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freckels

Atlanta, GA

#1 Mar 7, 2007
i will be moving to the va area soon and while visting with my boyfriend, who is white and i am black, i have noticed that we cause a stir where ever we go. is it really that serious? do i have this to look forward to everytime we go out in public in va? we dont mind the stares because we give them something to look at..and the stares come from whites as well as black people. we noticed that the looks that could kill come from white females and black males.. hmmm some one explain that to me.

Since: Apr 07

Miami Beach, FL

#2 Apr 5, 2007
You guys r gonna cause a stir. Mostly b/c VA is just ass backwards. Everyone in this whole damn aera is super insecure. I lives there for twenty five years as a bi-racial girl, that "could pass" with mys good hair and shit, and dated black guys. U wouldn't believe the stares and even desertion from people I thougt were my friends!!! I left when the firest opportunity presented itself and I hardly eva go back. Remember they don't know about you & your man. Chalk it up to insecurity and ignorrance!!
Gary

Bowie, MD

#3 May 10, 2007
"...we dont mind the stares because we give them something to look at..and the stares come from whites as well as black people."

Maybe instead of minding your own business, you are creating an atmosphere of hostile looks.

It is a real shame that not everyone conforms to your idea of what society should be. Most (white-black-mutant) find interacting with other races as being uncomfortable.

Many races are here. I am not sure why but GOD had (has) a reason. People also have the right of association. I have no personal want or need to mix with other races. Cultures and social habits are very different and while it is my obligation to allow for these differences, I should be in no way forced into accepting others social and/or moral values, or feeling uncomfortable while around them.

If you feel the need to enter into an inter-racial relationship, just be reminded that most do not accept it. Also be reminded that mixed children will have their own problems in society.

I used to be very intolerant of it but now realize as old age approaches that the decision is an individuals. It is much like abortion. There is no rhyme or reason for it. But on the other hand, what type of life will that child have with a mother that considered killing it?

You do controversal things in society, expect negative reactions or consider moving to a more liberal region.
Bob Dylan

Tuxedo, NC

#4 May 22, 2007
I agree that inter-racial relationships are going to have their share of problems brought on by the intolerance of most in our society. But comparing an abortion to the thought of a black woman and a white man's relationship is a bit much, doncha think?

You had me until you said that.

LMD

“R U Serious”

Since: May 07

Fort Worth TX

#5 Jun 4, 2007
freckels wrote:
i will be moving to the va area soon and while visting with my boyfriend, who is white and i am black, i have noticed that we cause a stir where ever we go. is it really that serious? do i have this to look forward to everytime we go out in public in va? we dont mind the stares because we give them something to look at..and the stares come from whites as well as black people. we noticed that the looks that could kill come from white females and black males.. hmmm some one explain that to me.
I am a white female with 2 bi racial children, I left VA for the exact same reason, you would not believe the things I heard while I lived there. All of my family live there now but I choose not to visit because of the mentallity of most of the residents there.
Gary

Bowie, MD

#6 Jun 7, 2007
Bob Dylan wrote:
I agree that inter-racial relationships are going to have their share of problems brought on by the intolerance of most in our society. But comparing an abortion to the thought of a black woman and a white man's relationship is a bit much, doncha think?
You had me until you said that.
Gary previously posted wrote:
I used to be very intolerant of it but now realize as old age approaches that the decision is an individuals. It is much like abortion. There is no rhyme or reason for it. But on the other hand, what type of life will that child have with a mother that considered killing it?
Well not to me, but that's me. It is simple as this. People bring mixed children into this world, our present society. Neither race is fully going to accept them, unfortunate but fact. I equate this to there being no legal abortion (and legalized abortion is truly tragic), in that many children would be brought into this world and be expected to develop normally in a most likely hostile and uncaring enviroment.

The truth of the matter is that races are very different, and the majority of neither wants to mingle completely with the other. I have no desire but I am but one person. Whatever another chooses, is entirely his/her/mutant choice. But don't ask me to feel sorry for you while you are ramming something I may find offensive down my throat.
Simply go about your daily life and not make a spectacle of it or yourself.
freckels

Atlanta, GA

#7 Jun 14, 2007
Gary wrote:
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Well not to me, but that's me. It is simple as this. People bring mixed children into this world, our present society. Neither race is fully going to accept them, unfortunate but fact. I equate this to there being no legal abortion (and legalized abortion is truly tragic), in that many children would be brought into this world and be expected to develop normally in a most likely hostile and uncaring enviroment.
The truth of the matter is that races are very different, and the majority of neither wants to mingle completely with the other. I have no desire but I am but one person. Whatever another chooses, is entirely his/her/mutant choice. But don't ask me to feel sorry for you while you are ramming something I may find offensive down my throat.
Simply go about your daily life and not make a spectacle of it or yourself.
i am not ramming anything down your throat. you dont have to stare at an IR couple,you can look away. i have the right to date and love whom ever i choose to. and as far as the beautiful babies, they are human beings and they will be loved. its people like you that keep the myth and the hatefullness going.

P.S.- i dont ask for pity, never have and never will. but i will not be ashamed of who i fell in love with, black or white.
Gary

Bowie, MD

#8 Jun 19, 2007
freckels wrote:
i am not ramming anything down your throat.
Really?

[QUOTE who="freckels 1 Mar 7, 2007"]

i have noticed that we cause a stir where ever we go. is it really that serious? we dont mind the stares because we give them something to look at..[/QUOTE]

Sounds like you are forcing something upon me by just this past statement. Personally, I could care less whom you date and/or procreate with, it is simply your business. But don't ask me to approve or disapprove.

