Independent

New York, NY

#51 Jan 10, 2014
christina wrote:
Gosh I literally dream of working 60 hours a week bear your awful children just to be considered equal. Women want security which means a house. Women want to be sure your not going to be poor. Love alone is not enough. Women want someone they can't wait to bang every night. So u better practice cunnilingus. Daily. Don't fart. Don't stink. Don't be cheap and hold every dollar u spent over their heads or as a weapon. Women cost money. Don't expect a quality gal for bargain basement behavior. Spend money on them. Keep the fridge full if u want her to cook. Don't flirt. Don't look at other women. We are all unique. Ball busters like this author have tried to ruin it for those of us who only every wanted to be stay at home moms. We are Not equal to men. We have no place being their bosses at work..ect. A handful of bra burning lezzies ruined it and took from me the choice to stay home. Now we are forced to work want or not. some lying hag said "you can have it all". So we want to be sure the man can support us to restore the choice.
LOL, you know money is not enough. You also need tall dark and handsome. The only guys who will ever meet your standards are players. And, they will cheat on your for sure. I have a novel idea for you. Learn to take care of yourself instead of being a shallow leach.

Since: Aug 08

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#52 Jan 11, 2014
Independent wrote:
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Get a reality check. Your wife is ugly and so are you. And, you're a jerk to boot. Typical Chicago Yuppie Wannabe.
Do you often check out men and determine whether you find them attractive or am I just special? That might explain why you can't pick up women ... they notice you staring at other men.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#53 Jan 11, 2014
You wanna see ugly? go look in a friggin mirror, you'll see ugly, You'll see stupid too.
Independent wrote:
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Get a reality check. Your wife is ugly and so are you. And, you're a jerk to boot. Typical Chicago Yuppie Wannabe.
power to the people

United States

#54 Jan 11, 2014
Where are you looking for your so called. Dream girl? At bars and clubs wild. Azz house party's, I's. Logical for a women to want a strong mined educated man by her side someone who can provide .Show a women love and respec that you are worthy of her trust and love,. And if you are not getting back the same it's time.to hit.the road move on to new relationship, life.is to short to be spend by a bad women by your side. Although. dude if you aint cut to be a hard working man and a faithful. One you. Have no business. Wanting. A marriage. Or a serious. Relationshi at all
Billy Goat

Lombard, IL

#55 Jan 29, 2014
Out in the far west suburbs like St Charles or Geneva is a good place to meet women. A lot friendlier than they are in the city.
Not happy

Chicago, IL

#56 Jan 30, 2014
Billy Goat wrote:
Out in the far west suburbs like St Charles or Geneva is a good place to meet women. A lot friendlier than they are in the city.
DON'T even THINK about approaching those ladies in the far suburbs!

Chicagoland is totally unlike most other normal metro areas; in fact, Chicagoland is an upside-down version of a normal metro area.

You see, your statement above is generally true for many other metro areas (such as Atlanta, New York, Miami, Tampa, Houston, Los Angeles, and such), but Chicago is the exact polar opposite of that. In Chicagoland, unlike other metro areas, people are actually *worse* in the suburbs than in the city! Chicagoland is the type of oddball that the farther you get from Downtown Chicago, the meaner and more anti social the people get. In Chicagoland, the nicer, quieter, and safer a neighborhood is and the farther it is from the ghetto, the more anti social and defensive the residents of that neighborhood are. And it continues to worsen the farther west you go, even including and continuing to worsen in places as far flung as Sycamore and even DeKalb!

And in fact, as of recently, Illinois is trying to pass laws that allow people to carry concealed weapons. Stand your ground laws could even be next. And if/when that happens, the far west suburbs of Chicago will literally become like Fort Zancudo to anyone and everyone who does not live next door to those people.
Go West

