We are all sinners. Jesus created a Sacrament to confess these sins. Have you confessed yours?<quoted text>
Hating is not what sends one to hell. Being a Christian does not make anyone perfect. Studying God's Word will convict one of the hurtful things they do. 90% of the people going to church are not saved. Really! If one does not know God but only knows about God they are not a Christian. One can not truly love anyone without God. We are all sinners but if we confess and ask Jesus he will forgive us and change our hearts. Going to church will not save anyone. We are saved by Grace not by what we do, you just don't have the desire for the bad things of this world.
As far as sin I go by what God says is sin. You can still love a person but hate the sin. Hating sin does not make one a bad person. Don't judge God by what you hear but study the Bible and you will learn about God's amazing love for everyone. God does not turn away from us but gives us free choice to choose Him or the evil one, Satan. John 3:16
Whatever sins you forgive or forgiven in heaven, whatever are retained or retained in heaven.