Diabolical Dating

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#1 Aug 10, 2012
What has happened to the men in Athens County? Why is dating these days diabolical instead of moral and honest? Since when did a woman being domesticated and not your typical white trash become such a bad thing? No, I'm not gonna drop my pants on the first date or should I say night because men don't know what a date is these days. You buy me a drink at the bar and expect to get laid is NOT going to happen. Men have a serious lack of respect for women these days. Guys if you want to do it all wrong, you will either end up being hopelessly lonely or your gonna continue to live it up and end up with and STD or 15 kids roaming the county! Not every woman you come across is a sleeze and one day you will regret missing the opportunity to find happiness because you were simply ignorant! The qualities a good woman looks for in a man are simple: Be a gentleman. Open doors, lend me your coat, pay for the dinner and kiss her goodbye on the cheek not on the lips. Don't be intimidated by a strong woman. We have opinions and are passionate about things we care about. We work hard to support ourselves and our proud of our accomplishments big and small (you should be too)! Be happy with yourself! You are never going to make a woman happy if you aren't happy. Work hard to balance your career family, and relationship. BE honest. Be romantic. Women love cards, flowers, text messages, notes, etc. Cook her dinner or dance in the rain. Know how to have fun and be spontaneous. Make her smile and laugh. Most importantly don't be jealous! Jealousy is a wasted emotion and a lot of relationships end at the fate of it. Truth is if you are a good man, and you make her happy and satisfy her needs mind,body and soul, you have no reason to be jealous she's not going anywhere! Sadly many woman settle for less than they deserve. They end up beaten abused or broken hearted simply because they thought it would be better than being alone. Ladies take the high road and know what you are worthy of. And men it's ok to show respect and remember if your not going to some one else will! Your loss!

Nelsonville, OH

#2 Sep 9, 2012
Wow, this is a horrible stereotypical post against men. I'm sorry you seem to have had some really bad experiences, that even led to you getting beaten? Oh, that was the other women who don't follow your simple dating rules...
Women are grouping together and ganging up against us men, fighting for what some of them consider to be equality. They say it's still not equal because we haven't had a woman president. We haven't had an Indian, Atheist, or gay president either though. It's just a law of nature concerning power; groups with power tend to retain it, and has nothing to do with discrimination.
It's interesting though that although women want equality at the highest level, they aren't concerned with equal representation in hard labor jobs like construction. They also don't want equality when it comes to relationships. They want the respect of being independent, but then want someone to serve them, like buying them expensive stuff.
They want control over everything it seems; when we can have kids, if us men can see them, how they'll be raised, etc. How many women do you know that pay child support?
Then they want to weigh in and tell us how our genitals look best. As if we should just slice and dice so everything looks proper to them. They fail their male children by not protecting them from greedy doctors, religious radicals, and from men who have never known what it is to have all their sexual tissue.
Then they call us wanting money for their breast cancer research. Well, I got news, chopping them off preemptively reduces your risk by %100. So, get over your vanity, and start chopping on yourselves just like you do your sons.

Marion, OH

#3 Oct 3, 2012
My advice: You're either attracted to the wrong type of man... or you meet men at places where respect isn't that big of a factor. Next time, try going out with someone that you wouldn't normally consider. Keep an open mind and you may end up meeting the perfect gentleman. Also, don't ever go out with someone you met at a bar. There are VERY few men that meet a woman at a bar and consider (for any amount of time) that they may meet their soulmate. Bars are for hooking up. If you don't like that... don't meet men at bars.

Carroll, OH

#4 Oct 14, 2012
I am slightly confused at how the first post was able to achieve the ridiculous rant of post number two. Anyways, that being said, you are just stumbling across the wrong men. Although I must say, the last date I went on was a slight disaster because I tried to act like a gentleman and not a boy. So maybe the men you go after are used to dating immature women who don't like chivalry and now they have been accustom to the dinner, movie, and sex routine. I agree with post number three, I do not go out to a bar looking for a person to start a relationship with (to be honest, I rarely drink out at the bars anyways). So maybe you should try looking in other places for a potential dating partner. Oh, by the way, if you find a good place to meet good people, please let me know because I have been looking for a good girl myself.

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