Bensenville, IL

#57 Jan 30, 2014
Not happy wrote:
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DON'T even THINK about approaching those ladies in the far suburbs!
Chicagoland is totally unlike most other normal metro areas; in fact, Chicagoland is an upside-down version of a normal metro area.
You see, your statement above is generally true for many other metro areas (such as Atlanta, New York, Miami, Tampa, Houston, Los Angeles, and such), but Chicago is the exact polar opposite of that. In Chicagoland, unlike other metro areas, people are actually *worse* in the suburbs than in the city! Chicagoland is the type of oddball that the farther you get from Downtown Chicago, the meaner and more anti social the people get. In Chicagoland, the nicer, quieter, and safer a neighborhood is and the farther it is from the ghetto, the more anti social and defensive the residents of that neighborhood are. And it continues to worsen the farther west you go, even including and continuing to worsen in places as far flung as Sycamore and even DeKalb!
And in fact, as of recently, Illinois is trying to pass laws that allow people to carry concealed weapons. Stand your ground laws could even be next. And if/when that happens, the far west suburbs of Chicago will literally become like Fort Zancudo to anyone and everyone who does not live next door to those people.
Cicero is okay. But from my experience too ladies are far friendlier in the far suburbs than they are in places like Rush Street, Wrigleyville or Lincoln Park. In the Loop are people are also very rude. Just walk right by you when trying to get directions.
Not happy

Chicago, IL

#58 Jan 31, 2014
Go West wrote:
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Cicero is okay. But from my experience too ladies are far friendlier in the far suburbs than they are in places like Rush Street, Wrigleyville or Lincoln Park. In the Loop are people are also very rude. Just walk right by you when trying to get directions.
Actually, Cicero is not very good either, and Berwyn, Stickney, and Forest View are downright rotten to the core women wise!
i love strippers

Gurnee, IL

#59 Feb 7, 2014
Might as well go to a strip club at least they smile when they take your money

Since: Oct 12

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#60 Feb 7, 2014
Not happy wrote:
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Actually, Cicero is not very good either, and Berwyn, Stickney, and Forest View are downright rotten to the core women wise!
How about Park Forest, Olympia Fields and Homewood?
He who knows

Chicago, IL

#61 Feb 7, 2014
Go Blue Forever wrote:
<quoted text> How about Park Forest, Olympia Fields and Homewood?
The entire State of Illinois is a social and dating desert for guys who earn less than 6 figures a year. Also, Park Forest, Homewood, Olympia Fields, and everything east of Cicero Avenue between Lawrence Avenue (4800 north in Chicago) and Steger Road (23100 south) is all endless ghetto. Shootings, homicides, car jackings, armed robberies, and all. And many hundreds of young ladies every month are moving right into that massive ghetto and hooking themselves up with those hardened criminals and perpetrators of all those violent crimes. And that ghetto extends eastward right through the lakefront and all the way right into/through Merrillville and Gary, Indiana.
He who knows

Chicago, IL

#62 Feb 7, 2014
i love strippers wrote:
Might as well go to a strip club at least they smile when they take your money
There is only 1 strip club within a 75 mile radius of Downtown Chicago that I can recommend, and that is All Star in Lyons/McCook. The rest of Chicagoland strip clubs either forbid two-way touching, require infinite drinks, or they sit in the ghetto.
shallow as hell

Gurnee, IL

#63 Feb 8, 2014
Clubs ,gangbangers ,Kardashians ,sex in the city ,real housewives ,lifetime ,television ,fashion ,and mothers ,any questions
Ice Age

Winter Park, FL

#64 Feb 24, 2014
I moved away from Chicago mostly because of the climate and traffic but have to admit I don't miss the Chicago people.

If you want a learn term relationship with a woman in Chicago you need a fat wallet. If you even want a date expect a lot of rejection unless you're tall and good looking.

Women are more shallow then men. I'd gladly take an average looking woman I can get along with vs a hot looking snob. Most women would choose a hot looking guy who is a jerk over an average looking nice guy...especially in Chicago.

I dated nobody the last seven years I lived in Chicago. Once I moved out I immediately found a very nice lady and am happily married with two kids now.

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#65 Feb 25, 2014
Don't agree at all....Having lived all over, i think most Midwesterner's, including Chicago....have a much more honest and friendly personality than any other region of this country.....Women or men....
He who knows

Chicago, IL

#66 Feb 26, 2014
Ice Age wrote:
I moved away from Chicago mostly because of the climate and traffic but have to admit I don't miss the Chicago people.
If you want a learn term relationship with a woman in Chicago you need a fat wallet. If you even want a date expect a lot of rejection unless you're tall and good looking.
Women are more shallow then men. I'd gladly take an average looking woman I can get along with vs a hot looking snob. Most women would choose a hot looking guy who is a jerk over an average looking nice guy...especially in Chicago.
I dated nobody the last seven years I lived in Chicago. Once I moved out I immediately found a very nice lady and am happily married with two kids now.
You can say that again! In fact, it's gotten a lot worse than just needing a fat wallet in Chicago. A new study released not too long ago indicates that more and more women are getting higher paying jobs, even to the point where, as of now, roughly 40 percent (and rising) of U.S. households have the woman as the chief breadwinner, and 60 percent (and falling) of U.S. households have the man as the chief breadwinner.

