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average dude

Lake In The Hills, IL

#1 Nov 8, 2011
can someone explain what happened to todays women?they drink,act fools,very very shallow,and most think that their shit dont stink.and im not just talking about very hot women im talking about even the average looking ones.its all about money,how many friends you have that they wanna try to get with,house,car,job....if you ask me thats why most marriages these days end so badly because most relationships these days are based solely on looks and materialistics.im married thank god because i think if i wasnt married dating would be extremely hard considering the lack of morals by todays society.

Since: Jan 10

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#2 Nov 8, 2011
Right. We're all exactly the same. Monolithic. YOu may as well give up.
average dude

Lake In The Hills, IL

#3 Nov 8, 2011
theres nothing for me to give up on because im happily married with a bunch of kids already.but what about the younger generation?what do they have to look forward to?in the city of chicago its all about status and not much else...

Since: Jan 10

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#4 Nov 8, 2011
average dude wrote:
theres nothing for me to give up on because im happily married with a bunch of kids already.but what about the younger generation?what do they have to look forward to?in the city of chicago its all about status and not much else...
Why do you give a shit? You obviously are pretty clueless, narrow-minded, and judgmental. Worry about your own family and your self, not others.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#5 Nov 8, 2011
Typical response from a self centered woman. You think you know so much more than him?
Here is this happily married guy who has made an observation about women he has no intention of ever picking up of bedding down.

I bet this whole thing started when he made some innocent comment to a woman, and she gave him the old "I would go gay first" look.

Am I right Dude?
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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Why do you give a shit? You obviously are pretty clueless, narrow-minded, and judgmental. Worry about your own family and your self, not others.
average dude

Lake In The Hills, IL

#6 Nov 8, 2011
your definitely right about the part her being a typical woman.she cant even explain or debate she just wants to name call absolutely no witts to her.but wrong about me making a comment.i go out quite often with friends and its all around me.ive actually had a woman tell me that thats what her and her friends do,they go to the clubs and bars solely to find a man that has some sort of status,wealth,popular,etc,etc. one of my buddies dated a woman for about 2 months she came to all our functions,dinner,parties,campi ng trip and the whole time she was clocking our other friends trying to see what would be better.she slept with 3 of our buddies and left her boyfriend because she said my buddy rick had a better job.well a week later she got told by rick to hit the bricks so then she tried coming back to plan a.she told us that that was the new way of the world.she quoted "status baby status".i was hoping to get feedback from women who were like this to shed light on the subject.

Since: Nov 11

AOL

#7 Nov 8, 2011
Ouch.....

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#8 Nov 8, 2011
Average dude, you're less than average in your command of the English language. And less than average in penis and brain size. good luck in life. You'll need it. buh. bye. You are the weakest link.
Yeah Right

Orange City, FL

#9 Nov 9, 2011
Some may be shallow, some maybe not, but thank goodness they're here!
average dude

El Monte, CA

#10 Nov 9, 2011
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Average dude, you're less than average in your command of the English language. And less than average in penis and brain size. good luck in life. You'll need it. buh. bye. You are the weakest link.
you make yourself sound like an idiot.your a redhead with glasses and probably fat as all hell.and to talk about penis size is funny considering your probably a box bumper.
Tony Stark

Vancouver, Canada

#11 Jan 21, 2013
average dude wrote:
"status baby status"
That is the anthem of the amoral materialist. It is the religion of gain and it permeates Western culture. This woman is simply being honest and transparent about it. You and I cowardly let this cultural infiltration happen by cowardly refusing to challenge these "values" and we have even lived by them ourselves as hypocrites.

But that time is passed, now is the time to reclaim life and love and first set an example by living a life that opposes amoral materialism through self-sacrifice, which should expose how primitive, shameful, and pathetic such a "value" system is for thinking sentient creatures. It is weak, anti-social, and short-sighted. Do it for yourself and your future children. Don't let your children or your children's children be accosted by such a disgusting belief system without a fight.
hoosier

Indianapolis, IN

#12 Jan 22, 2013
society is shifting into one gender, men arent sure what to be anymore.darned if they do and darned if they dont. the demise if boys is sad. i am assuming women are as confused.dont they medicate normaal boys now? and yes, i am female
Bensleys bestest

Nashua, NH

#13 Jan 24, 2013
could it be a visceral response to your clumsy inept attempts at communications with the opposite sex ?

try being your self if you know who that actually is. project your real self

Since: Aug 08

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#14 Jan 24, 2013
hoosier wrote:
society is shifting into one gender, men arent sure what to be anymore.darned if they do and darned if they dont. the demise if boys is sad. i am assuming women are as confused.dont they medicate normaal boys now? and yes, i am female
Huh?
Bensleys bestest

Nashua, NH

#15 Jan 24, 2013
hoosier wrote:
society is shifting into one gender, men arent sure what to be anymore.darned if they do and darned if they dont. the demise if boys is sad. i am assuming women are as confused.dont they medicate normaal boys now? and yes, i am female
suggest you turn off you computer call your local mental health provider or therapist get a medication upgrade to help you deal with the reality , stresses of modern life in America under obozo.

