other conflicts. However, you must be aware, coaching positions are voted upon by ALL E-Board members, excluding the president, in less a tie. Majority wins. Randy's name was illegally placed on the ballot for the position by an e-board member. But, ALL members knew this when they voted him into the position of c-team coach! Randy has been with the league for many years and despite what many may say, is an awesome coach. However, we all know who should have rightfully been appointed the position. BYFL POLITICS!!!
Dont hold out too much hope for 2013 either. Tara may be out, but she was NOT the one whom added Randy's name to the coaching ballot. Remember, she didnt even have a vote!
Look for future problems within your league as the snake is still in the grass.
Ok since you know so much, at that time Tara DID have a vote. She as well as Julie and Osburn voted Randy in. It wasn't illegal all coaches could have a 2nd option. For example Brian Lawhorn was put down for every team. Now since none of us is God, how can you honestly say there would have been a C? Get a life as well as a clue!
Doubtful

Ardsley, NY

#120 Oct 14, 2012
If you are referring to Julie as being the snake in the grass, then you are ignorant! She knows and cares more about the league than anyone else I know.. Maybe the snake is YOU!!!!! YOU get on a sight to hide your name and talk about others! If you truly believe what you say, confront the so called snake, if you care about BYFL so much then remove the snake! Do something but gossip.
Hello wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes, every BYFL Executive Board member is to know the Constitution AND the Bylaws inside out. Hello, this is the purpose of an executive board. The BYFL E-Board is to follow and abide by these bylaws as well. The BYFL E-Board is to set an example to the entire league by doing so. No excuses, ever!! When your Board fails you, your league begins to crumble. It is then up to the PARENTS of the children within the league to stand up and make their voices heard! If the voting and placement of the coaches was followed as the BYFL Bylaws have set forth, there would have been a C-Team this season. Coaching decisions have been the responsibility of the BYFL Executive Board. However, if this is not being carried out according to the BYFL Bylaws, then the BYFL Bylaws should be ammended, or the entire Executive Board should be replaced. Yes the previous president stepped down due to this among other conflicts. However, you must be aware, coaching positions are voted upon by ALL E-Board members, excluding the president, in less a tie. Majority wins. Randy's name was illegally placed on the ballot for the position by an e-board member. But, ALL members knew this when they voted him into the position of c-team coach! Randy has been with the league for many years and despite what many may say, is an awesome coach. However, we all know who should have rightfully been appointed the position. BYFL POLITICS!!!
Dont hold out too much hope for 2013 either. Tara may be out, but she was NOT the one whom added Randy's name to the coaching ballot. Remember, she didnt even have a vote!
Look for future problems within your league as the snake is still in the grass.
Here we go again

Elizabeth, WV

#121 Oct 15, 2012
And on this week's episode of "Desperate Football Mom's of Barboursville".....
Unknown

Springfield, NJ

#122 Oct 15, 2012
Clever.....
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mom of E teamer

Nitro, WV

#125 Oct 18, 2012
they finally had someone check the books that knew what to look for, some team mom, they dont even get a end of the year gift unless the parents chip in, hell we gave those people enough.they went in the hole with the big fundraiser, those two will get theirs, i`d personally like to see someone clean the field with both of them.
Ian Moone

Huntington, WV

#126 Oct 18, 2012
You people are hilarious. You show nothing but a complete lack of a basic high school education and true ignorance. You have absolutely no idea what you are even talking about. This is nothing but mindless, malicious gossip and you people are dumb enough to believe it and keep spreading it. There are some true idiots on the Bville sidelines this year. We have been shown this fact over and over this year.
ashamed

Huntington, WV

#127 Oct 20, 2012
barbousville use to have pride, compassion and love. I was so proud to tell everyone how well you treated our children. Shame on you did the money get in the way? Parents you need to start standing up for your children. If you stand united you can make a difference and one voice can make a difference. Sound like barbousville is only for a chosen few. Maybe the others shoud have their own team. Shame on you for not letting all children have the opportunity to learn and grow. Every child is special and if your child isn't being treated fairly then we need to stand up and shout to the roof tops of the injustice. Officals that are elected by the people should be for all the people not just a chosen few but as long as we let them get by with it they are going to continue then what are we teaching our children. To give up the fight of unfairness I think not. Stand up and be heard you do count. Your children matters. You can't change things by keeping silent and saying there's nothing I can do. Change things get other people's opinions you might be surprised how they feel stand together and change things for our children god bless
northern dude

Lansing, MI

#128 Oct 21, 2012
First, so many of your people NEED TO USE PARAGRAPHS. You come across with more credibility if we can read your posts.

Secondly, I have a feeling most of the bitc%ing is comeing from parents of children who just are not really skilled at football. Nothing wrong with that, football may just not be their thing.

