terry gobin and new life

[jane]

One other thing that really upsets me about the church is the fact that the ladies and young gals can not trim their hair. Several times the little girl has came over with lice. There needs to be a point of being healthy. If somewhere in your religous belief that you believe it is a sin to cut your hair that is fine but when a little girl has blood sucking insects crawling all over her scalp (and the local school has several reports) enough is enough. This is embarrassing for the little girl and it creates emotional scars for a lifetime.

[jane]

My list of reasons of being upset is close to a million. I blamed God for the headache of meeting this little girls mother. I blamed the church beliefs, Pastor Gobin and anyone that attended church for the misery that the mother created. I do not even really know anyone there, so my reason for not liking them was the torement of the little girls mother that she bestowed upon my household.

[jane]

In asking God, why did this happen? I came to the conclusion, it was not any body from the church, Pastor Gobin or his congregation but the mother. I asked God why I let myself be tormented from a lady who must truely be miserable deep within. I just hope that God finds it to forgive her for what she has done because nobody has the right to pass judgement on anyone but God himself!!!!!!

[jane]

My apologies to the Pastor Gobin and family, and to the congregation. Until now, you had no idea that I was so upset with you. Five years of not liking someone because you were a shadow of the pain inflicted from one of your own members is a long time. I was not brought up to hate people and I am ashamed to have let this women create such a bad feeling of resentment towards you and your church family. In reality, everyone is on this earth to live and to try to get along.

[jane]

I was just thinking that if I would have known this kind of posting existed I probably would have spoke sooner. Although, I probably would have stooped to the level of the mother and everyone else with my comments. When at the lowest level of life when one asks God for forgiveness of their sins and so desperatly wanting the jubilation of happiness to come about, one can not be filled with hate.

[jane]

Within the last five years, I sure did not understand why on any level. In my conclusion, of sitting in this desert state of Arizonia, baking in the sun, watching lizards and snakes (Gods creation)I became a victim to the mothers hatered of the father of the child. I do not think within the next many years it will take the minor child to become an adult, I will not let the mother affect me with hate. Everyone has a judgement day!

[jane]

When my judgement day comes about, I hope God finds forgiveness in the amount of hate this women made me feel over something that Pastor Gobin and family and congregation did not even do. I just hope that the Pastor Gobin and family and congregation understands that there is a law by the state of Indiana and the United States that visitation is from 6pm Friday to 6pm on Sunday and one night thru the week plus holidays and summer break.

[jane]

If you someone in that church does not understand the parenting guidelines, the local courthouse and a local attorneys office can provide you with the guidelines. If the father and the minor child ever have a relationship again (and I believe God would love that)please do not interfere with the guidelines because it is against the law. Freedom of Speech is within my constitional right but I do feel that I have not bad mouth the mother for I have not mentioned her name or the minor child. This is just a simply an apology that know one even knew that I was upset and for the higher hopes that the whole church congregation understands the child guidelines for visitation that is by law.

[teresa]

is this church UPC or ALJC or apostolic or what

[New Life Member]

ALJC
New Life Apostolic Pentecostal