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Pissed in Ava

Branson, MO

#22 Aug 26, 2012
SuZ wrote:
Oh nonsense I dont let kids eat chips as a given either. Nothing healthy about them. Gainsville youre a idiot.
I think rather then getting drawn into a insult match with you I will just agree with All the opinions posted about YOU!!!! btw I have been a SINGLE FATHER of TWO happy healthy straight "A" children for 15 years now so I think I know a thing or two about raising kids! Oh and I never got a damn dime of child support in all those years when ya aint got nuthin ya feed your kids whatever you can get your hands on I have went without any food at all many a nite so my kids could eat.
SuZ

United States

#23 Aug 26, 2012
In my opinion - From what was posted I sensed there was more of an underlying personal issue than acknowledged ... cant say I know for a fact.

I'd feed any child anytime but I also make contact with the parent. Something you might want to keep in mind.
"allergy" was an example - another one that hits close to home is diabetic there are other reasons beyond common courtesy Im not talking about a child put in my care - it was made to sound that the child just wondered in and begged for food - Which btw kids will also play to the tilt . This isnt my first time around the block. The rest I'll just laugh off as a contradiction.
I wouldnt be asking topix if I had any true concern - there wouldnt be any anonymous crap to it either . I address the parent to their face and dial 911.
Pissed in Ava

Branson, MO

#24 Aug 26, 2012
SuZ wrote:
In my opinion - From what was posted I sensed there was more of an underlying personal issue than acknowledged ... cant say I know for a fact.
I'd feed any child anytime but I also make contact with the parent. Something you might want to keep in mind.
"allergy" was an example - another one that hits close to home is diabetic there are other reasons beyond common courtesy Im not talking about a child put in my care - it was made to sound that the child just wondered in and begged for food - Which btw kids will also play to the tilt . This isnt my first time around the block. The rest I'll just laugh off as a contradiction.
I wouldnt be asking topix if I had any true concern - there wouldnt be any anonymous crap to it either . I address the parent to their face and dial 911.
I have to agree with you now
SuZ

United States

#25 Aug 26, 2012
Pissed in Ava wrote:
<quoted text> I think rather then getting drawn into a insult match with you I will just agree with All the opinions posted about YOU!!!! btw I have been a SINGLE FATHER of TWO happy healthy straight "A" children for 15 years now so I think I know a thing or two about raising kids! Oh and I never got a damn dime of child support in all those years when ya aint got nuthin ya feed your kids whatever you can get your hands on I have went without any food at all many a nite so my kids could eat.
Plotting to set the neighbor up by doing some type of covert sounding potato chip operation is just that -stupid . That does mean you are but the idea sure was.
Pissed in Ava

Branson, MO

#26 Aug 27, 2012
what I was getting at is, do some research dont go by a distant or first impression and make sure that its not about petty anger, prejudice or revenge ,that just ties up the child protection officials when they could be actually be saving a child in danger somewhere else
SuZ

United States

#27 Aug 27, 2012
My first impression of the inital post was the person was already opinionated and just looking for anyone to say yes. I felt like they needed to justify the reason to call based on a strangers input. That, I dont agree with. So my reply did not reflect support based on those reasons.
A malnourished individual is a hard hide. So many of todays youth are actually overweight . Its a shame.
On the other hand I feel Ive crossed paths with a family members friend that may be showing signs of an eating disorder . My first approach has been to address my own to make sure they arent also picking up on it b/c that is where my true obligation lies. Its not my place to tell another parent how to parent but I did tell the other parent that this is something I will watch for so there was no need to put them on the defensive prematurely. I'm sure I can come across as an idiot pulling meal records, but I do it well.
-lol
SuZ

United States

#28 Aug 27, 2012
Nor is it the size I'm picking up on besides their childs choice not to eat, its the hair , nails , even skin. Sooner or later it comes down to -
You cant control another persons choices and a lot of people have issues with that. Its not for me to try and correct either. There is also a need to respect anothers choice .
you gotta be kidding

Gower, MO

#29 Aug 27, 2012
No person has the right to choose not to adequately care for their children. I did not read anything that indicated that these children are choosing not to eat, but that they are hungry. To the original poster: Please do not make a false report on these people because you have a grudge against them, etc. But if you truly believe they are neglected or mistreated, please make that call.
usa

United States

#30 Aug 27, 2012
It's amazing SuZ that your brilliant idea of taking care of children is to throw soap on the ground for them!!! Omg get real you slimy bitch
SuZ

United States

#31 Aug 27, 2012
That was only an example on how to "maybe" solve a concern that by law would not be defined as neglect . Kids play outside . I said I didnt care for the fact they werent clean.
I dont care for parents that dont teach their kids to brush their teeth right also.
Move on . No one is blind to what was wrote .
"OMG" -lol
usa

United States

#32 Aug 27, 2012
SuZ wrote:
That was only an example on how to "maybe" solve a concern that by law would not be defined as neglect . Kids play outside . I said I didnt care for the fact they werent clean.
I dont care for parents that dont teach their kids to brush their teeth right also.
Move on . No one is blind to what was wrote .
"OMG" -lol
Ya you will probably get the humanitarian award of the year lmao
Pissed in Ava

Branson, MO

#33 Aug 27, 2012
SuZ wrote:
That was only an example on how to "maybe" solve a concern that by law would not be defined as neglect . Kids play outside . I said I didnt care for the fact they werent clean.
I dont care for parents that dont teach their kids to brush their teeth right also.
Move on . No one is blind to what was wrote .
"OMG" -lol
now ya know how i felt after you called me an idiot for making a suggestion
SuZ

United States

#34 Aug 28, 2012
Read again, I made it clear it was the idea of a "covert potato chip operation" that was stupid, not you .
Guy, that in its self is just my opinion. Dont sweat it. We all have opinions , ideas , thoughts...
As for any opinion of "usa" *pppft " "usa" doesnt phase me in the least . That fool doesnt have an ounce of control over how I allow myself to feel. They are but some random poster on an annoymous thread that I have yet to invest an hour of my time with. Well, unless they're playing the cowards way and changing their name every other post, which-case only reaffirms how I feel so far for who they are as a person. Note their posts in no way contributed to the forum. We, atleast tried.
Dude compared to most I am in no way harsh whats with this overly sensitive traumatized for life for calling it how I saw it. Setting a neighbor up with a bag of potato chips , misleading them , be-friending them under false pretenses . Come on now . As if I'm the bad one here. Thats nonsesne.
Pissed in Ava

Branson, MO

#35 Aug 28, 2012
I give up I dont have any time for anymore drama done lived way to much allready Im out
Rich

Branson, MO

#36 Aug 28, 2012
YOU ARE DAMN STRAIGHT I WOULD!!! If you don't then you are just thinking of others instead of the children, or I'd tell that fat lazy Bit$& she better do something about it or I WILL. Why are people so afraid so step in, I'm all about minding my own business but when it comes to children I don't care to stick my nose right in it. They are children, they didn't ask to be born so the lazy ass should get up and take care of them like they DESERVE To be taken care of.

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