A man from Orlando, has been exploiting an Altamonte Springs single woman he recently met online. She'll recognize herself because he refuses to use protection with her or his other lovers and made that quite clear to her when they first had sex.
He usually tells his "prey" that his previous lovers were women that loved him profusely but that his feelings were not "reciprocal" (it's his favorite line) because women so easily fall for it. The line is effective because it implies to the new conquest that "she" will be the one that will succeed where all the others failed. Sound familiar?
His involvement with the Altamonte Springs gal will run its course. His trysts always do. Sadly, while he's using her, he'll fill her with hope of a future that will never materialize.
She emotionally exposed herself when she posted her personal ad. He studied it carefully and learned all her needs, wants and desires. He's been verbally feeding them back to her, every time they meet. He doesn't mean her any emotional harm but he suffers from a genetic inability to feel. Like any quiet storm, he assumes no responsibility for the damage he leaves in his wake.
He is a medically undiagnosed sociopath, but as one of those that know him well, we can assure the new gal that nothing he's ever done to a woman (consider he's been dating since the sixties), while sadly and completely amoral, constitutes illegality at any level. She won't even be able to sue him for the many humiliations she'll suffer.
And sadly, we're all aware of her as well. She is not the first, she is not the last and sadly, the emotional damage he'll drag her through will take an inordinate time to heal.
If a woman in your family or circle of friends has recently begun dating an effusively charming, doting man, where you can sense in your gut, there's something wrong but just can't put your finger on it - it's probably him.
His illness is such that he can't live without several women in his life simultaneously but he can't share a home with one either. Ask your friend if she's recently met a man whose home just doesn't look like someone of his social standing would live there. She'll know exactly what you mean.
The most dangerous aspect of his behavior, that again is not illegal is that he refuses to use contraceptives with her or anyone else he sleeps with. And it doesn't take him years or months to get bored with new "strange". It will be a matter of weeks.
He'll want to see her almost every day and get involved with every aspect of her life, her work, her friends and her relatives, yet he'll make the woman accept that he not only sees other women and is sleeping with them, but that she can only see him if he hasn't already scheduled an overnight date with one of the others. He doesn't even change the bed sheets between making love to one woman and another (in the same bed no less).
We're his relatives, so we have to put up with him, yet even we have placed restrictions and limit what we'll let him get away with. Ask your friend or relative, why she feels so bad about herself that she's putting up with this clear disregard for her emotional and physical health.
Heartbreakingly, this post probably applies to hundreds women in the Altamonte Springs area and all over Florida. Remind your friend or relative that dating a man like this is dangerous because he doesn't care if he contracts a disease or shares his STD's with her. He even told her he had an STD and she still agreed to have unprotected sex with him.
You have to wonder what is going on in a woman's head and heart to put up with this total dismissal of her being yet she'll bother to wear a seat belt. Let her know that he doesn't mean to use her. We liken him to an emotional scorpion - he just can't help it.
And what's worse is that he shares every detail. We know everything about her. It's wrong that he shares his personal conquests with us but then again, while wrong, gossip is not illegal either.