Married man chatting online on Facebook with different women. What do you think?

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Confused23

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Apr 28, 2010
 
I would just like to hear a few opinions on this subject. Thanks!
Amber

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Apr 28, 2010
 
Married women do it too
la sexy

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Apr 28, 2010
 
well who exactly are you talking about? you mentioned a married man? which one?
confused23

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Apr 28, 2010
 

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no name just asking the question of is it right and is it considered cheating?
confused23

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Apr 28, 2010
 
Men and women both do it but do you all think that it is right and not a big deal? If you caught your significant other doing it what would you do or say?
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Apr 28, 2010
 
Cuz I have lots of friends online (FB) and my fiancé doesn't say anything, and that's because he's a very jealous man!! But my friends are my friends, males & females!! But of course the conversation has to be with respect, not flirty, lol.
Just what I think

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Apr 28, 2010
 
My husband and I have FB and he doesnt check on me too much but I dont give any reasons to feel that i am cheating. And as for him from time to time I check on him and his friends. but there is nothing every going on. I think we just get on to play games and relax.In my opinion Facebook is not a place for cheating, maybe it happens? But if you feel that there are reasons to be suspicious, just do alittle investigating before accusing anything!
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Apr 29, 2010
 
fb is just a spot for people to brag on,or maybe friends shooting the shit with friends from allover the world,it brings everyone together,im married but know a lotta people on there,and im not bothering anyone,just a lotta saying hi to everyone i knew way back and see how they are,same as classmates ,possibly bigger
miss alice tx

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Apr 30, 2010
 
Well there are lots of married men and women that get online and chat...thats what u do on websites! it doesn't matter if the man is married and is chatting w.different women as long as he keeps it to a civilized chat!! flirty chat isn't good!
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#10
May 11, 2010
 
yeah just cuz we married dont mean our balls r cut off
wow

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Jun 6, 2010
 
if you aren't ready for the married life, don't say "I do"
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Jul 21, 2010
 
marriage is a death sentence to your genitals
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Jul 22, 2010
 
cheating is cheating it could me emotional or physical it's still cheating
Yvette Castillo

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Jul 22, 2010
 

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Both my husband and myself are on facebook. We chat with former classmates of the opposite sex. There is no jealousy and we trust one another. No flirting is going on and we both are smart enough to see when a person starts talking emotionally to us. I had a former classmate tell me his fiance was jealous of me because he talked to me. I saw where this was going and I told him it would be best to remove him from my page and wished him good luck with his fiance. Why bother getting yourself caught up in that web? I did tell my husband and it didn't even bother him. He trusts me.
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Jul 22, 2010
 
Well if he was hiding about his FB than there's something up that's how cheating starts they meet old girl friends and starts from there
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Jul 23, 2010
 
I won't let my bf have a facebook ...cuz he might just talk to them as friends which is fine but I kno the way girls/women are they dnt care if the guy has someone if they r intrested they will do whtvr to get the guy ...and I dnt like that...but if u feel that he is talking to one gurl more than he should u should definately check into it cuz u just nevr kno ...o but make sure u hv facts before u accuse
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Jul 23, 2010
 

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I don't like it. Chatting leads to flirting and flirting can lead to more. It's possible to be completely platonic but things happen. Some girls don't care if the guy is involved.
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Jul 23, 2010
 
--TAZ-- wrote:
I won't let my bf have a facebook ...cuz he might just talk to them as friends which is fine but I kno the way girls/women are they dnt care if the guy has someone if they r intrested they will do whtvr to get the guy ...and I dnt like that...but if u feel that he is talking to one gurl more than he should u should definately check into it cuz u just nevr kno ...o but make sure u hv facts before u accuse
i have over 200 friends frm all over the world and im married my husband has no problem with it.chating with the opposite is not cheating cuz if it were then we would all be cheaters,and the comment bout i knw the girls/wemon r they dnt care well that goes both ways men do it to they firt not careing if the ladies r married u just have to learn to trust ur partner if u see him hiding the cell fone then worry
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Jul 23, 2010
 
sorry dnt knw why it comment twice
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Jul 23, 2010
 
married wrote:
<quoted text>i have over 200 friends frm all over the world and im married my husband has no problem with it.chating with the opposite is not cheating cuz if it were then we would all be cheaters,and the comment bout i knw the girls/wemon r they dnt care well that goes both ways men do it to they firt not careing if the ladies r married u just have to learn to trust ur partner if u see him hiding the cell fone then worry
Yea I kno that guys r capable of doing that as well ....and y'all trust each othr that's cool I trust my guy and that's why I wrote that I kno he will talk to girls as just friends but the thing is his friends are from a different town not alice and in that town I kno that most of them girls are known to mess with guys that are taken thats all ...but lucky for me my guy isn't into all the computer stuff like topix...myspace...facebook so I dnt hv to even wrry bout it :)

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