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Scared husband

Ironton, OH

#1 Jul 3, 2012
How do I win her back, I'd give anything for her to love me again. Any suggestions?
Cats Fan

Ironton, OH

#2 Jul 3, 2012
All you can do is give her what you can and if she doesn't want it find someone who will.
ashley

Ironton, OH

#3 Jul 3, 2012
Quit caring. That always wins people over.
Experienced

Ashland, KY

#4 Jul 3, 2012
Spill your heart and show her what's she means to you....what helped we was dancing. Slow dancing brought us closer
a Women

Ironton, OH

#5 Jul 3, 2012
Dont loose your dignity. If she sees u will let her slide or even if u act pitiful...she will loose respect for you and if she DOES go back to u she will cheat again. Stand ur ground and raise hell. Tell her you dont want HER anymore. Make HER fight to win u back! If she doesnt....well then she wasnt worth it anyway. At least that way you can lick your wounds with your dignity.
No Cheaters

Russell, KY

#6 Jul 3, 2012
a Women wrote:
Dont loose your dignity. If she sees u will let her slide or even if u act pitiful...she will loose respect for you and if she DOES go back to u she will cheat again. Stand ur ground and raise hell. Tell her you dont want HER anymore. Make HER fight to win u back! If she doesnt....well then she wasnt worth it anyway. At least that way you can lick your wounds with your dignity.
I couldn't have said it any better...Amen sister

“These are the good old days.”

Since: Mar 12

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#7 Jul 3, 2012
Turn from her. Let her think you don't care. Avoid her. Ignore her. The more distant and unavailable you are the more she will want you back.
Seriously

Dalton, OH

#8 Jul 3, 2012
Why would you or any man take a cheating wife back? She already proved to you and everyone that knows her, that she is nothing more than a piece of shit and on top of that she is a wh ore.
Be best for you us to leave her alone and let her live the cheating and wh oring life that she is living.
been there

Butler, PA

#9 Jul 3, 2012
Please take the advice given here with a grain of salt. I've been in your shoes and my married survived. It's really difficult to give advice on this situation without knowing any details, personalities, etc.
could not

Dalton, OH

#10 Jul 4, 2012
What do you talk about when you take a cheating spouse ( wife ) back. The men she blowed, the other men she f@cked, and does she still have the same friends she made while she was cheating, does she and you go to the places she went when she was committing adultery. Do you walk on eggshells, hoping she won't cheat on you again. I would never ever take whor ing wife back.
John

Broken Arrow, OK

#11 Jul 4, 2012
Question is? Would she do it again? Everytime she leaves the house you will be wondering, Did she really sneak out to see him again? You will never know. If you take her back, you will have to forgive, AND FORGET. If you don't.....it will always eat at you. And it will never work. Just remember this, when you sleep with her now, you're sleeping with everyone SHE HAS SLEPT with. I have been in your shoes many years ago. After talking with a lady who has a dating service in Greenup years ago, I decided to move on. I just couldn't deal with the "what ifs" anymore. I now have someone I can trust " unconditionally ". After we split years ago, I found out she was still seeing other men, and she had remarried. Go figure. Good luck, there are good women out there, that don't cheat. No one can make the decision to take her back, but you. Again, GOOD LUCK.
Resume

Grayson, KY

#12 Jul 4, 2012
I think the way all of these adulterous cheating wives are nowadays, any man stupid enough to start a relationship with them, or just want a quick one night stand with them, it be better if they start asking for resumes.... Those women should say and place in their resume how many times that they have been married, how many relationships they have been in, how many times have they have been pregnant "and by how many different men", why did they cheated on their husbands or their boyfriends, do they take any drugs, do they have or have they been with any one with a SSD.
And if you want to find any or have any of these type of skunks women, just look at these bars, or clubs, and of course they be the ones living on welfare and foodstamps and government aid.
really

Ashland, KY

#13 Jul 4, 2012
Resume wrote:
I think the way all of these adulterous cheating wives are nowadays, any man stupid enough to start a relationship with them, or just want a quick one night stand with them, it be better if they start asking for resumes.... Those women should say and place in their resume how many times that they have been married, how many relationships they have been in, how many times have they have been pregnant "and by how many different men", why did they cheated on their husbands or their boyfriends, do they take any drugs, do they have or have they been with any one with a SSD.
And if you want to find any or have any of these type of skunks women, just look at these bars, or clubs, and of course they be the ones living on welfare and foodstamps and government aid.
REALLY..WTF is a SSD?? And a skunks women?? I've heard it all now.wonder where you find the narrow minded people at??
Resume

