Haddonfield woman, 40, dies in Toms R...

Haddonfield woman, 40, dies in Toms River crash; 2 Marlton passengers hurt

There are 89 comments on the CourierPostOnline story from May 12, 2010, titled Haddonfield woman, 40, dies in Toms River crash; 2 Marlton passengers hurt. In it, CourierPostOnline reports that:

A Haddonfield woman died early this morning after her vehicle struck a utility pole, police Chief Michael Mastronardy said.

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Friend An family

Esperance, NY

#21 May 19, 2010
Mrs Sharrer wrote:
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If Laura was not the driver why would she come forward? What are you implying? The man seatbelted in the back with his face smashed and back useless now where he cant care for his kids,was driving? First and foremost a 23 year old shold not be hangging out with 44 year old married man with four kids, then there would be some more loss. She may be a nice girl but made a huge mistake. My baby counts her blessings her dad is still around. She has nightmares.
Please who ever is writing stop its not helping any one and if it makes u feel better to cause more hurt to the ones that really are hurting then u also belong in a tiny cage an u are not a sharrer of anykind So just stop
Friend An family

Esperance, NY

#22 May 19, 2010
Im truly sorry for all the Real family an friends that have to put up with with the stupid childish bs thats not what this page is for
Mrs Sharrer

Columbia, SC

#23 May 19, 2010
Excuse me, Mount Airy, but this page is for expressing views. This is not a grieving site. I am sorry for what happenned, but I am married to David. If you have a problem with anything, don't read. I grew up in Haddonfield and knew one day bad things would happen as long as I stayed with David Sharrer. That is why I am proud not to be Sharrer, I just married one. I do not use the name. Now I see a woman from Haddonfield dying with my estranged husband, driving a 23 year old girl, or being driven by her. I will never know if David was driving or not. They initially lied, as well pointed out. So if you are offended, DON'T READ!
Friend An family

Esperance, NY

#24 May 19, 2010
Mrs Sharrer wrote:
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Your grammer is that if a first grader
: "wasn't implying about nothing" (.AND) I am aware the definition of "if" while used in your meteculous run-on sentences. Imply....well one is not with us anymore, Laura admited in the first published article and that leaves ONE implication. As to why a 44 year old "married" man would date a girl his own sons age, fun, youth......most don't attemt to answer a question with another. They seem to prosper.
That is enough! You do not know anyone involed in this an if u do ? Then u should care enough not to hurt everyone els and before u correct my grammar an spelling or anyones u need to check YOUR OWN !!!!!!!
Friend An family

Esperance, NY

#25 May 19, 2010
Mrs Sharrer wrote:
Excuse me, Mount Airy, but this page is for expressing views. This is not a grieving site. I am sorry for what happenned, but I am married to David. If you have a problem with anything, don't read. I grew up in Haddonfield and knew one day bad things would happen as long as I stayed with David Sharrer. That is why I am proud not to be Sharrer, I just married one. I do not use the name. Now I see a woman from Haddonfield dying with my estranged husband, driving a 23 year old girl, or being driven by her. I will never know if David was driving or not. They initially lied, as well pointed out. So if you are Then offended, DON'T READ!
Just dont call your self a Sharrer because ur not thanks for being such a wonderfull person!because YOU!!!! cant understand normal thinking
Mrs Sharrer

Columbia, SC

#26 May 20, 2010
Friend An family wrote:
<quoted text>Just dont call your self a Sharrer because ur not thanks for being such a wonderfull person!because YOU!!!! cant understand normal thinking
Well this is my last statement. Most common cliche' out of Davids mouth. THIS is not a normal situation. The only reason reason I know they lied is because David called me to inform me of the situation before I found out another way. I am very sorry for the loss and I actually have grief for Laura for he has destroyed another life, he is a compulsive liar and always will be. He said, and I quote "I told them I was driving because I didn't know she was dead, she was alive when I found her. It was just another DUI for me." This a person is caring for my teenage son. I am sorry to have offended anyone. Truely sorry. I hope god foregives me>
Friend An family

