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Moms need to let their kids see their dads!

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Tanya

Anna, IL

#1 Apr 4, 2011
I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, and his baby momma will not let him see his daughter. I know in the end she will just end up hating her mom for it, but his daughter needs him, and he needs her. Lawyers want way too much money that we dont have. Anyone know a cheap one out there willing to work with us?
Little Help

Anna, IL

#2 Apr 4, 2011
You can go to the SIU Law Library online and print papers and represent yourself in court for this matter without any attorney. All you have to pay is the filing fee of the papers and you might possibly be able to get out of that if you sign the waiver stating your inability to pay, which will also prohibit you from paying the Court fee. Hope that helps..if you can't find the website, let me know and I will link it for you!
Josh

Anna, IL

#3 Apr 4, 2011
Tanya wrote:
I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, and his baby momma will not let him see his daughter. I know in the end she will just end up hating her mom for it, but his daughter needs him, and he needs her. Lawyers want way too much money that we dont have. Anyone know a cheap one out there willing to work with us?
I totally agree with u. One of my friends are going through the same thing and the mommas just doing it cause she knows he dont want her anymore, and thats the only thing that will hurt him.
understanding

United States

#4 Apr 4, 2011
same situation here too i totally understand how you all feel.... the baby momma situation im goin thru has stressed our family out more than its worth. Now my bf and I have a child and I dont want my daughter raised around the baby momma or other child bc the mother has caused her daughter tons of problems and I dont want my child growin up around that. we havent spoken to her in 4 months and she still doesnt get the hint. still tries to call. most people dont understand deals such as ours but when the mother calls and tells the child she should come home and makes her feel guilty for being with us... Anytime we had her there was bs started and more stress was involved which the child shouldnt be drug through.... Im sorry u have to deal with a similar situation! Hope all gets better for you!
krystin grant

Montrose, MO

#5 Apr 5, 2011
Tanya wrote:
I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, and his baby momma will not let him see his daughter. I know in the end she will just end up hating her mom for it, but his daughter needs him, and he needs her. Lawyers want way too much money that we dont have. Anyone know a cheap one out there willing to work with us?
well susan burger is a good atorney ... and will work with you she helped michael and i... and set us up on payment plans it really worked for us hope all works out for you
hopeful helpful

United States

#6 Apr 5, 2011
this is for tonya.i am going through a custody battle right now for my children and susan burger is my lawyer it only cost 1,000 and she will work with u and let u make payments to her. she is a really good lawyer to she see right through all the bullshit and lies and always does whats best for the child. her office is down from the court house in jonesboro. give her a call hopeful u can at least get some answers. good luck and i hope everything works out for u.
Single Mom

Cairo, IL

#7 Apr 5, 2011
I am a single mom with two children. I have begged my childrens father to call, text and visit with them and he refuses. To the fathers(and mothers) out there who want to be a part of their childrens lives... I commend you, don't make the children suffer because of the adults diffrences. They are only young for a short time and reguardless of how the parents feel about each other, it takes two parents for a whole child. Every child deserves a mother and a father. Get along in front of the kids and only talk kind about one another to or in front of them. I hate seeing a child unhappy when it is so easy to please them. I just wish the father of my children had cared when it would have counted. My kids are now 20 and 15, he has been out of their lives for 13 years. I see the hurt in their faces and I hope other parents can spare the pain for theirs.
asdf

Paradise Valley, AZ

#8 Apr 5, 2011
Single Mom wrote:
I am a single mom with two children. I have begged my childrens father to call, text and visit with them and he refuses. To the fathers(and mothers) out there who want to be a part of their childrens lives... I commend you, don't make the children suffer because of the adults diffrences. They are only young for a short time and reguardless of how the parents feel about each other, it takes two parents for a whole child. Every child deserves a mother and a father. Get along in front of the kids and only talk kind about one another to or in front of them. I hate seeing a child unhappy when it is so easy to please them. I just wish the father of my children had cared when it would have counted. My kids are now 20 and 15, he has been out of their lives for 13 years. I see the hurt in their faces and I hope other parents can spare the pain for theirs.
I totally agree with this.. I think weather or not the parents like each other they should still be there for their kids.. My friend is going through this situation right now. He had a one night stand when him and his recent girl friend broke up, the girl ended up pregnant. Him and his girlfriend of course worked things out and got back together. Well come to find out the one night stand ended up pregant and now is saying the father will never see his child if he dont get back with her because she dont want to be a single parent. But the father has told her millions of times he dont want to be with her, he wants to be with his girlfriend that he loves, and still be there for his child. His girlfriend is okay with it. But the baby momma not. I feel for the kid when it is born if this troublt is still going on.
not sure

Staten Island, NY

#9 Apr 5, 2011
I'm not sure that I agree with "it takes both parents to make a whole". In some cases Children are much better off with out a parent when that parent would rather buy drugs instead of diapers. Or have beer instead getting milk for the baby. Or they decide that they want to see the child when ever it's confenient for them. I know many single parents, myself being one of them. Children can be raised just as good, or in some cased even better, with only one parent. Yes, every child does deserve both parents but not every parent deserves that child.
Single Mom

Cairo, IL

#10 Apr 5, 2011
ASDF- your freind needs to fight for his rights as a father. If the babys momma loves her child and he will be a good father then she should find someone who cares for her and not try and trap a man who is trying to do the rite thing for his child.