Grayson, KY

#14 Jul 4, 2012
Those word errors were created by my spell check and not myself, I blame myself as I should of rechecked the spelling before the posting. And as you probably know SKUNKS (in my post ) was suppose to mean SKANKS ,but then of course a Skunk and a Skank they both smell the same and they offend, and as for SSD as you probably already know that was suppose to be STD.
So my question to you is, as you are on this Topix site about cheating and adulterous women, which are you an Adulterer or an Adulterous.
Jamie

Flatwoods, KY

#15 Jul 4, 2012
THE REAL WORD IS WHY DID SHE LEAVE YOU....
WAS YOU GOOD TO HER,,
WAS YOU ALL THAT YOU COULD BE .
WAS YOU THEIR TO HOLD HER AT NIGHT..
COULD SHE TALK TO YOU FREE.
DID YOU FIGHT OVER MONEY ALL THE TIME.
WAS YOU IN SOMEONE EALSES BED MOST OF THE NIGHT..
SHE LEFT AND IF YOU WAS GOOD TO HER IM SORRY
BUT IF SHE BETTER HERSELF AND HER CHILDREN IM HAPPY FOR HER LOVE MAKES A BIG DIFFRENT..
could not

Dalton, OH

#16 Jul 4, 2012
I gave her all that she wanted and she needed. I gave her a home, I gave her love, I gave her conversation. I gave her money and insurance, I gave her trust, I bought her a car But then she started cheating behind my back and then her family told me she did the same thing to her other ex-husbands and long turb boyfriends.
she slepted to past noon everyday, she said it wasn't a wifes duty to clean house or cook so I did as I also worked. She got drunk every Friday and Saturday night, did damage to our house as well ( I put my house deed also in her name). I never left her or cheated on her.
Hey

Elizabethtown, KY

#17 Jul 4, 2012
All right ladies here ya go, They say there's one born every min...

Today we have ole number 6...

Hurry this special wont last long...

He would even lick dog sh!t off your shoes if you promise not to cheat on him...

The more you treat him like dirt beneath your feet,The more loyal he will be to your needs...

Be cautious though as he is subject to be homeless at any time...
Resume

Grayson, KY

#18 Jul 4, 2012
How come its always the mans fault when a woman commits adultery?
1. Didn't he talk with her
2. Did you fight over money
3. Was he holding her
4. Did the man cheat on her?

How about this, did the woman asked the man what was bothering him, or does her feelings must go first.
Did she asked why the man had to work so many hours a week, so he could buy or get his wife whatever she wants or needs.
Did he say the reason he didn't hold her ( his Wife ), because he was too tired from his work, or he knew other men were holding her.
Did she complained to him (Husband) that she wanted someone else to clean or cook, whereas she had no job.
Did her husband knew that she had cheated and lied to him and others in the past, so its hard for him to let her close to him.
Kygirlinsc

Columbia, SC

#19 Jul 4, 2012
As a woman who has cheated,, I would say this to u... Go to her and tell her that u live her, tell her that u want her and tell her that what ever it was that pushed her to cheat you will fix!
Men cheat, they can go home with any random chick anytime from age 18 on... Women fall in love,, if she cheated on you it's simply because she was lacking something from you! Find out what it was and you'll fix your problem!
Now as with all things in life there are exceptions to the rule.. There are some women that are just whores and that's all they'll ever be! If she is let her go and find a good woman, if u know that she's not then go and fight for her!
Good luck!
my2cents

Broken Arrow, OK

#20 Jul 4, 2012
nonsense..............the problem is twofold:1-she has a character defect and,2-you have a psychological dependance she is exploiting. I have heard many reasons for infidelity, but not a single excuse. People cheat because thats what they are. They are also adept at blaming everyone or everything else EXCEPT themselves. Take a stand, lick your wounds, feel the pain and let her go. I know you are hurt, but she is simply not worth your dignity and self-respect. Regardless if she never cheated again, she did so once, and that is all it takes. Things could NEVER be the way they once were. Take your time to grieve and don't give in. You in time will grow strong and develop more self-respect and less dependant on her. You will then wonder what you ever saw in her in the first place, and why you wanted her back. Then you will be more attractive to others whom you may express a romantic interest in. After all, no one respects a wimpy, panty waisted man. I have a fried going thru this issue right now. He has done just what you are doing and it has NEVER worked for him. You will grow strong if you heed this advice. Do not let anyone try the forgive and forget BS. Above all, do not let her sweet words(shall they ever come) tempt you to take her back. A two headed serpent has two mouths to bite you with. May peace and good luck come to you.

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