Dead beat Dads
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seriously

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#1 Jan 20, 2012
I was married many years, have two children. My children's father was the most amazing dad to his kids. I knew I would never worry about visitation or support. We agreed on everything and even used the same lawyer. After he remarried, everything changed. He doesn't follow his visitation, he has a great job, and refuses to help with anything but the child support I agreed on when he was unemployed. I've never raised it or ask for money. All I wanted was my kids to have a father. Now there both old enough to see what a jerk he is. And the damage is done. I hope he's proud of the man he has become. Didn't attend but one of his daughters sporting events all year.. Way to be there for your own. That's ok, Karmas a bitch, and your day coming!
wow

United States

#2 Jan 20, 2012
seriously wrote:
I was married many years, have two children. My children's father was the most amazing dad to his kids. I knew I would never worry about visitation or support. We agreed on everything and even used the same lawyer. After he remarried, everything changed. He doesn't follow his visitation, he has a great job, and refuses to help with anything but the child support I agreed on when he was unemployed. I've never raised it or ask for money. All I wanted was my kids to have a father. Now there both old enough to see what a jerk he is. And the damage is done. I hope he's proud of the man he has become. Didn't attend but one of his daughters sporting events all year.. Way to be there for your own. That's ok, Karmas a bitch, and your day coming!
Sounds like a real loser you should post his name!
haha

Ashland, KY

#3 Jan 20, 2012
Be glad he pays his child support. I've been divorced from my childrens' father and I'm lucky to get child support every 4-5 months!! If he doesn't come and visit your children..then that's his loss!!
parkboy

Elyria, OH

#4 Jan 20, 2012
seriously wrote:
I was married many years, have two children. My children's father was the most amazing dad to his kids. I knew I would never worry about visitation or support. We agreed on everything and even used the same lawyer. After he remarried, everything changed. He doesn't follow his visitation, he has a great job, and refuses to help with anything but the child support I agreed on when he was unemployed. I've never raised it or ask for money. All I wanted was my kids to have a father. Now there both old enough to see what a jerk he is. And the damage is done. I hope he's proud of the man he has become. Didn't attend but one of his daughters sporting events all year.. Way to be there for your own. That's ok, Karmas a bitch, and your day coming!
is his name scott. That sounds just like somebody I know
lol

Moneta, VA

#5 Jan 20, 2012
Yeah be lucky. My ex doesn't pay or see my kids n he's $5,000 behind.

Since: May 10

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#6 Jan 20, 2012
Its funny how women complain about dead beat dads. You're the one that spread your legs for them to be a dad...

Plus if you'd get off your ass and stop spamming topix with your worthless drama and go get a lawyer things might get sorted out.
lol

Moneta, VA

#7 Jan 20, 2012
Oh so what ur saying is when we get married we should know down the line after kids n stuff that they lie cheat do pills. Wow thanks moldlymeat. I'm taking notes.
harsh

Elyria, OH

#8 Jan 20, 2012
moldymeat wrote:
Its funny how women complain about dead beat dads. You're the one that spread your legs for them to be a dad...

Plus if you'd get off your ass and stop spamming topix with your worthless drama and go get a lawyer things might get sorted out.
sound to me like you never had to deal with a loser not being a man. Maybe you can grow up and not put all the blame on the girl. I am a father and I pay my child support like a real man should. If you would stop jumping on everything that spreads her legs you wouldn't have to worry about being a man.

Since: May 10

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#9 Jan 20, 2012
harsh wrote:
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sound to me like you never had to deal with a loser not being a man. Maybe you can grow up and not put all the blame on the girl. I am a father and I pay my child support like a real man should. If you would stop jumping on everything that spreads her legs you wouldn't have to worry about being a man.
Awww poor thing... I was talking about the typical whiny crazy woman that most get to deal with.
harsh

Cleveland, OH

#10 Jan 21, 2012
moldymeat wrote:
<quoted text>Awww poor thing... I was talking about the typical whiny crazy woman that most get to deal with.
sounds like your the whiny little b#*tch . Spread your legs much do ya?

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#11 Jan 21, 2012
harsh wrote:
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sounds like your the whiny little b#*tch . Spread your legs much do ya?
You must be upset about not fathering your children. It's okay, you're not alone. There's lots of you out there. That's what this thread is for.
Understand

Flatwoods, KY

#12 Jan 21, 2012
seriously wrote:
I was married many years, have two children. My children's father was the most amazing dad to his kids. I knew I would never worry about visitation or support. We agreed on everything and even used the same lawyer. After he remarried, everything changed. He doesn't follow his visitation, he has a great job, and refuses to help with anything but the child support I agreed on when he was unemployed. I've never raised it or ask for money. All I wanted was my kids to have a father. Now there both old enough to see what a jerk he is. And the damage is done. I hope he's proud of the man he has become. Didn't attend but one of his daughters sporting events all year.. Way to be there for your own. That's ok, Karmas a bitch, and your day coming!
I understand completely! Only my ex didn't change because he got remarried. He changed when his 23 year old daughter and her child moved in with him. He still pays child support, but don't hardly call anymore, don't help out with the extras anymore, and breaks promises about coming to see our daughter. It is horrible to watch my childs heart get broken but all you can do is be the best parent YOU can be. And you are so right, Karma is a bigger b*tch then I could ever be.
HaHa

Flatwoods, KY

#13 Jan 21, 2012
parkboy wrote:
<quoted text>is his name scott. That sounds just like somebody I know
Scott who? I know a guy like this named scott too. Just curious if we were thinking of the same one.
parkboy

Columbus, OH

#14 Jan 21, 2012
HaHa wrote:
<quoted text>Scott who? I know a guy like this named scott too. Just curious if we were thinking of the same one.
haha does his last name start with a P
fullofit

Columbus, OH

#15 Jan 21, 2012
moldymeat wrote:
<quoted text>You must be upset about not fathering your children. It's okay, you're not alone. There's lots of you out there. That's what this thread is for.
dude you are full of crap. You wouldn't know responsibility if it smacked you in the face. I'm thinking you have reason to be upset cause your girl screwed your best friend or something. Or worse yet you found out your dad isn't really your dad. Or maybe you are fighting off being gay. What the case may be your all screwed up
HaHa

Flatwoods, KY

#16 Jan 21, 2012
parkboy wrote:
<quoted text>haha does his last name start with a P
Nope. R.
fullofit

Columbus, OH

#17 Jan 21, 2012
HaHa wrote:
<quoted text>Nope. R.
I guess a lot of people maned Scott are like that
seriously

United States

#18 Jan 21, 2012
HaHa wrote:
<quoted text>Nope. R.
nope K
fullofit

Columbus, OH

#19 Jan 21, 2012
seriously wrote:
<quoted text>nope K
hey seriously is it Kellogg
HmMmm

Russell, KY

#20 Jan 21, 2012
lol wrote:
Yeah be lucky. My ex doesn't pay or see my kids n he's $5,000 behind.
Don't understand how he could be $5,000 behind and not go to jail. I was 2 months behind from loseing my job and they put a warnt out for me. Luckly the job I was trying to get did a background check b4 it was posted and I was able to stay away from the police until I got my first check and caught up.

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