“Funny lady”

Since: Sep 11

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#1 Jan 20, 2014
Hey everyone do the right thing and if you're that miserable in your relationship move on before you take up with someone else. My husband has decided he wants to be with someone else and it has devastated me.

I was very good to him. And no he had sex anytime he wanted it. I worked 2 jobs, cleaned, cooked and did everything he wanted. I was the perfect wife but I guess I wasn't good enough for him.

So now I get to start over at 52 years old. Think before you decide to hurt someone this way.

Letusnamenames

Since: Apr 13

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#2 Jan 20, 2014
hunnybunny99 wrote:
Hey everyone do the right thing and if you're that miserable in your relationship move on before you take up with someone else. My husband has decided he wants to be with someone else and it has devastated me.

I was very good to him. And no he had sex anytime he wanted it. I worked 2 jobs, cleaned, cooked and did everything he wanted. I was the perfect wife but I guess I wasn't good enough for him.

So now I get to start over at 52 years old. Think before you decide to hurt someone this way.
Sounds like his loss. You deserve better.
Suzy Q

Saint Louis, MO

#3 Jan 20, 2014
hunnybunny99 wrote:
Hey everyone do the right thing and if you're that miserable in your relationship move on before you take up with someone else. My husband has decided he wants to be with someone else and it has devastated me.
I was very good to him. And no he had sex anytime he wanted it. I worked 2 jobs, cleaned, cooked and did everything he wanted. I was the perfect wife but I guess I wasn't good enough for him.
So now I get to start over at 52 years old. Think before you decide to hurt someone this way.
I'm sorry to hear that. It's always a loss when a marriage breaks up. I wish you only the best of luck.
LES

Ballwin, MO

#4 Jan 20, 2014
HunnyBunny, You have every right to be hurt and grieve for the loss of a marriage.

What does the other women get? A lying cheater who is selfish, dis-loyal, immoral, a coward, deceitful and too dumb to realize he had a hard working, loving, giving wife.

What does he get? Someone devoid of basic moral character who wants a man that she knows is a lying cheat!

You now get the opportunity at the young age of 52 to find the kind of love you deserve! Love that is patient, kind, does not envy, boast, is not proud, does not dishonor others, not self seaking, slow to anger, keeps no record of wrongs. Love that protects, trust, hopes and preservers.
thats right

Saint Louis, MO

#5 Jan 20, 2014
Go for younger guys

“Funny lady”

Since: Sep 11

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#6 Jan 21, 2014
LES wrote:
HunnyBunny, You have every right to be hurt and grieve for the loss of a marriage.

What does the other women get? A lying cheater who is selfish, dis-loyal, immoral, a coward, deceitful and too dumb to realize he had a hard working, loving, giving wife.

What does he get? Someone devoid of basic moral character who wants a man that she knows is a lying cheat!

You now get the opportunity at the young age of 52 to find the kind of love you deserve! Love that is patient, kind, does not envy, boast, is not proud, does not dishonor others, not self seaking, slow to anger, keeps no record of wrongs. Love that protects, trust, hopes and preservers.
Thank you I'm just moving from the hurt phase into the anger phase. I've got to vent
Everyoneshouldno

United States

#7 Jan 21, 2014
Hey least ya ain't tish and got all the cookie funk from be n a dope [email protected]
Everyoneshouldno

United States

#8 Jan 21, 2014
Lives on brook shire and got all the dopers in the basement

“Funny lady”

Since: Sep 11

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#9 Jan 23, 2014
Everyoneshouldno wrote:
Hey least ya ain't tish and got all the cookie funk from be n a dope [email protected]€
No his name is Mike off of Arnold Tenbrook. Just got the divorce filed and he's already on Zoosk. What a POS

Beware ladies of Arnold he's on the loose

Letusnamenames

Since: Apr 13

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#10 Jan 24, 2014
hunnybunny99 wrote:
<quoted text>No his name is Mike off of Arnold Tenbrook. Just got the divorce filed and he's already on Zoosk. What a POS

Beware ladies of Arnold he's on the loose
Wait, earlier you said he took up with someone else and here you say he just filed and is on Zoosk. So which is it? I'm trying to understand.

Since: Aug 13

United States

#11 Jan 24, 2014
Letusnamenames wrote:
<quoted text>Wait, earlier you said he took up with someone else and here you say he just filed and is on Zoosk. So which is it? I'm trying to understand.
LUNN, are you a complete moron? She said "he has decided to be with someone else." That doesn't necessarily mean one specific person. She didn't say " he took up with someone else". Geez! It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

I do not comment that often, but you really need to use a little common sense once in a while. You must have nothing better to do than question this person and that person about this and that. You are always trying to "understand".
I don't think you will ever "understand" because quite frankly I think your to stupid to comprehend. You just want it to look as if you want to "understand." Well LUNN, I've wasted enough time on you.

Hun bun, stay strong an just ignore this moron. You will make someone very happy.
Arnoldman out....
Mr Blisterod

Edwardsville, IL

#12 Jan 24, 2014
hunnybunny99 wrote:
Hey everyone do the right thing and if you're that miserable in your relationship move on before you take up with someone else. My husband has decided he wants to be with someone else and it has devastated me.
I was very good to him. And no he had sex anytime he wanted it. I worked 2 jobs, cleaned, cooked and did everything he wanted. I was the perfect wife but I guess I wasn't good enough for him.
So now I get to start over at 52 years old. Think before you decide to hurt someone this way.
How much money do you make per month? I may be interested if you're not too fat or ugly.

