Should 27 year old man date 17 year old girl

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Employee

Hopkinsville, KY

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Jan 29, 2013
 
I am a 27 year old man in a situation that I donít know how to proceed. My boss has approached me and asked me to take his 17 year old daughter out on what I guess you would call fake dates. It is a situation where her high school boyfriend gave her what amounted to an ultimatum: sex or else. She told him to go else himself. The boyfriend then started telling people that she was a lesbian. Her father wants to squelch it and make the boyfriend look small by having her be seen with an older man that nobody in her circle of school aquaintances knows. He said that he would pay me my salary and pay back the money that I spend on her. He said that he couldnít tell me that I had to do it, but told me that he would be very grateful if I did. Iím worried about what people might say about me taking out an underage girl, however.

I am posting this in a topix forum far from home.

Suggestions? Only serious answers please.
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Hopkinsville, KY

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Jan 30, 2013
 
sounds 2 me like u got it made unless she really is a dyke
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Wichita, KS

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Jan 30, 2013
 
I think it is harmless as long as she knows what is happening (that you are not really pursuing her)and you don't mind showing her how a man is suposed to treat a woman properly on a date every once in awhile...you could raise her standards and teach her what it means to be treasured and respected. I dated a 24 year old when I was 18, but he was very careful and respectful of me. Yes,he got some crap from some of his friends, but he didn't mind because he had permission from my father and I knew and he knew that what he was doing wasn't harmful.
Honestly,when it comes down to it, you need to know your identity, who you are as a person. If you know that you are not taking advantage of her and are going about things in a respectful caring manner, there is no need to worry about what other people think of you. There is no need to fear the opinion of man. When does she turn 18? It sounds like the ex is causing quite a rucus at school and most likely lots of stress at home...Whatever you do, don't do it if you don't have peace first.
Blessings on your decision.
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Kuttawa, KY

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Feb 2, 2013
 
I would be more worried that somebody would find out I took money to do it.

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