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Man Up or Shut Up

Marion, VA

#82 Oct 13, 2012
victims of rutherford wrote:
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this is total bull. DSS breaks the law, constitution and any other guidelines set forth. They LIE,coerce and intimidate parents and children! Obviously you haven't investigated any cases and just going by what books has taught you.. Go out and live so you will learn life lessons then come back to tell us rallying against DSS is useless! maybe you need to spend some time on our facebook page victims of rutherford county officials! Educate yourself before trying to educate others!
What you call lying, coercing, and intimidating, DSS refers to as erring on the side of caution, i.e. the safety of our children. And yes, I am "book educated" as you refer to it, but I earned my "life lessons" by staring onto the eyes of hundreds of suspects of child abuse, neglect, and molestation and having the joy of placing many of them behind prison walls. I learned my "life lessons" by having to listen to the most horrific of stories told by the victims of these senseless crimes - our defenseless children. So if I don't show alot of compassion for you or your Facebook page, I hope you will understand that I have heard all of the lies before and don't really care to hear them anymore.
Robin

New York, NY

#83 Oct 31, 2012
For one year and one month my granddaughter has been traumatized because of the Louisa county dss and cps. I am the Grammy and have spent. As much if not more time with my granddaughter then her own parents, oct 2 2011 they came to pick her up and they were coming down off a week end of cocain. They put kailaand myself through hell. My so tried to break my arm and they took kaila. As stepped in and. Have treated me no better than a old dog, my son and his girlfriend do drugs and the girlfriend is a thief. I am at the end of my rope and need help. I would like to protest ASAP to help my granddaughter before its to late but ss has treated me like a criminal please help
News Flash

Asheboro, NC

#84 Nov 10, 2012
Go to the website www.rn.ca.gov/public/rn509848.pdf
California Board Of Nurses
Read the accusations made against a former nurse there. Notice how this nurse was allowed to continue to steal drugs years after she was caught.

A woman now in Reidsville NC that moved here from California matches this person's ID's perfectly. This person that matches the ID's was is now caring for an elderly lady in her home Reidsville NC who is suffering with some type of memory loss.

This was reported to DSS and was accepted by the DSS.
Angel

Candler, NC

#85 Nov 27, 2012
I am wondering what will happen since Ive heard rumors from a previous acquantance that my x husband wants to open up the dss case that we were both found guilty of neglect, although there was no neglect, just a small amount of dv in the home towards myself. After 32 gruelling months I finally got my sole custody back. Now that my two children's father is wanting to be in the picture apparently he is going to do the classes and re-open his side of the case? My side of the case was closed. Im just wondering what will happen if he does this? Will I be forced to go back to court? Will I have to be forced to bring my children around the dss again for visits in those little rooms and have my oldest child re-live the nightmares? I dont know about going through with this again. What upper hand do I have to play, maybe the judge will listen to me since I have sole custody and take into account what I have to say or will my thoughts and fears be rejected and ignored like before? Will dss re-open the case on myself as well even though it was closed before? Confused and need help with answers.
Angel

Candler, NC

#86 Nov 27, 2012
Dss was relieved of all efforts of reunification by judge knight and apparently she is no longer there and retired I was told in August of this year? My deputy friend that works for buncombe county told me that the next judge would carry on what judge knight's previous orders were. Will it be the same social workers on the case or will it be different ones? I assume it will be the same since they have prior knowledge of the case. I was diagnosed with PTSD from dss. I dont want to go back there and dont want to subject either of my children to those monsters again. I just want them to stay away.
Angel

Candler, NC

#87 Nov 27, 2012
Relieved of all efforts to reunify the childrens father of reunification. How easy would it be for him to make his way back and will he ever get custody?
Angel

Candler, NC

#88 Nov 27, 2012
On another note, when the dss first got involved they never even looked at other alternatives to placing my eldest child with a family member. they never even considered it. instead they stole my child away in the late night and never allowed me to inform my attorney. there was not one thing said bad about me in the fifty something allegations that were substantiated in court, instead there were a few things that were lied about in court on my x and they even tried to charge us with abuse with neglect and abuse was never an issue. they made a few changes in subsequent court orders. abuse was never substantiated and matthew putnam agreed that was not the case and it was a typ-o.
DSS Police

Cherokee, NC

#89 Nov 28, 2012
More insight with pictures here:
http://wncmugshots.com/
brandy

Weaverville, NC

#90 Mar 1, 2013
Samantha M wrote:
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The two of you sound like social workers. I know the laws and even DSS and Buncombe County Sheriff deputies have personally told me the system is broken. If everyone acknowledges that the system is broken, don't you think someone should fix it?
Of course I know that most social workers aren't educated and lack common sense so I wouldn't expect them to be able to fix anything.
I would love to talk with u. Have placed mine in foster care when I didn't have them taken from me to begin with. The dad did.
southern b

Winston Salem, NC

#91 Jun 19, 2013
Man Up or Shut Up wrote:
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What you call lying, coercing, and intimidating, DSS refers to as erring on the side of caution, i.e. the safety of our children. And yes, I am "book educated" as you refer to it, but I earned my "life lessons" by staring onto the eyes of hundreds of suspects of child abuse, neglect, and molestation and having the joy of placing many of them behind prison walls. I learned my "life lessons" by having to listen to the most horrific of stories told by the victims of these senseless crimes - our defenseless children. So if I don't show alot of compassion for you or your Facebook page, I hope you will understand that I have heard all of the lies before and don't really care to hear them anymore.
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