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Adult Fun

Bowling Green, KY

#1 Sep 3, 2012
Just attended a house party where all the ladies were fully clothed but the men were required to remain nude all night CFNM. They called it "soft-swinging". Not all the men had great bodies and they appeared only semi aroused or soft all night. Went with my new boyfriend who was married to a full swinger wife who moved home to Europe where he says parties like this are commom. I had never heard of it, has anyone else?

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Nudist Traveler

Chicago, IL

#2 Sep 3, 2012
Your bf is introducing you to the swingers lifestyle. CFNM is the next step after a meet and greet party and the next party is usually women wearing togas with nothing underneath and men nude. Some couple or triple ends up breaking the no touching in front of the group rule and goes at it. They watch how you react to that to see if you can handle the next parties where there is open sex and swapping or sharing. There is never any pressure on you to join in and "no means no" is the major rule. Many women don't want to go past the toga party stage, but ALL men do. lol

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Nudist Traveler

Chicago, IL

#3 Sep 3, 2012
And yes, it is very common in Europe to have men nude at a pool party and women in swimsuits or wearing bottoms only. Sex is in the beds, not poolside there.

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Party too

Bowling Green, KY

#4 Sep 3, 2012
Adult Fun wrote:
Just attended a house party where all the ladies were fully clothed but the men were required to remain nude all night CFNM. They called it "soft-swinging". Not all the men had great bodies and they appeared only semi aroused or soft all night. Went with my new boyfriend who was married to a full swinger wife who moved home to Europe where he says parties like this are commom. I had never heard of it, has anyone else?
And this happened in BG? I have been invited by men friends to Manage' swingers niteclub in Nashville, but I wasn't ready then. Now I feel I would like the watching part and I don't have a man in my life that I trust enough to ask him to go. I am too scared of the environment to go there as a single woman. How do you get yourself invited? Is there a BG bar or place to meet others who might get my toe in the water?

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BG fun

Bowling Green, KY

#5 Sep 3, 2012
We went to a house party Saturday with some people we met at BAC gym last week. Wife was uncomfortable for some reason and then agreed it was just her mood and would pass, so we stayed. Then she came to get me to show me that on a coffee table in the master bedroom was a giant punchbowl overflowing with unwrapped condoms of all sizes and colors. We made our excuses and left before it got going, we are pretty sure it was a swing party. She's not at all interested, but I was curious about it all.

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BG Swing Couple

Bowling Green, KY

#6 Sep 3, 2012
It's all safe and totally voluntary. The meet/greets bring in New friends since people move or drop out of the lifestyle, then cfnm is alot of laughs. In BG most of us own boats and raft up in the redneck yacht club. Laughing at punch bowl with condoms, that's from a 1970's porno movie. LOL

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lover

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#7 Sep 3, 2012
Adult Fun wrote:
Just attended a house party where all the ladies were fully clothed but the men were required to remain nude all night CFNM. They called it "soft-swinging". Not all the men had great bodies and they appeared only semi aroused or soft all night. Went with my new boyfriend who was married to a full swinger wife who moved home to Europe where he says parties like this are commom. I had never heard of it, has anyone else?
I would like to fun out where to get into this at. I have thought about it for some time now
Get Naked

Covington, KY

#8 Sep 3, 2012
Indian Hills Country Club can hook you up. Should have seen some of the late night skinny dip parties. Fun, fun!
BG Swing Couple

Bowling Green, KY

#9 Sep 3, 2012
Frats can be fun.. beginners..........
suggests

Bowling Green, KY

#10 Sep 4, 2012
Party too wrote:
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And this happened in BG? I have been invited by men friends to Manage' swingers niteclub in Nashville, but I wasn't ready then. Now I feel I would like the watching part and I don't have a man in my life that I trust enough to ask him to go. I am too scared of the environment to go there as a single woman. How do you get yourself invited? Is there a BG bar or place to meet others who might get my toe in the water?
It's spelled Menage. Single women get in free. Men pay $45 and must sit at the bar unless invited to sit elsewhere be a couple or female. Most single men get picked by the male of the couple in the men's room. There is alot of bi.
single m

Bowling Green, KY

#11 Sep 4, 2012
suggests wrote:
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It's spelled Menage. Single women get in free. Men pay $45 and must sit at the bar unless invited to sit elsewhere be a couple or female. Most single men get picked by the male of the couple in the men's room. There is alot of bi.
Lots of bi men and women at Menages. Cheaper to pay a hooker. Beer is $8 plus tip and the couples expect single men to buy all their drinks at $12 mixed drink. And that is just to sit with them so you can escape looking like a loser at the bar after paying $45 for the privilege. House party ounds like a lot more fun and naked is just a great fashion statement. I'm in, when and where.
massage fan

Bowling Green, KY

#12 Sep 4, 2012
Get to know your masseuse personally and let her know you are available and looking. They work at the swinger parties even if they don't join in the sex. Anyone in that business in BG has been invited to bring their table and oils. (and a hand job is just $40 tip for most once they know you).

