women that ask for more money besides...

women that ask for more money besides child support

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Money hungry

Kansas City, MO

#1 Oct 26, 2011
i am i not seeing this clearly?
My hubbys baby momma and his daughter keep asking for more money. I used to not mind but all they wanna do is shop (example) for school we sent $500 for cloths plus her $580 monthly child support now she wants another $500 for winter cloths. She wants 2 pairs of jordans. Heres the catch we habe
saying

Corpus Christi, TX

#2 Oct 27, 2011
that is too bad, the mother should have enough with the $580 that is being sent. What kid has this amount of money spent on just them? She needs winter clothes then go somewhere sensible and shop for her. She should have enough with this amount and your husband should put his foot down. Tell her times are tough and this can't happen. Hope he sticks to his guns and doesn't give into to this selfish witch.
Believe

Plano, TX

#3 Oct 27, 2011
i think you are selfish because it takes alot to raise children. the child support is not just for the children it is also used for utilities and so forth. You help make the child now pay up dumb loser.
saying wrote:
that is too bad, the mother should have enough with the $580 that is being sent. What kid has this amount of money spent on just them? She needs winter clothes then go somewhere sensible and shop for her. She should have enough with this amount and your husband should put his foot down. Tell her times are tough and this can't happen. Hope he sticks to his guns and doesn't give into to this selfish witch.
step mother

Mineral, TX

#4 Oct 27, 2011
Well I've had to be on the other side of the fence before so I understand that it's expensive to raise kids on your own. Now I am a step mother to a beautiful little boy and I don't mind at all havin to do extra for him no matter what it is clothes, sports, birthdays as long as hes happy! I even shop for him on my own. Love him to pieces. I wish my kiddos step mother was the same. But she didn't even want my kids dad payin child support at all. So I know what it feels like to not have any help at all which is why I am so understandin with my step son :)
Whatever

Sinton, TX

#5 Oct 27, 2011
the chils support should be used for the child not utilities!! The mother needs to get off her lazy a55 and get a job and not live off the kids money!!
Believe wrote:
i think you are selfish because it takes alot to raise children. the child support is not just for the children it is also used for utilities and so forth. You help make the child now pay up dumb loser.<quoted text>
Whatever

Sinton, TX

#6 Oct 27, 2011
child*
Believe

Plano, TX

#7 Oct 27, 2011
Now this is a great individual with some sense unlike money hungry. There is certain circumstances, but in the end when the child is all grown up it will all be worth it, why the selfishness really. Grow up and take care of all kids whether yours or not( kids need loving now a days).
step mother wrote:
Well I've had to be on the other side of the fence before so I understand that it's expensive to raise kids on your own. Now I am a step mother to a beautiful little boy and I don't mind at all havin to do extra for him no matter what it is clothes, sports, birthdays as long as hes happy! I even shop for him on my own. Love him to pieces. I wish my kiddos step mother was the same. But she didn't even want my kids dad payin child support at all. So I know what it feels like to not have any help at all which is why I am so understandin with my step son :)
Believe

Plano, TX

#8 Oct 27, 2011
Child support is for not only clothes. Obviously you dont know crap.
Whatever wrote:
the chils support should be used for the child not utilities!! The mother needs to get off her lazy a55 and get a job and not live off the kids money!!
<quoted text>
saying

Corpus Christi, TX

#9 Oct 27, 2011
two pairs of jordan's. I don't think so. Learn to shop lady; if you can't give her expensive stuff all the time why should she be raised always wanting the best? Buy what you can afford and don't let her grow up always wanting things that you can't afford.
step mother

Tomball, TX

#10 Oct 27, 2011
saying wrote:
two pairs of jordan's. I don't think so. Learn to shop lady; if you can't give her expensive stuff all the time why should she be raised always wanting the best? Buy what you can afford and don't let her grow up always wanting things that you can't afford.
If her daddy can afford it why wouldn't he wanna give his child the best. If we couldn't afford it than of coarse we wouldn't be able to do extra. But since all of our bills are paid and we're not goin hungry of coarse we give him what he needs...
whatever

United States

#11 Oct 27, 2011
Believe wrote:
Child support is for not only clothes. Obviously you dont know crap.<quoted text>
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You don't know crap! Get a job you loser and stop using your child's money to live!!
Yup

Tomball, TX

#12 Oct 27, 2011
Im on the same boat my ex is dress all nice in name brand clothes and my kids all trashy.
Money hungry

