Ahhhhh......... because they said they would?! The fact that she is considering breaking her word is what sickens me. I was married to someone that constantly showed forth that she had an escape hatch. I could endlessly see her run it through her thought process. Ancient explorers often had a habit of burning their ships as incentive. My ex would never commit and burn the bridge. She valued the right to be a coward.
You thought I was so naive and I didn't understand your underlying comments to me? You forgot that I went through a divorce. Maybe our circumstances were different but the end results were the same. I am truly sorry for your heart aches. If there is anyone who knows your feelings of betrayal, Im certainly an expert in this category.
I had a wonderful and loving husband who cared for me dearly. No woman could of asked for a better man. The love I had for this sweet man was not the same love that he had for me. I could not continue in a marriage where I was unhappy not because of him but because of myself!
True love is not self serving but unconditional. I was not worthy for this man's love. I hope one day he can forgive me. I still love him to this day and still have remorse that I betrayed him. I hurt this poor man dearly and hope he finds a better person than I. I do understand and I'm sorry.