How To Stop Loving Someone??

How To Stop Loving Someone??

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why me

United States

#1 Sep 19, 2012
I try & try &try! I know they don't love me anymore they said they didn't. Why can't I stop loving them? I waited my entire life for this person, i put other's well being & sacrificed years of my happiness. I've gotten down on my knees & prayed to god many times to help me & he just answer my prayer.
try never know

Dallas, TX

#2 Sep 19, 2012
Why don't u just tell the person u never know maybe they have a change if heart and deep down they still love u
why me

United States

#3 Sep 20, 2012
It's strange it's not even been a week since they told me that & they told me over the phone & when they did they hesitated for a few seconds, I also asked them what was the first thing they thought of in the morning & the last thing they thought of at night & never got a response on that one.
I would really like for them to tell me this in person but they won't meet with me so what do u do?
try never know

Dallas, TX

#4 Sep 20, 2012
Well don't look like they are going to tell you for some reason or another I say its time to move on and boy its hard but in time it will get easier hope things get better for u
ihadtoo

Dallas, TX

#5 Sep 20, 2012
You have to just kill them in your mind. pretend that they're did & they just don't exist anymore. That's what Im having to do.
ihadtoo

Dallas, TX

#6 Sep 20, 2012
I meant dead...not did. stupid auto correct!
looking

Haslet, TX

#7 Sep 20, 2012
I think when it's true love you never stop loving that person. You just learn to live without them.
why me

United States

#8 Sep 20, 2012
I have tried every way I can tol live without, to forget, to move on.
I just feel deep in my heart he is giving up on the best thing he could possibly have, i'm very serious.
I sometimes feel that he thinks or has an idea a person like me would not love him the rest of our lives & he's wrong very wrong.
I think there is a lot of misunderstanding & we should discuss things before we permantly cut ties forever.
hey

United States

#9 Sep 21, 2012
A lot of us go through this very same situation. Infact, I myself am going through it now. It hurts but I keep telling myself I'm better off and eventually will be. Time heals all wounds.
liz

Haslet, TX

#10 Sep 21, 2012
You need to go out and meet someone new. When you start getting positive attention from someone else you will realize that you can live without that other person. My long time boyfriend broke up with me and I thought I was going to die. It hurt like crazy!! I started going out eventually met someone and realized how much I really didn't need my ex anymore.
true to yourself

Alice, TX

#11 Sep 22, 2012
The exact same with me. I gave 14 yrs into marriage. I sacrificed so much, it was ok we tried over and over. I guess he thought I'd always take him back after his unfaithfulness. I got tired and left him.he knows I'll always love him. He still calls and says he wants to come back home then he does it again. I give up, no more. I have found a loving man who I will share my life with now. Don't ever give up.

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