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Gone once

Bowling Green, KY

#13 Sep 4, 2012
single m wrote:
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Lots of bi men and women at Menages. Cheaper to pay a hooker. Beer is $8 plus tip and the couples expect single men to buy all their drinks at $12 mixed drink. And that is just to sit with them so you can escape looking like a loser at the bar after paying $45 for the privilege. House party ounds like a lot more fun and naked is just a great fashion statement. I'm in, when and where.
They don't want horney single men there. It's a couple's place. Single women drink free and pay no cover.
Billy Goat

Bowling Green, KY

#14 Sep 4, 2012
I went to a party at the AGR house once. Couldn't sit down for a week.
wondering

Bowling Green, KY

#15 Sep 4, 2012
Nudist Traveler wrote:
Your bf is introducing you to the swingers lifestyle. CFNM is the next step after a meet and greet party and the next party is usually women wearing togas with nothing underneath and men nude. Some couple or triple ends up breaking the no touching in front of the group rule and goes at it. They watch how you react to that to see if you can handle the next parties where there is open sex and swapping or sharing. There is never any pressure on you to join in and "no means no" is the major rule. Many women don't want to go past the toga party stage, but ALL men do. lol
So these grown men are just sitting and standing around like any other cocktail party, but naked. No erections, no sex touching, and their junk on display for all to see. It sounds unsanitary, I mean some guys dribble unconsciously, do they at least sit on a towel? Nudist is odd to me, but this is really a stretch.

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Silly

Bowling Green, KY

#16 Sep 4, 2012
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So these grown men are just sitting and standing around like any other cocktail party, but naked. No erections, no sex touching, and their junk on display for all to see. It sounds unsanitary, I mean some guys dribble unconsciously, do they at least sit on a towel? Nudist is odd to me, but this is really a stretch.
LOL. No sh!t. They "dribble"?? And LOL at cock tail party has a whole new meaning.
Willing

AOL

#17 Sep 4, 2012
You cannot tell me that there is not some WOOD in the room as women tease and play. And I met some swingers at Johnettas bar during a stripper show and they said there is always sex going on at these parties, it is just in bathrooms and private bedrooms. Johnetta was smart enough to make the men's room a women's room for the show, and there were lots of conversations about group sex. Just not with Johnetta.
Linda

Bowling Green, KY

#18 Sep 6, 2012
We had a labor day party for our group of ladies with one bartender in a thong. Enough tips got him naked, then we tipped him enough to put on a show. He ended up playingwith himself for us and coming into his left hand. First time for me to see that. Went home and attacked husband.

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wondering

Bowling Green, KY

#19 Sep 6, 2012
Linda wrote:
We had a labor day party for our group of ladies with one bartender in a thong. Enough tips got him naked, then we tipped him enough to put on a show. He ended up playingwith himself for us and coming into his left hand. First time for me to see that. Went home and attacked husband.
What is considered having sex these days? Paying a man to masturbate in front of you women would be considered prostitution by most people. If you touched him or flashed him to help him get off, you had sex with him. You cheated on your husband.

I hope he washed up before dropping the next olive in your martini.

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Patrick

Bowling Green, KY

#20 Sep 6, 2012
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What is considered having sex these days? Paying a man to masturbate in front of you women would be considered prostitution by most people. If you touched him or flashed him to help him get off, you had sex with him. You cheated on your husband.
I hope he washed up before dropping the next olive in your martini.
Sex is a gray word ever since President Bill Clinton "did not have sex with that woman, Miss Lewinsky." She masturbated with a cigar in the oval office and he testified that he does not consider that sex. If she had not saved the semen stain on her blue dress Clinton would still be denying sex happened. I got one for you...is it sex to be watching someone live on a webcam as they masturbate? Is that cheating?

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