Letusnamenames

Since: Apr 13

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#13 Jan 24, 2014
Arnoldman wrote:
<quoted text>LUNN, are you a complete moron? She said "he has decided to be with someone else." That doesn't necessarily mean one specific person. She didn't say " he took up with someone else". Geez! It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

I do not comment that often, but you really need to use a little common sense once in a while. You must have nothing better to do than question this person and that person about this and that. You are always trying to "understand".
I don't think you will ever "understand" because quite frankly I think your to stupid to comprehend. You just want it to look as if you want to "understand." Well LUNN, I've wasted enough time on you.

Hun bun, stay strong an just ignore this moron. You will make someone very happy.
Arnoldman out....
Get over yourself. You chose to waste time responding which says a lot about you. Why waste you time responding to me? Go fly a kite instead.
Mike Wilson

Edwardsville, IL

#14 Jan 24, 2014
I'll use my own name. I cheat on my wife all the time. She has MS and doesn't want to sex with me because I weigh 300 lbs and it hurts her to have me lay on top of her frail body. I tried to have sex with my daughter but she has big teeth and she bit me several times.
I found this fat woman in Mascoutah that loves me as long as I give her a part of my wife's and daughters SSI check each month.
I would divorce my wife but it's cheaper to keep her. Do you blame me for that?

“Funny lady”

Since: Sep 11

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#15 Jan 24, 2014
Arnoldman wrote:
<quoted text>LUNN, are you a complete moron? She said "he has decided to be with someone else." That doesn't necessarily mean one specific person. She didn't say " he took up with someone else". Geez! It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

I do not comment that often, but you really need to use a little common sense once in a while. You must have nothing better to do than question this person and that person about this and that. You are always trying to "understand".
I don't think you will ever "understand" because quite frankly I think your to stupid to comprehend. You just want it to look as if you want to "understand." Well LUNN, I've wasted enough time on you.

Hun bun, stay strong an just ignore this moron. You will make someone very happy.
Arnoldman out....
I just want peace in my life. To be rid of the poor excuse of a man who took a vow of till death do us part.

I'm so disgusted with him. I was a very good wife. I'm slim, pretty and to answer the other Hoosier no thanks.
ha ha

United States

#16 Jan 24, 2014
hunnybunny99 wrote:
<quoted text>
I just want peace in my life. To be rid of the poor excuse of a man who took a vow of till death do us part.
I'm so disgusted with him. I was a very good wife. I'm slim, pretty and to answer the other Hoosier no thanks.
When a man marries a woman he has the idea that she would stay attractive and not turn into her mother. The wedding vows, till, death do us part should not be a part of a wedding vow and personally I would never agree to that again. The wedding vow should be as long as I can stand you or you can stand me.
When they can't stand the sight of each other, then it's time to split. Each of you go your own way and start your life over. Apparently you have an issue with that but that is what adults do and don't hold onto childish fantasies from little adult children that still live in a fantasy world.
Grow up.

Letusnamenames

Since: Apr 13

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#17 Jan 25, 2014
HunnyBunny,

I understand that you are angry. I understand that you want to see him pay for what he did to you.

However, do you really think publicly airing your and his dirty laundry is appropriate? You should be better than that. We both know that this isn't the appropriate forum for that. I think you should maybe talk to a counselor who is trained and can help you work through your feelings and thoughts. There are many counselors available and depending on your income there are some places that can provide assistance and that even charge on a sliding scale based off of your income and insurance. Please be better than this and contact a counselor to help you work through your situation.

“Funny lady”

Since: Sep 11

Location hidden

#18 Jan 25, 2014
Letusnamenames wrote:
HunnyBunny,

I understand that you are angry. I understand that you want to see him pay for what he did to you.

However, do you really think publicly airing your and his dirty laundry is appropriate? You should be better than that. We both know that this isn't the appropriate forum for that. I think you should maybe talk to a counselor who is trained and can help you work through your feelings and thoughts. There are many counselors available and depending on your income there are some places that can provide assistance and that even charge on a sliding scale based off of your income and insurance. Please be better than this and contact a counselor to help you work through your situation.
This is an anonymous forum and I'm venting. Sorry you don't approve but it is what it is.

I really think you're the last person who should be recommending counseling to anyone judging by how often you're on here giving your two cents worth of advise.

My soon to be ex husband was telling people we were separated long before I found out about his cheating. That was very hurtful and humiliating so any little bit I do is nothing compared to what he did. I filed for divorce Thursday and can't wait until it's legally over.

“Funny lady”

Since: Sep 11

Location hidden

#19 Jan 25, 2014
ha ha wrote:
<quoted text>When a man marries a woman he has the idea that she would stay attractive and not turn into her mother. The wedding vows, till, death do us part should not be a part of a wedding vow and personally I would never agree to that again. The wedding vow should be as long as I can stand you or you can stand me.
When they can't stand the sight of each other, then it's time to split. Each of you go your own way and start your life over. Apparently you have an issue with that but that is what adults do and don't hold onto childish fantasies from little adult children that still live in a fantasy world.
Grow up.
The entire story is I've put up with years of emotional abuse from him. I forgave him over and over until he was caught cheating a second time. He had everything here at home but he's a childish drunk narcissist. Always wants more than he has.

Vows are exactly that vows, a promise before God. To do otherwise is evil.

So no I don't think it's childish to expect the man I married to agree to be faithful.

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