Tulsa, OK

#13 Oct 27, 2011
ok first of all we have 2 kids and a house we are buying we do our best! We just got her the new evo phone and pay for her phone bill and i dont have a problem helping with a extra but his daughter never calls unless she needs something and my husband is really torn with her actions. Its not our fault that she has 4 kids from diffrent daddies and preggo again. She just got married and she has a job so there should be no reason for her to use the childsupport for anything else but the childs needs!! My husband loves his daughter and so do i but the moment we can't give her what she wants she pulls completly away and her being hundres of miles away does not help any!
just saying

United States

#14 Oct 27, 2011
Money hungry wrote:
ok first of all we have 2 kids and a house we are buying we do our best! We just got her the new evo phone and pay for her phone bill and i dont have a problem helping with a extra but his daughter never calls unless she needs something and my husband is really torn with her actions. Its not our fault that she has 4 kids from diffrent daddies and preggo again. She just got married and she has a job so there should be no reason for her to use the childsupport for anything else but the childs needs!! My husband loves his daughter and so do i but the moment we can't give her what she wants she pulls completly away and her being hundres of miles away does not help any!
In my opinion maybe don't give her the.$$ but maybe take her shopping for what she needs... I've been in a similar situation.. It's hard but you have to make decisions that will work for both daughter and father..
queen

Tomball, TX

#15 Oct 27, 2011
It's so sad when moms can't even get off their fat ass to take their kids to the fair, or give them 2 dollars for lunch the just have the poor kids call daddy crying that they don't have money. You get child support you can't dish out anything you are so lazy always on your ass. Just cause you have custody doesn't mean anything when all you do is take advantage of the people around you. Get a life.
:-)
Deadbeatmom

Corpus Christi, TX

#16 Oct 27, 2011
Stop giving her cash!!! Everything you give her should be through the court or money order. Keep all your reciepts, although that really doesn't help, you can at least show that you goin above and beyond. Also,why don't you offer to take the kid shopping at least you'll know it going to the kid and not her. The mother is probably running around with coach purses and fine clothes. Ugh!! They make me sick!! Meanwhile, they can be putting that money away for the child. Kids get older and more expensive!!
hello

Corpus Christi, TX

#17 Oct 28, 2011
im a seperated wife at this time and its very hard to raise my kids alone but i have a very understanding husband that still pays all my bills and gives my kids all the money they need...so why go through a divorce and get child support while my hubby helps me out more this way and besides i know that no woman is going to last him like this cause he will never leave me&his kids even though were seperated so for the woman that decides to date him im sorry because he will never have money left to spend on her..peace and godbless all...&bout the other situations on here i think the father should help out his kids all he can...cause sometimes child support wont be enough!
Money hungry

United States

#18 Oct 28, 2011
Thanks to all the great advice and for those of you who only have bad things to say watch out you may be in a situation that is just as bad or worst and you wouldnt want to be judged!! Oh and just an fyi my hubby always puts himself last when it come to his familys needs and i am not a materialistic person at all so i dont spend much on myself but we are building our foundation for our future so we are investing most of our money and live on a very tight budget. I know one day it will pay off but how do we make the 15 yr old understand that we are doing our best!!
queen

Tomball, TX

#19 Oct 28, 2011
hello wrote:
im a seperated wife at this time and its very hard to raise my kids alone but i have a very understanding husband that still pays all my bills and gives my kids all the money they need...so why go through a divorce and get child support while my hubby helps me out more this way and besides i know that no woman is going to last him like this cause he will never leave me&his kids even though were seperated so for the woman that decides to date him im sorry because he will never have money left to spend on her..peace and godbless all...&bout the other situations on here i think the father should help out his kids all he can...cause sometimes child support wont be enough!
Yea right. Hello; hello......lol u r separated for a reason cause he can't stand ur ass! Lol & he loves mine. So keep thinking he will ever go back to you and stay in denial. He doesn't let u get a divorce cause he knows he will have to pay child support! Lol and besides of course he pays the girlfriends bills too you just think everything is easy when it's not. Your one of those women that clings to their baby daddy's cause they have no life. Miserable bitch. Lmao must suck to be you.
shut up

United States

#20 Oct 28, 2011
Me and my husband give 1000 on childsupport and the mom is dressed all nice and doesnt even have the little girl all the time cuz she leaves her w his mom the little girl tells us that she only eats ramon noodles all the time the little girl wears clothes that dont fit her she says she sleeps on the couch cuz she has nothing in her room soo tell me wat the hell is the money we give i rather give that to his mom since she has her all the time then giving it to that hoe bag

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