abortion pill better than surgical ab...

abortion pill better than surgical abortion?

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woodliketoknow

Granite City, IL

#1 Feb 22, 2011
Has anyone used the abortion pill instead of surgical.
dear god!!!

White House, TN

#2 Feb 22, 2011
Why would you want to use either one!!!! What a disgrace you are to want to take away a life that didn't even ask to be brought into this world!!
woodliketoknow

Granite City, IL

#3 Feb 22, 2011
Until u know what somebody is going through don't judge. If u were Christian u would already know judging is a sin
shut up

Granite City, IL

#4 Feb 22, 2011
Don't listen to people bad mouth u. They sin everyday and tell people how to do things
BC Chica

Canton, OH

#5 Feb 22, 2011
Haven't used the pill, but did have the surgical procedure done. The pill induces a miscarriage, so it's similar to a regular period, only a bit heavier and possibly with more cramps.

The surgical procedure isn't that bad, either. Main side effects after the surgical procedure is some cramping for a few days, though the cramping was pretty bad for a few hours after I had it done (this was a while back so things might have changed).

The pill is cheaper and it's a lot easier to obtain...plus you don't have to go into a clinic and have the possible run in with people who are against a woman being able to choose. I ran into that when I had mine done and it was very annoying. Mistakes happen, get over it, it's my body.

Had a friend use the pill and she was very happy with it. If the pill had been around when I needed the abortion, I would have gone that route instead.

Good luck to you, and try to ignore some of the anti-choice comments that I know you are going to get on here.
know how u feel

United States

#6 Feb 22, 2011
It really depends how far along you are in your pregnancy. The abortion pill only works if you are 8 weeks or less. I had the surgical abortion when I was 10 weeks along. I hurt so bad physically and mentaly. It was the worst cramps ever for about a week. This was about 2 years ago in Nashville. It cost about $550. Whatever you choose to do is your buisness (just be perpared its not easy).
wouldliketoknow

United States

#7 Feb 22, 2011
Thanks for the information. This isn't easy.
Wow

United States

#8 Feb 22, 2011
You could go out on a limb and raise the child but that would get in the way of your fun wouldn't it.
Just my opinion

Louisville, KY

#9 Feb 22, 2011
Hey there honey. I know it is none of my business, but I myself, had my son when I was 20. I am now 23. It is not easy. I thought about abortion but when I did some research, and heard of the serious mental and emotional problems that many suffer after going through with it, I could not let myself do that. I have a friend who is seriously STILL messed up after her abortion (10 years ago). Please please please think about all options before you act. What many do not understand is that- it is a SURVIVABLE situation. There are many state programs that help out with formula and daycare until you can get on your feet. I am not one to judge, and I am not trying to guilt you, I am just trying to save you some heartbreak. I look at my child and would never have it any other way. Good luck and God Bless.
May

Bowling Green, KY

#10 Feb 22, 2011
Or you could just not be a baby killer... Did adoption even cross your mind or are you too selfish?
not a rocket scientist

Dunmor, KY

#12 Feb 22, 2011
I pray all the time for women that are debating on whether or not to have an abortion. My heart just breaks for you.

To say abortion is wrong is NOT judging. If you think it is then you obviously aren't in your Bible too often.

Sweetie, this is wrong. There is still hope. You can do this!!! Even if the guy is not still around. Even if you will have no support from your family. Even if people will look at you for being another statistic. Who cares... those people will be long gone and you will still be living with what you've done. There is help out there if you will look. Please look, please please don't kill your baby. Just because it's so little does not make it any less human. Just because it can not survive on it's own yet does not make it any less human. Just because it's inside of your body right now does not make it any less human. Just because it is unwanted (for now at least) does not make it any less human.

Doing the right thing is often one of the hardest things you can do but in the end it will all be worth it.

Please rethink this decision. Please don't do this.

:(
Decisions

United States

#13 Feb 22, 2011
Continue to educate yourself and make your decision. It's yours alone to make, deliberate, deal with and answer to - period.
took ru-486(the pill)

United States

#14 Feb 22, 2011
I regret not having the baby. It has almost been 10 years. That aside the pill does put you into labor. You get 2 sets of pills and some pain killers. You bleed like you are dying for 2-3 days. If you need to talk ask for my email. I will not judge you. Whatever happens good luck.
took ru-486(the pill)

United States

#15 Feb 22, 2011
woodliketoknow wrote:
Has anyone used the abortion pill instead of surgical.
Hey I posted the ru-486 (the pill post). If you need a friend, ask 4 my email.
ThomasA

Gadsden, AL

#16 Feb 22, 2011
May wrote:
Or you could just not be a baby killer... Did adoption even cross your mind or are you too selfish?
Adoption just delays the heartbreak and confusion when there is a knock on your door in eighteen years and the stranger opens up a guilt trip and asks you over and over....WHY?? WHY?? Make your decision,live with it,and move on.4388
Cheaper route

Pflugerville, TX

#17 Feb 23, 2011
Flight of stairs, coat hanger, and a strategically placed shop-vac waiting at the landing.
May

Bowling Green, KY

#18 Feb 23, 2011
ThomasA wrote:
<quoted text> Adoption just delays the heartbreak and confusion when there is a knock on your door in eighteen years and the stranger opens up a guilt trip and asks you over and over....WHY?? WHY?? Make your decision,live with it,and move on.4388
um no. I was adopted and so was my sister. I am considering looking for my birth mother only to tell her THANK YOU for giving me LIFE, a wonderful life. She could have taken the easy route and had an abortion but she chose to be selfless and give me a life and wonderful parents she couldn't prove herself. I know a lot of people who were adopted and every single one has enormous respect for their birth mother's descision, even if they haven't met her.

Since: Feb 11

Bowling Green,KY

#19 Feb 23, 2011
I used the pill...... Hardest day of my life. I'm still prochoice, however.
wouldliketoknow

United States

#20 Feb 23, 2011
Chaotic Rayne wrote:
I used the pill...... Hardest day of my life. I'm still prochoice, however.
Was it very painful
May

Bowling Green, KY

#21 Feb 23, 2011
I'm sure 'chaotic' was talking about emotional distress. Since you posted this on topic, I don't feel bad asking- why are you choosing abortion?

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