perhaps you too can become grounded in reality once again.
Dee Hood

Lady Lake, FL

#16 Jan 24, 2013
women are so shallow these days.....just like their tampon tunnels

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#20 Jan 25, 2013
I aint even got a job and I get laid more than that....
He who knows wrote:
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You know something, you are absolutely right, especially about Illinois women. When Illinois women look for a man, the only thing they Ever look for (in a man) is 6 and 7 figure incomes, hundred grand Bentleys, luxury yachts on Lake Michigan, schoolhouse and castle sized mansions in gated communities, and 20/15 vision.
Literally, it is as if Illinois women, especially the skinny and average ones, would prefer to marry a serial bank robber with millions of stolen dollars in his wallet instead of a loving, caring man with Jesus in his heart, and even a few thousand dollars earned the fair-and-square way in his wallet. For them, a loving caring heart, and even physical beauty, come dead last, like the caboose on a freight train. Literally, for instance, if a man wears glasses or has a 5 or less figure income, is not a pro, and such, he could be athletic and even weigh 120 pounds and still no woman in Illinois would even touch him.
Although there are, however, a few women in Illinois that may take less, but unfortunately for guys who love physical attraction, only the morbidly obese (300 and 400 pounds, sometimes heavier) women in Illinois are likely to fall for an average middle class man.

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#21 Jan 25, 2013
He who knows wrote:
<quoted text>
You know something, you are absolutely right, especially about Illinois women. When Illinois women look for a man, the only thing they Ever look for (in a man) is 6 and 7 figure incomes, hundred grand Bentleys, luxury yachts on Lake Michigan, schoolhouse and castle sized mansions in gated communities, and 20/15 vision.
Literally, it is as if Illinois women, especially the skinny and average ones, would prefer to marry a serial bank robber with millions of stolen dollars in his wallet instead of a loving, caring man with Jesus in his heart, and even a few thousand dollars earned the fair-and-square way in his wallet. For them, a loving caring heart, and even physical beauty, come dead last, like the caboose on a freight train. Literally, for instance, if a man wears glasses or has a 5 or less figure income, is not a pro, and such, he could be athletic and even weigh 120 pounds and still no woman in Illinois would even touch him.
Although there are, however, a few women in Illinois that may take less, but unfortunately for guys who love physical attraction, only the morbidly obese (300 and 400 pounds, sometimes heavier) women in Illinois are likely to fall for an average middle class man.
Whatever.

All you need is to have a little swag, take care of yourself, know how to carry on a conversation, be a gentlemen, and you'll have little trouble. A sense of humor and making women laugh, goes a long way too.

I don't even tell women what I do for a living, how much I make, what toys I have or don't have, and I have women approach me all the time when I'm out ... at least 50% of the time I go out (my friends call me a f'er, in a joking way, cause I'm just standing there minding my own business and it happens a lot of times). I don't even approach them ... I'm married, and have a big shinny ring on my finger.

How can it be that this married guy, who isn't even trying, who isn't even blabbing on and on about what he has, what he does for a living, and what he makes (I would never tell a woman I just met those things just to impress her ... you'll just get a materialistic gold digger), gets approached all the time, but you presumably single guys are on here whining like babies about how hard it is?

Seems to me, by the time women get into their mid 30s there is a shortage of quality men who are available, who are actually MEN, and have their shyte together and are responsible, and know how to treat a woman and show her a good time. If you have that going for you, you'll have ABSOLUTELY no problems.

^^^^^^ that was the long version. Short version = quit being whiny dorks, and you'll do fine.

Oh, also, maybe you guys are aiming to high. If you are say a 5 or 6, who wears khakis and a button down shirt and a belt, when you go out, and are built like a stick, don't expect to get a 8 or 9 or a 10. Women generally want a man who is kind of on their level, when it comes to looks, unless you find a gold digger and have that going for you.

Since: Aug 08

Location hidden

#22 Jan 25, 2013
He who knows wrote:
In fact, it has gotten so bad in Berwyn especially that police threats towards single guys looking to interact with the ladies have occured in the recent past at Berwyn's nightclubs.
Ahahahaha ... you've been threatened by police for interacting with women? Has it ever occurred to you, that you are a little bit too zealous. You are probably scaring all the ladies away. Just chill, be happy with yourself, just by yourself, and don't come off so desperate.
Ann

Chicago, IL

#23 Jan 25, 2013
He who knows wrote:
. In fact, it has gotten so bad in Berwyn especially that police threats towards single guys looking to interact with the ladies have occured in the recent past at Berwyn's nightclubs.
So, the Berwyn police are warning johns away from the hookers?

Just to give you another reality check. A guy who makes only a 4 figure salary is making less tha he would on welfare , unemployment or the lowest level of Social Security disability and would not have enough discretionary income to be in a bar in the first place.

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