Esperance, NY

#27 May 20, 2010
use wtf In the same sentence as god real smart
rip kelly

Rahway, NJ

#28 May 21, 2010
this isnt a debate, no matter what anyone thinks happened isnt gonna bring her back , the true facts we already know are painful enough and if the other 2 people are hiding things about the incident they should take responsibilty and fess up. the greatest woman in the world lost her life all because someone didnt know when to stop drinking and realise they wouldnt be able to drive, you took the life of someone wonderful that i dont think anybody will ever meet anyone like her she was truly ginuwine. not just that your all grown, think of how horrible her children must feel and the fact [ if you 2 are hiding things about the incident] they lost their mother for life and you guys dont even have the courage to say what happened besides what the hospital and police said you denied it at first and because she cant speak for herself wanted to blame it on her how low can you get?! she has children that need her more than anything and a newborn grandbaby that she wont get to see grow up you took all that away from her and she DIDNT deserve it , then mr. david sharrer had the nerve to show up at the funeral and not say one word about what REALLY took place or apologize or nothng and personally no apology would matter you took a wonderful person out of this world! its crazy what selfish things people will do just to keep themselves out of trouble even if it means having the life of someone special on your hands knowing she has children and a grandchild that she will never get to see and how hurt they must be with only the thought left in their mind why ?!? and david was walking perfectly fine you would have never thought he was in an accident but yet kelly is gone its so messed up !!!
Amanda Walck

Rahway, NJ

#29 May 21, 2010
Nobody can begin to understand the pain me & my brothers & my family feel, I will never forget that day May 12 the day the whole world caved in on me & my worst nightmares came true, it still seems so unreal, I sit up all day and night just going over & over again in my head what happened & asking myself constantly WHY?! I keep feeling like shes not gone its just too unreal I still dont believe it & everyday I feel like shes gonna come home walk through the door and say something to make me laugh or even yell I would give anything just to hear her voice or see her face again. She was the best mother anyone could EVER ask for, more than that she was my bestfriend, she was always there for me & I know she always will be. & I know how happy she was to have her first grandchild we just brought the baby home that night & she was holding her before she left but I know shes watching down on us & Im gonna make her proud Im gonna be a good mom & do everything she would have wanted to see me do. Its so hard to understand, why ! She always was nice to everyone and could make anyone laugh, & always cared, her last text to me that day was at 1:20 AM asking if I was ok and how the baby was, I miss her soooo much I just wish I had the chance to tell her how much I love her & how she means more than the air I breathe, God has the best angel he could ever ask for & I know she looks beautiful as she always does shes probably up there making jokes right now making all the other angels laugh. This just doesnt seem real, Me& my dad went to the accident site today and it all just doesnt fit together, why her ! The other 2 are perfectly fine & I have to deal with losing my mother, my bestfriend, my everything in the world and I gotta miss her forever I want her back , I cant take missing her, not hearing her voice everyday or getting her funny texts or even hearing her yell because I forgot to do something or Im getting on her nerves I would give anything just to see her again , talk to her or hear about how her day at work was she always had the funniest stories , the memories could go on forever, and I will keep them deep inside my heart ALWAYS. No matter where life takes me I know I have the best angel ever watching down on me & I got to have the best mother ever as my mom , I miss her sooooo much im so lost without her and everyday seems endless. It hurts so much knowing that i can never go home and see her and listen to her stories or her jokes or the pranks she liked to pull, she was one of a kind , I wish this was just a bad dream the kind i could wake up from, but part of me knows i cant another part will always be lookin , lookin around everywhere hoping to see her or hear her, deep inside i know tht wont happen though :"( i dont see how they denied driving at first thats so low. Mommy I love you so much always and I wish you could just come home I wish i could see you again, laugh with you again I miss you so much and you will always be in my heart I hope your watching over me and jada , You were and would have been the best grandma ever! You were already the best mom i could ever have!!! I just cant say enough about you nobody understands how hurt i am and how much you mean to me , remember u said my mommy instincts would kick in i think they did, and everything i know i learned from you tht means im gonna be a really good mommy just like you :) I love you forever & always Mom ! please watch over me and jada ! I loveeeeee you ! R.I.P

P.S. EVERYONE NEEDS TO GET THE STORY STRAIGHT !
AND I DONT SEE HOW THEY COULD HAVE DENIED DRIVING WHEN MY MOM LOST HER LIFE !
Amanda Walck