NOT SURE- you raise some very good points. I have raised my kids on my own and both are strait "A" students. Their father is exactly what you have described but I still wish he would be a good dad for my kids sake. I have problems teaching my son to be a man, what can a woman teach a boy about being a man?

“my name is bethany”

Since: Mar 11

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#11 Apr 6, 2011
Beth Sandlin never lets Josh Smith see his kids, they have 2 together....it's flat out stupid to not let them see their parents....she says he never wants to see them, and that she has to ask him when he is going to get them....i don't believe it one bit
A GOOD FRIEND

United States

#12 Apr 6, 2011
There is no reason what so ever to bring anyone's name into this forum-so if you have problems with Beth maybe its better to confront her with how you feel instead of tryin to bash her. and yes josh does see the kids anytime he wants. so please by all means be nice
outoftowner

United States

#13 Apr 19, 2011
Isn't Susan Burger the replacement for Patrick Cox..I know someone she has represented and that person is involved with a Turner..I had a face to face with Patrick Cox and Susan Burger and both of them will represent any Piece of crap for money even if they have abused children!!
pacer

United States

#14 Apr 20, 2011
Hey outoftowner why don't u say wich turner. Most are great people unlike ur coward ass!!
humored

United States

#15 Apr 24, 2011
That woman is insane! She as threatened to commit suicide in open court.
unreal

Anna, IL

#16 Jun 2, 2011
What kind of mother doesnt want her child on Mothers Day? This is something i dont understand my kids are grown and i want to see them every Mothers Day and I know a mother with a 6 year old who refuses to spend Mothers Day with her child...UNREAL
Another single mom

Carterville, IL

#17 Jun 2, 2011
Single Mom wrote:
I am a single mom with two children. I have begged my childrens father to call, text and visit with them and he refuses. To the fathers(and mothers) out there who want to be a part of their childrens lives... I commend you, don't make the children suffer because of the adults diffrences. They are only young for a short time and reguardless of how the parents feel about each other, it takes two parents for a whole child. Every child deserves a mother and a father. Get along in front of the kids and only talk kind about one another to or in front of them. I hate seeing a child unhappy when it is so easy to please them. I just wish the father of my children had cared when it would have counted. My kids are now 20 and 15, he has been out of their lives for 13 years. I see the hurt in their faces and I hope other parents can spare the pain for theirs.
I have done the same thing with my daughter's "sperm donor". I have even reached out to his family and NONE of them have anything to do with her. I have been nothing but nice to the father from the time she was born and he still refuses. I've told him several times that no amount of child support will ever make up for what he has done to her and that I'd rather him be a daddy to her than have a million dollars.
seriously

Marion, IL

#18 Jun 2, 2011
outoftowner wrote:
Isn't Susan Burger the replacement for Patrick Cox..I know someone she has represented and that person is involved with a Turner..I had a face to face with Patrick Cox and Susan Burger and both of them will represent any Piece of crap for money even if they have abused children!!
don't know if she is his replacement...but yes she certainly will also represent any piece of crap with some cash in hand.....no matter what they have done to their kids and how nuts they are.......certainly no saint....represent anyone for a buck....as most of them will...
Single Mom

Cairo, IL

#19 Jun 8, 2011
Another single mom.... It's his loss. He has done the dammage to your daughter,,,as long as you do your part then you have been a good mom. Always respect your daughters father and his family in front of her and when the time comes (and it will) for her to reconnect with him, he will find that you were the bigger better parent. My childeren both see that I have always been there for them when their father wasn't. My son wont even acknowlege he has a father and my daughter has spoke with him and said her peace. Now that we are going to be grandparents he has seriously missed out. Im sure he wont even know for a few years and that is his own fault. Be proud of yourself and do your very best with your daughter...in the future you will know you did the right thing. Who knows...he might grow a pair and start acting like a father before it's to late. All we can do is pray ;)

Since: Jun 11

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#20 Jun 19, 2011
I disagree with mothers not letting fathers see their kid because they are with someone else just because it didn't work out between both parents does not mean you have to keep they child from their parent

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