You would be much better off paying more attention to your partner rather than looking for the approval and/or reaction(s) of others.

And no, I am not predjudiced as I hate most all people on an equal basis more or less as evidenced by their lack of social skills and consideration of others.

Since: Jul 07

Winston Salem, NC

#9 Jul 30, 2007
I am the PROUD young 40yr. old Gramma of a beautiful bi-racial little girl. She's smart as a whip, and extremely social and polite. I'm lilly white and her creamy brown skin and eyes are like something out of a painting! When we go to the store, we always get looks, but it's by people who can't help themselves but stop and say how precious she is (she's 3yrs. old) and how she belongs in commercials because of her beauty and personality!!
All I can say is THANK GOD he made her exactly as she is!! And I live on the NC/VA border!!
linda wilson

United States

#10 Aug 19, 2007
freckels wrote:
i will be moving to the va area soon and while visting with my boyfriend, who is white and i am black, i have noticed that we cause a stir where ever we go. is it really that serious? do i have this to look forward to everytime we go out in public in va? we dont mind the stares because we give them something to look at..and the stares come from whites as well as black people. we noticed that the looks that could kill come from white females and black males.. hmmm some one explain that to me.
i agree with u whole heartly because i'm mixed and everyone tries to give me a hard time because i'm dating a nice black man . u wouldn't beleive i'm mixed by looking at me but i am... u have the god given right to date anyone u choose to. i give u much respect and ilive in va.later
linda wilson in va

United States

#11 Aug 19, 2007
I give u much respect 4 standing up 2 anyone who gives u guys those nasty looks.
I am mixed and so is my child but just looking at us u wouldn't no it. i date a very nice looking bother who is well known. i wanted 2 say thanks a million 4 saying something about it...
Gary

Bowie, MD

#12 Aug 22, 2007
There is no "mixed". Either you are or you aren't, no in between.

LMD

“R U Serious”

Since: May 07

Fort Worth TX

#13 Aug 22, 2007
Gary wrote:
There is no "mixed". Either you are or you aren't, no in between.
its called Bi racial...
Gary

Bowie, MD

#14 Aug 23, 2007
LMD wrote:
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its called Bi racial...
Hmmph....

What is it called when the mother has been overly sexually active and is not sure of either the father and/or his race?

Bi-Racial implies a person is comfortable mixing with a partner of any and all races. Mixed race would be a more exact description of a child conceived directly from a mixed relationship.

LMD

“R U Serious”

Since: May 07

Fort Worth TX

#15 Aug 23, 2007
Gary wrote:
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Hmmph....
What is it called when the mother has been overly sexually active and is not sure of either the father and/or his race?
Bi-Racial implies a person is comfortable mixing with a partner of any and all races. Mixed race would be a more exact description of a child conceived directly from a mixed relationship.
OK so is there are is there not a such thing as mixed race? would you make up your mind. My children are Bi Racial, they know who their father is and they understand that their mother is white and their father is black enough said.
And as far as you comment of the women overly sexually and don't know who the father is or his race they are called whores.
Gary

Bowie, MD

#16 Aug 26, 2007
LMD wrote:
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OK so is there are is there not a such thing as mixed race? would you make up your mind. My children are Bi Racial, they know who their father is and they understand that their mother is white and their father is black enough said.
There is no "mix". Either you are white or black. If you show Negro characteristics, you are black. If you desire a term other than Negro, try mulato.

BI-RACIAL (again) implies ones' desire/tendency to date one of another race. Same implication as BI-SEXUAL. BI-RACIAL also implies the child can choose which race he/she/mutant is. That decision has already been made by the parents.

LMD

“R U Serious”

Since: May 07

Fort Worth TX

#17 Aug 26, 2007
Gary wrote:
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There is no "mix". Either you are white or black. If you show Negro characteristics, you are black. If you desire a term other than Negro, try mulato.
BI-RACIAL (again) implies ones' desire/tendency to date one of another race. Same implication as BI-SEXUAL. BI-RACIAL also implies the child can choose which race he/she/mutant is. That decision has already been made by the parents.
OK I will quit replying to you, I see your a simple minded person... I try not to deal with people like you, thats why I left VA in the first place... Its been nice...
Gary

Bowie, MD

#18 Aug 27, 2007
LMD wrote:
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OK I will quit replying to you, I see your a simple minded person... I try not to deal with people like you, thats why I left VA in the first place... Its been nice...
No, you are obviously the simple minded person here as you decided to procreate inter-racially and you are now seeking approval on a public forum. Is your mate still with you or did he move on?

LMD

“R U Serious”

Since: May 07

Fort Worth TX

#19 Aug 27, 2007
Gary wrote:
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No, you are obviously the simple minded person here as you decided to procreate inter-racially and you are now seeking approval on a public forum. Is your mate still with you or did he move on?
I married him for your info... And I did not start this thread so I am not looking for anyones approval sweetie... I would not give a rats azz who cares about who I am with they will get over it... People who hate on it, I just chalk it up to misery loves company dear... Good day sir...

“Insert witty comment <here>”

Since: Aug 07

Wyoming, MI

#20 Aug 27, 2007
Gary wrote:
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No, you are obviously the simple minded person here as you decided to procreate inter-racially and you are now seeking approval on a public forum. Is your mate still with you or did he move on?
Gary maybe you need to go get your hood tailored. It seems to have cut the blood supply off to your brain.

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