Rahway, NJ

#30 May 21, 2010
Life ain't always what it seems to be
Words can't express what you mean to me
Even though you're gone
Were still a team
Through your family I'll fulfill your dreams

In the future can't wait to see
If you'll open up the gates for me
Reminisce sometime
The night they took my friend
Try to black it out but it plays again
When it's real feelings' hard to conceal
Can't imagine all the pain I feel
Give anything to hear half your breath
I know you still livin' your life after death

Every step I take
Every move I make
Every single day
Every time I pray
I'll be missing you

Thinking of the day
When you went away
What a life to take
What a bond to break
I'll be missing you
It's kinda hard with you not around
Know you're in heaven smilin' down
Watchin' us while we pray for you
Everyday we pray for you
Till the day we meet again
In my heart is where I'll keep you friend
Memories give me the strength I need to proceed
Strength I need to believe
My thoughts, I just can't define
Wish I could turn back the hands of time
Somebody tell me why
One glad morning
When this life is over
I know

I miss you
Miss you so bad
I don't forget you
Oh it's so sad.

I hope you can hear me
I remember it clearly.

The day you slipped away.....
Was the day i found
It, won't be the same
Oh

I didn't get around to kiss you
Goodbye on the hand
I wish that I could see you again
I know that I can't ooooooooooooh
I hope you can hear me
Cause I remember it clearly

The day you slipped away...
Was the day i found
It, won't be the same
Oh

I've had my wake up
Won't you wake up
I keep asking why.
And I can't take it
It wasn't fake it
It happened you passed by

Now you're gone
Now you're gone
There you go
There you go
Somewhere I can't bring you back
Now you're gone
Now you're gone
There you go
There you go
Somewhere you're not coming back
I'll see your face

Things'll never be the same without you...

What did I do to deserve this
I didn't even get one last kiss, from you
Oh baby God took your love from me
He needed an angel so it seems
I need to feel your hands all over me
I need to feel you kissing me
I need to feel you holding me
I need to feel your touch
Cause I miss your love so much
And I can't keep on living this way
I need you here with me
Why could he take you away, from me

It's hard for me to tell you I love you
As I'm standing over your grave
And I know I'll never hear your voice again
Why did you leave me
Why couldn't you just stay
Because my world is nothin', without you
Now I don't know what to do, with myself
I would've given you anything
Just to make you happy
Just to hear you say, that you love me one last time
I'd go to hell and back over and over again
Just to prove to you how much I need you here
There is nothing that I wouldn't do
I'd cry for you
I'd lie for you
And there's no doubt that if I could take your place in heaven
I would die for you, yes I will
I would rather give up my life
Than to see tears in your eyes
I can't stand to see you cry
I just don't know what to do with myself
I cant stand looking at those pictures on my shelf
Knowing it was just one week ago, i stood there and took that picture
There's just one thing that I wanna know
Why would God want to hurt me so bad,
Does He know how much it hurts to be missing you

Rest In Peace Mommy , I miss and Love you so much!

:"(
Dane Stevenson

Peru, IN

#31 Jun 1, 2010
They all got in the car with a drunk driver. There was also an open container in the vehicle. Therefore, all three occupants of the car were aware of the potential consequences. I don't know anyone involved all that well, but it seems like a poor decision that unfortunately had a terrible outcome.
amw

Blackwood, NJ

#32 Jun 3, 2010
- wow . ok yeah they miqht have all drank but passengers could be as drunk as they want . THE DRIVER should have been responsible enough to NOT drive if she was drinking just shut up if you dont know anything about them because ur pissing off people that do kthanks !!!!!!!

i still cnt believe this happened and it hurts more and more each and everyday :'( come back mom i miss you and need u so muchhh ! please just tell me this is a nightmare that im gonna wake uup ffrom i hate life without u its so empty
annonymous

Haddonfield, NJ

#33 Jun 5, 2010
To say the passengers can be as drunk as they want is ludicrous. People do not have to get in a car with a person who has been drinking. Everyone was to blame.
Abdul

Boca Raton, FL

#34 Jun 5, 2010
Friend An family wrote:
Y ou just dont know an laura was stuck driving not a choise u live with it
Man... sentiments aside...you surely are the by product of a Jersey education. The kind Gov. Christie was talking about. Your Grammar, spelling and content are atrocious.
friend

AOL

#35 Jun 10, 2010

I refuse to blame the driver for all this.

