Friend is dating an emotionally marri...

Friend is dating an emotionally married man - how do I tell her?

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Your sister

Orlando, FL

#1 Feb 10, 2012
My friend just met a guy online that she has been dating almost every day exclusively. She thinks they're boyfriend and girlfriend and she even took down her ad off the online dating sites.
He did not take his ad off and he still meets new women all the time and makes love to his ex every opportunity he gets.
Meanwhile, my friend thinks "she" is the one in his life. The guy and myself have mutual friends and mutual interests. Our mutual friends have told me that he has already told them that he has already wanted to end it because they're too different.
He says that she can sense when he wants to end it because whenever he asks her to sit down to tell her he wants to part as friends, she seems to feel it and does everything and anything else to avoid the discussion.
He's not even spending Valentines Day with her and I don't think he's told her yet. I asked the mutual friends if he's married and they answered that he's not married to the woman he sleeps with but that they've been sleeping together for years and that they don't see him ending it. He's not married to her but he might as well be considering he refuses to give her up no matter who he's dating.
I am tempted to tell her family so that they can help her through it but like everyone else - I don't want to get involved.
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