At the same time, it appears that there is a massive inflow of young ladies from Chicago's suburbs (even from as far west as the Fox River) moving into the ghetto. And Chicago proper has a HUGE ghetto! You're talking literally, in fact, all of Cook County east of Cicero Avenue, from Lawrence Avenue (4800 north in Chicago) all the way south to even past Chicago Heights! Not to mention even the entire lakefront from Lawrence Avenue all the way south and east to just past Gary, Indiana. Although there are a couple of exceptions with Cicero Avenue; between 95th street and 127th street, the ghetto extends only as far west as just east of Kedzie Avenue, and between Lawrence and the BNSF train yard in Cicero, the ghetto passes Cicero Avenue and covers all areas all the way west to Austin Avenue/Austin Blvd. Within that entire area is nothing but shootings, armed robberies, homicides, assaults, nothing but violent crime that occurs nonstop. Even Downtown Chicago is horribly dangerous, especially with the highly lethal and predatory Flash Mobs, which attack innocent people (and only innocent people) like piranha.

Henceforth, there is only one reason that all those young suburban women are moving to the ghetto, especially even to places like the Loop area, Hyde Park (the worst neighborhood in Chicago proper!), and such. Because they have grown tired of guys being unable to find/hold full/overtime jobs that pay them 6+ figures annually, and have decided to hook up with hardened thugs and gangsters/mobsters. The kind of guys that get their 6 and 7 annual figures, their luxury sporty vehicles, and such through armed robberies, shootings, homicides, car jackings/grand theft auto, drug dealings, burglaries, thefts, all the easy but wrong and illegal way. It's like those women don't care whose family and life is disrupted and torn apart by her new boyfriend/fiancee/husband, as long as she gets what she wants from her new boyfriend/fiancee/husband, that's all she begins to care about. Not to mention, I am sure that she doesn't even care what kind of turmoil she causes in her own family, especially when/if her cousin, uncle, nephew, or whoever, complains that her new boyfriend/fiancee/husband is snotty, unruly, hostile, or what not. I can sense numerous families of those ladies probably being torn apart by those kinds of incidents, for those complaints probably cause massive rifts of bitterness, hatred, hurtfulness, and a lot of unpleasant and nasty stuff within those families.
He who knows

Chicago, IL

#67 Feb 26, 2014
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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Why do you give a shit? You obviously are pretty clueless, narrow-minded, and judgmental. Worry about your own family and your self, not others.
Not only is this a typical response from a Chicagoland woman, but it's even getting far worse, especially now with all those young ladies from the suburbs hooking up with the gangsters, and especially with guys who are members of those lethal flash mobs all over the downtown, lakefront, and nearby areas.

Nowadays, just simply approaching within less than 50 feet of a young beautiful woman in Grant Park, let alone trying to strike up a conversation with her, is as likely to trigger bullets and fists flying right into and through you as beating a hornet's nest with a baseball bat is likely to send hornets swarming and buzzing around like crazy.
Bloody Liar

London, UK

#68 Feb 26, 2014
Go Blue Forever wrote:
Don't agree at all....Having lived all over, i think most Midwesterner's, including Chicago....have a much more honest and friendly personality than any other region of this country.....Women or men....
Yeah, Chicago people are friendly and Corporate America is the best thing to come along since Apple Pie. You must work for the American Mainstream Media. They talk the same way you do. Everything a blatant lie.

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#69 Feb 27, 2014
Bloody Liar wrote:
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Yeah, Chicago people are friendly and Corporate America is the best thing to come along since Apple Pie. You must work for the American Mainstream Media. They talk the same way you do. Everything a blatant lie.
...Don't concern yourself with us....go brush your tooth....
Statement of Fact

Chicago, IL

#70 Feb 27, 2014
Go Blue Forever wrote:
<quoted text>...Don't concern yourself with us....go brush your tooth....
That joke is about 100 years old and applies to people who live in the American South. People like YOU! lol

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