Amanda I hope you find peace in your heart for that night for the fight that cause your mother to go out and drink

Sorry ,but think about it...
family

Clementon, NJ

#36 Jun 20, 2010
sorry to say but whoever is telling amanda to find peace in her heart has it all wrong THERE WAS NO FIGHT BETWEEN HER AND AMANDA THAT NIGHT if thats what your saying , she was the happiest person living bringing her newborn grandaughter & daughter home from the hospital , she didnt go out and drink because of a fight or anything such, maybe she wanted to enjoy going out with her friends and to celebrate the new event .. and whoever said that apparently in my eyes didnt deserve to even know kelly she was the most wonderful person to live .

and as for laura i hope she learnt her lesson this time about drinking and driving because this wasnt the first time and for a girl like her doubt even after all this will it be her last . shes just as stupid as she wants to be and apparently doesnt learn . a 17 year old with a newborn baby and her two sons 13, and 21 have to all deal with losing the closest person to them so i advise you all who have negative comments to keep your mouth shut because there was no fight that night . thanks , and YES a passenger can be as drunk as they would like its up to the person driving to decide if they should or not and i heard there was argument that laura shouldnt drive but being the kind of person she is so use to drinking and driving recklessly im sure she insisted now look what has happened .
Scott Royalta

Peru, IN

#37 Jun 23, 2010
I wish Dave died.. He was a dick.. Lolololololo
amanda walck

Clementon, NJ

#38 Jun 24, 2010
when its all said and donee i just want my mom back i would qivee ANYTHING up to go back to that nite if i could have saved her i miss her more than anything in this world and everyday i awake i just feel like the worlds soo pointless without her i miss her so much all our talks her funny texts and just the person she was, i miss being able to vent to her about how im feeling or whats goin on in my life i just wish i could get her back and its always goin to be that way i miss her smile i miss her laugh and everything bout her i miss hearing her sing and all the funny things she had to say i will never forget how happy she was that day and night , this hurts me more than anybody could ever come close to imagining and everyday is a nightmare i feel like im going to see her somewhere then it hits me shes really gone it still doesnt feel real and i guess never will .. i can never stop thinking about every moment we shared i would do anything to bring her back .. she was and always will be the best person ever she was the brightest person anybody could ever imagine no matter what she was always filled with life and i feel like im dying slowly without her . god has one of the best angels now . i hope shes watching down on me i hope she hears me or visits me i wont be scared i just need her more than anything , and i know she will be proud of how much ive grown and how im realising the things she said bout life are soo true and it echoes in the back of my head im gonna make her so proud i hope she watches over jada too and sees that im trying to be the best mommy in the world like she was to me and i kno she always tried her best .
it hurts to know she texted me 30 mins bfore the accident asking if i was ok and how her grand daughter was doin .. and hurts to know she texted my cousin before it too sayin she felt guilty bout going to the shore leaving me and the baby home but i hope she knows she didnt have to feel guilty , she was gonna be home the next morning and i know i had responsibilities but if i knew this all was goin to happen i would give my life just to have had her stay home that nite god i miss her .. lifes so empty without her .. always will be ... mommy i miss you and i hope you know i love u with all my heart and soul you were the best mother anybody could have and i thank u everyday for alwyas being there never giving up i thank u so much and i hope u see how hrd im trying nd i know u would want me to be strong but thats just so hard but im trying so hard for u . and i hope u can see that .. theres so much more i can say but it would take me forever to express .. i love u mom rest in peace .. your my angel now i love you .
amanda walck

Clementon, NJ

#39 Jun 24, 2010
oh and i just read the comment mrs sharrer wrote, who cares if this is for expressing views just because your idiot of a husband or whatever he is to you was involved u werent so if u have something smart to say take it else where . if we want to grieve on this site for her we can . just shut up and go somewhere seriously , because u and nobody in this world can imagine the pain everybody that was close to her feels .
mother ohara

Peru, IN

#40 Jun 26, 2010
GOD will judge EVERYONE involved. They ALL belong in HELL.

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