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marriedwhiteguy

United States

#1 Jul 5, 2010
Is my wife cheating on me?
I have been trying to figure out if my wife is cheating, if you all don't mind read the whole below and let me know what you think or make of all this:

1) First of all, this happened with a coworker:

well he is a big black guy, and probably around 25 years old...well first of all, when he first moved here we all met at a bar and my wife came and met us there, well about 30 min after she got there i introduce her to him and he said something like "i didnt realize you were his wife or i wouldnt have given you a look when u walked in" and he laughed and she laughed well, so like my wife stayed there and talked to him for like two hours, and he bought her drinks, etc...well at the end of the night he was trying to get her to hang out with him while i had to work the next day, because we both work in game management but he didnt have to work so he wanted my wife to sit with him my wife was all aobut sitting with him, and they traded numbers, i said no and she was mad at me like the whole next day and like aslo she was saying that like she thought this one girl was cool cause she is a hugger, and the guy was like "a hugger" and my wife was like yeah and gave him a partial hug

2) well then we were at a party last weekend and i was out smoking a cigar and came bakc in and she was talking to this black guy that is a chef and she introduced me and was like "hey hey he is gonna teach me how to cook for you"

3) when i first started dating her, this guy i knew pretty well told me she likes black guys...but then again he isnt credible and i dont believe him cause he is racist, and she claimed he was lying and making that up so i wouldnt date her
then, like three months after we got together she told me she had a dream where two black guys raped her
3rd. she wont ever do doggystyle with me and when i asked why she said "well cause it is degrading, i can just imaging a black man slapping a big *** saying take it *****"...then she asked me if i like her butt and i said yes made some comment that only black guys like her ***.

4) One time she was driving up and this group of black guys next door screamed at her. Well then she was leaving for work an hour later, and these group of black guys next door pulled out and she got out of her car and came back in the house to get something while they drove by.

What do you all make of all this? Is it nothing? She is a social person, but I am just naive when it comes to this stuff. Thank you in advance.
jaman

Ashland, KY

#2 Jul 5, 2010
dude she likes black dudes...period. She may not be cheating. The black rape dream is nuts...i wouldnt tell peeps that sh*t, especially not a lover...
marriedwhiteguy

United States

#3 Jul 5, 2010
jaman wrote:
dude she likes black dudes...period. She may not be cheating. The black rape dream is nuts...i wouldnt tell peeps that sh*t, especially not a lover...
That is why I posted random on here, no clue what to make of it man, I just cannot understand why she made some of those comments about black guys.
Maybe

Greenup, KY

#4 Jul 5, 2010
She just wants to catch AIDS.

Since: Jul 10

Ironton, OH

#5 Jul 5, 2010
marriedwhiteguy wrote:
<quoted text> That is why I posted random on here, no clue what to make of it man, I just cannot understand why she made some of those comments about black guys.
Point number 4 that u made, make it sound like she was wanting them to see her. I cant say for sure, but if someone is wanting attention from certain ppl, they will make theirselves noticed. But doesnt mean she is cheating.
POOKIE

Ashland, KY

#6 Jul 5, 2010
Your bitch straight fire honky! Love that poon. That hoe be doin my braids and everything. Btw that stain on yo pillow was me, lil homie. And tha dream wasnt a dream it was me and Dion with yo hoe at the park 3 years ago....u ever heard of a cleveland steamer?? Ur wife rolls with that sh*t...damn! Btw you may have a tan baby on the way.
marriedwhiteguy

United States

#7 Jul 5, 2010
proudmomma3 wrote:
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Point number 4 that u made, make it sound like she was wanting them to see her. I cant say for sure, but if someone is wanting attention from certain ppl, they will make theirselves noticed. But doesnt mean she is cheating.
I do not necessarily think she is cheating but do you think she likes black men?
marriedwhiteguy

United States

#8 Jul 5, 2010
POOKIE wrote:
Your bitch straight fire honky! Love that poon. That hoe be doin my braids and everything. Btw that stain on yo pillow was me, lil homie. And tha dream wasnt a dream it was me and Dion with yo hoe at the park 3 years ago....u ever heard of a cleveland steamer?? Ur wife rolls with that sh*t...damn! Btw you may have a tan baby on the way.
No idea
Dawby

Flatwoods, KY

#9 Jul 5, 2010
marriedwhiteguy wrote:
Is my wife cheating on me?
Does she have a vagina? If so, yes. Welcome to the real world, where every woman will cheat when she finds something just a little better.
marriedwhiteguy

United States

#10 Jul 5, 2010
marriedwhiteguy wrote:
<quoted text>I do not necessarily think she is cheating but do you think she likes black men?
She says she has no interest in black men, but it doesnt add up

Since: Jul 10

Ironton, OH

#11 Jul 5, 2010
marriedwhiteguy wrote:
<quoted text>I do not necessarily think she is cheating but do you think she likes black men?
It seems like she might. I dont see why she would try to catch their attention if she didnt like them. And she wouldnt be so friendly if she was really afraid of them. She would keep her distance.
marriedwhiteguy

United States

#12 Jul 5, 2010
proudmomma3 wrote:
<quoted text>
It seems like she might. I dont see why she would try to catch their attention if she didnt like them. And she wouldnt be so friendly if she was really afraid of them. She would keep her distance.
Yeah I cannot figure it out at all, she tells me she has no interest in them and that she has never been with one, but you saw everything I said that has happened

Since: Jul 10

Ironton, OH

#13 Jul 5, 2010
marriedwhiteguy wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah I cannot figure it out at all, she tells me she has no interest in them and that she has never been with one, but you saw everything I said that has happened
All I can say is just be observant. The truth will eventually come out. Just hopefully not with her cheating on you.
marriedwhiteguy

United States

#14 Jul 5, 2010
proudmomma3 wrote:
<quoted text>
All I can say is just be observant. The truth will eventually come out. Just hopefully not with her cheating on you.
Yeah, I think all the signs point to her liking them but doesnt mean cheating
Dawby

Flatwoods, KY

#15 Jul 5, 2010
You have the right to know the truth. Invade her privacy. Read her email, or check your call logs on her cell phone. Download her text messages. If you see "thx 4 dat azz shawty" that means she's cheating with a black guy. If you see "thx for the good time Dawby" that means she's cheating on you with me, and those bumps on your inner thighs are herpes.
Shes down

United States

#16 Jul 6, 2010
with the brown. An unbelievable number of white chicks want to go black and your wife is one of them. If she's giving her # to some black dude its (a) disrespectful to you and your marriage, and (b) an invitation to this brutha to hook up.
Move on dude. Or....find a sista to hang with and see how she likes it!!
marriedwhiteguy

El Paso, TX

#17 Jul 6, 2010
Well I do not necessarily think she is cheating, but just wanted opinions on if she liked black or was just social.
Dude

Bronx, NY

#18 Jul 6, 2010
Her social life is about to end your marriage. Open your eyes my friend! Get out before you have any kids with this black lover!
Muddy

Wise, VA

#19 Jul 6, 2010
Wow, a female cheating...watta shock, NOT!!!
chic

Little Rock, AR

#20 Jul 6, 2010
POOKIE wrote:
Your bitch straight fire honky! Love that poon. That hoe be doin my braids and everything. Btw that stain on yo pillow was me, lil homie. And tha dream wasnt a dream it was me and Dion with yo hoe at the park 3 years ago....u ever heard of a cleveland steamer?? Ur wife rolls with that sh*t...damn! Btw you may have a tan baby on the way.
Pookie who are you ?

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