rabbee: surly you do not know, what this is about. it is about whether the woman is willing to give up her idolatries for The-One G-D or not. if the woman does not accept G-D, there is no way she shall accept you. there is no intercourse with the woman, without acceptance of G-D and you.<quoted text>
You call that Marriage. You have a perverted sense of Marriage. I call that slavery. I call that taking the spoils of war. I might go so far as call it rape under today's standards of war.
And if you go on, the passage says that she shall be forced to abandon her ways (discard her raiments) and family; i.e., forced conversion. Only then can there be a marriage. But if you don't like her then you must free her. Why might you not like her? Maybe because she refused to abandon her family and ways.
there is no forcible rape, involved here. and the chances are, this was not happening by your or her choice anyway. G-D has more to do with this happening, than you don't think. no way any of you, can prevent what G-D, has already pre-approved of.
and you have, a bad attitude against G-D. and there is no point, in your being an enemy of G-D. either you piss G-D off, or you don't. in this whole world, really, really, really pissing G-D off today again here in TheTorah. cause this is all this idolatrous world, against G-D knows how to do.
i guarantee to you, what pissed G-D off thousands and thousands of third or fourth times ago. will still piss, G-D off today.