Bad Parents Cheat Good Parents Do Not

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Shocked Person

Hurricane, WV

#1 Aug 1, 2013
In my opinion, only a POS parent cheats. Get a dang divorce first. You're setting an example for your children. If you're offended by this, you must be a cheater.
Freedom One

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#2 Aug 1, 2013
Shocked Person wrote:
In my opinion, only a POS parent cheats. Get a dang divorce first. You're setting an example for your children. If you're offended by this, you must be a cheater.
Not offended to tell you that you're wrong, you can love your child and be sick of it's boring mother or father. Sometimes a little clam or wiener on the side can save a marriage that is hopeless.
betrayed

Hurricane, WV

#3 Aug 1, 2013
Freedom One wrote:
<quoted text>Not offended to tell you that you're wrong, you can love your child and be sick of it's boring mother or father. Sometimes a little clam or wiener on the side can save a marriage that is hopeless.
If you cheat, you care more about yourself than you do your children.
Freedom One

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#4 Aug 1, 2013
betrayed wrote:
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If you cheat, you care more about yourself than you do your children.
Sometimes it's just not going to work, if the spouse is an azzhole they need cheated on. Take a close look at yourself?? Why did they lose interest in you?
betrayed

Hurricane, WV

#5 Aug 1, 2013
Freedom One wrote:
<quoted text>Sometimes it's just not going to work, if the spouse is an azzhole they need cheated on. Take a close look at yourself?? Why did they lose interest in you?
I wasn't good enough I guess. My ex should have divorced before straying. Would have saved our kids a lot of heartache and honestly been a much less expensive divorce.
Bright Red 666

San Jose, CA

#6 Aug 1, 2013
betrayed wrote:
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I wasn't good enough I guess. My ex should have divorced before straying. Would have saved our kids a lot of heartache and honestly been a much less expensive divorce.
Some men do things different, I would have told you and what you could do to save the marriage "if" it was your fault.
If I loved you enough to have kids by you, then I would never have strayed.
Bright Red 666

San Jose, CA

#7 Aug 1, 2013
Betrayed, I can help you get over this if you want with very little pain. Tell me?
Buy American

San Jose, CA

#8 Aug 1, 2013
I can help you betrayed, ask me how? I'm a priest.
mrs nasty

Hurricane, WV

#9 Aug 2, 2013
betrayed wrote:
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If you cheat, you care more about yourself than you do your children.
This is true!

I know men and women who have had affairs and they always try to justify it but honestly they cheat because they wanted to try to fulfill something for THEMSELVES.

They cared more about THEIR desires than their children's feelings.
Sooo right

Ashland, KY

#10 Aug 2, 2013
Shocked Person wrote:
In my opinion, only a POS parent cheats. Get a dang divorce first. You're setting an example for your children. If you're offended by this, you must be a cheater.
Only pos cheat during marriage instead of just saying I want a divorce. Was married to a cheater and tried to save my marriage but it was just one right after the other. I wonder if he thought about his children and what this was doing to them...I'm here to tell you they will never be the same..but I got out and the kids are doing so well now:) to see them happy and smiling is all I need
Sooo right

Ashland, KY

#11 Aug 2, 2013
Freedom One wrote:
<quoted text>Sometimes it's just not going to work, if the spouse is an azzhole they need cheated on. Take a close look at yourself?? Why did they lose interest in you?
And you must be one of those azzholes!!!
:(

Saint Albans, WV

#12 Aug 24, 2013
I am a daughter to a family who fell apart because my dad cheated, my mom is the most amazing woman, he was just to into trying to stay young, my brother is now in jail & my sister sells her body for money&drugs. I followed my mom, a cheater does hurt the kids, I know this, I been there, my mom was so hurt she cried all the time, & went into depression all because he wanted to mess around, if he didn't want her & only her he should have left us before hand not cheated repeatedly then have us find out the hard way. My dad is a asswhole he tore us apart. & now being married with kids i still &always will have that fear of being used just like my dad used my mom.
big b

Huntington, WV

#13 Aug 25, 2013
if its not working just walf a way end it its better for all concerned start a new life allow others to do the same its the right thing to do
football mommy

Saint Louis, MO

#14 Aug 26, 2013
just cause someone cheats do not mean they is bad parent it might be the married is not good and they want a backup plan before divorcine
:(

Huntington, WV

#15 Aug 26, 2013
A back up plan wow u sound like a a$$, cheaters are shitty people who only care about themselves If your not happy LEAVE
anti monogamy

Monongahela, PA

#16 Aug 26, 2013
Sex has nothing to do with parenting skills. People are such idiots.
:(

Saint Albans, WV

#17 Aug 26, 2013
anti monogamy wrote:
Sex has nothing to do with parenting skills. People are such idiots.
If ur messing around on there mommy or daddy and they find out they either think your a bad parent because u said u love the other parent or try are be like u and treat there lover like crap, if u cheat you hurt ur parter and your kids will see that.
nosnoyjing

Huntington, WV

#18 Aug 26, 2013
[QUOTE who=":("]<quoted text>
If ur messing around on there mommy or daddy and they find out they either think your a bad parent because u said u love the other parent or try are be like u and treat there lover like crap, if u cheat you hurt ur parter and your kids will see that.[/QUOTE]nothing wrong with getting a little strange once in awhile. Now didn't your husband go to jail for not paying his child support with his tattoo money. Shut up and get a job.
:(

Saint Albans, WV

#19 Aug 27, 2013
nosnoyjing wrote:
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If ur messing around on there mommy or daddy and they find out they either think your a bad parent because u said u love the other parent or try are be like u and treat there lover like crap, if u cheat you hurt ur parter and your kids will see that. "

nothing wrong with getting a little strange once in awhile. Now didn't your husband go to jail for not paying his child support with his tattoo money. Shut up and get a job.
Ok I'm confused ? I'm still married & never cheated, if u chose to be with someone it's f*cked up to cheat. Just don't make a family if u don't want them.
blah

Saint Albans, WV

#20 Aug 27, 2013
anti monogamy wrote:
Sex has nothing to do with parenting skills. People are such idiots.
It says something about a parents character when they cheat. Breaking vows is a sign of weakness. Having a parent that can't maintain their vows is a big deal to me. Just get divorced first. The betrayal is awful once your kids find out that you are a loser. Most cheaters have low self esteem and know they suck as a parent...just sayin. You are lying to your family when you cheat.

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