Thirdly, there are some really out of shape parents and children representing the Barboursville area, lets eat less and move more people.
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Check your facts

Milton, WV

#130 Oct 22, 2012
The fundraiser actually made 4000 for the league............
lol

Charleston, WV

#131 Oct 22, 2012
northern dude wrote:
First, so many of your people NEED TO USE PARAGRAPHS. You come across with more credibility if we can read your posts.
Secondly, I have a feeling most of the bitc%ing is comeing from parents of children who just are not really skilled at football. Nothing wrong with that, football may just not be their thing.
Thirdly, there are some really out of shape parents and children representing the Barboursville area, lets eat less and move more people.
Says the genius who can't spell "coming" correctly...go crawl back to your Mother's basement and turn on spell check :)
beermoney

Huntington, WV

#132 Oct 22, 2012
so are they going to press charges against the D team mom hey caught stealing (crazy bitch jenn d )
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fbmom

Ardsley, NY

#134 Oct 22, 2012
There was no money stolen. What makes you even think this?
beermoney wrote:
so are they going to press charges against the D team mom hey caught stealing (crazy bitch jenn d )
Ian Moone

Springfield, NJ

#135 Oct 22, 2012
beermoney wrote:
so are they going to press charges against the D team mom hey caught stealing (crazy bitch jenn d )
Do you have a mental defect or just stupid? Maybe both apply to you. Another ignorant comment from the sidelines. There are about 5 people that has caused the majority of drama this season and most of the team parents are tired of listening to it. I do not need to name any of the 5 because you know who you are and so does everyone else. The sad part is that the "normal" parents talk about you behind your backs and make fun of you because you are total idiots. Your post is another fine example of your complete stupidity. Makes for some good humor. The board already made several of you look like liars and drama queens at the meeting after the game. Lmao.
buc

Ardsley, NY

#136 Oct 22, 2012
Ian Moone wrote:
<quoted text>Do you have a mental defect or just stupid? Maybe both apply to you. Another ignorant comment from the sidelines. There are about 5 people that has caused the majority of drama this season and most of the team parents are tired of listening to it. I do not need to name any of the 5 because you know who you are and so does everyone else. The sad part is that the "normal" parents talk about you behind your backs and make fun of you because you are total idiots. Your post is another fine example of your complete stupidity. Makes for some good humor. The board already made several of you look like liars and drama queens at the meeting after the game. Lmao.
haha! Who are the 5??
bucs fan

United States

#137 Oct 22, 2012
Just take a guess!
former BFF

Charleston, WV

#138 Oct 22, 2012
From what everybody else see's it is 3 and they have needed to go for a long time. As far as people looking stupid at the meeting after the game, the only one who looked stupid was the one in question for hiding around the corner instead of showing her face and answering the questions that the parents of the team had. Who quits on a team not just the parents but the children? Oh yeah, somebody who has no integrity and who has done nothing all season long. You leave the kids hanging and leave it to somebody else to take care of. Pretty pathetic if you ask me, not to mention a great example for your child. If you quit on the team what is that teaching the child? Drama follows this woman everywhere she goes. Nobody likes her besides the ones who have not had the privledge of finding out who she really is. She burns bridges is every league her kids play in. Everybody talks about her at her kids school, she will try and steal your husband in a heartbeat if you turn your back and she has no loyalty to anybody. Then she wants to play the everybody is jealous of me card. Give me a break! You may be pretty after all that plastic surgery, but you are ugly on the inside and everybody who knows you knows it. The only peole she has in her corner are the ones she is screwing or hasn't screwed over yet. Everybody will see her true colors soon enough, I sure did.
Carolyn Crockett Ballard

Lansing, MI

#139 Oct 23, 2012
former BFF wrote:
From what everybody else see's it is 3 and they have needed to go for a long time. As far as people looking stupid at the meeting after the game, the only one who looked stupid was the one in question for hiding around the corner instead of showing her face and answering the questions that the parents of the team had. Who quits on a team not just the parents but the children? Oh yeah, somebody who has no integrity and who has done nothing all season long. You leave the kids hanging and leave it to somebody else to take care of. Pretty pathetic if you ask me, not to mention a great example for your child. If you quit on the team what is that teaching the child? Drama follows this woman everywhere she goes. Nobody likes her besides the ones who have not had the privledge of finding out who she really is. She burns bridges is every league her kids play in. Everybody talks about her at her kids school, she will try and steal your husband in a heartbeat if you turn your back and she has no loyalty to anybody. Then she wants to play the everybody is jealous of me card. Give me a break! You may be pretty after all that plastic surgery, but you are ugly on the inside and everybody who knows you knows it. The only peole she has in her corner are the ones she is screwing or hasn't screwed over yet. Everybody will see her true colors soon enough, I sure did.
First, you are the COWARD by not using your REAL name.

Second, your spelling tells me you are not educated.

Third, paragraphs are your friend and makes you be taken much more seriously.

Fourth, you come off as being jealous and insecure. Grow up.

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