How do i get a white guy to ask me out?

Since: Mar 13

Binghamton, NY

#22 Apr 16, 2013
InsideOutOreo wrote:
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Well that's sucks but its always nice just to have someone to talk to lol.
:-) that's what I'm here for. Good luck!
reality is a crutch

Nashua, NH

#23 Apr 17, 2013
Tweet!

your in time out, turn off the computer go to your room and sort your socks in the sock drawer or get your homework done. don't come down until supper time.

do you read what you and your responders are saying? come on man

odds are you talking to a undercover police person or a pervert. or your one or both of the above your self just pretending to be this lame, dysfunctional , out of touch with reality silly girl.

if your a police person go polish your badge or clean your gun so you can shoot the next bad guy.

if your a on line pervert go turn your self in yer busted.

if you really are this lame dysfunctional person go talk to your school guidance counselor or mental health provider cause you need some help.

oh yer so nice, no your so cute, do you always type such nice messages to people you cant see or never met ? no your so out of touch with reality, no your out of context with this layer of real time..........

get a life

Since: Mar 13

Binghamton, NY

#24 Apr 17, 2013
reality is a crutch wrote:
Tweet!
your in time out, turn off the computer go to your room and sort your socks in the sock drawer or get your homework done. don't come down until supper time.
do you read what you and your responders are saying? come on man
odds are you talking to a undercover police person or a pervert. or your one or both of the above your self just pretending to be this lame, dysfunctional , out of touch with reality silly girl.
if your a police person go polish your badge or clean your gun so you can shoot the next bad guy.
if your a on line pervert go turn your self in yer busted.
if you really are this lame dysfunctional person go talk to your school guidance counselor or mental health provider cause you need some help.
oh yer so nice, no your so cute, do you always type such nice messages to people you cant see or never met ? no your so out of touch with reality, no your out of context with this layer of real time..........
get a life
Believe it or not, there are actually people out there that care. A kind word goes a long way. You should try it. Not everyone has an agenda. I'm not a teenager and I don't plan on trying to contact this girl, but that doesn't mean I can't say a few kind words. Not everyone is as heartless as you.
reality is a crutch

Nashua, NH

#25 Apr 17, 2013
The Abraham Lincoln wrote:
<quoted text>
Believe it or not, there are actually people out there that care. A kind word goes a long way. You should try it. Not everyone has an agenda. I'm not a teenager and I don't plan on trying to contact this girl, but that doesn't mean I can't say a few kind words. Not everyone is as heartless as you.
yes, and there are also nut cases out there surfing da net looking for teenage girls , talk nice to them then lure them into bad situations take advantage of them.

when you read the text history of this "girl" this could be a set up by police, or a perp trolling, or this girl if she is real is not grounded in reality and should not be allowed out without adult supervision cause she makes poor decisions.

people can claim to be anything on the net and there is no way to tell what is or is not reality.

heck you could even pretend or claim to be Abraham Kosnusky or Fred Lincoln the 3rd on line and we have no way to verify your identify.

I am not heartless, fact is I have two hearts and am grounded in reality.

Since: Mar 13

Binghamton, NY

#26 Apr 17, 2013
Touche.
Sound Educated

East Brunswick, NJ

#28 Apr 22, 2013
Do not speak in slang or ebonics. If you want a white dude,.. practice saying the word ASK,.. make sure you do not pronounce it as AKS
Bill

Chicago, IL

#29 Apr 22, 2013
Honestly most white dudes don't go for black women because they think they're too aggressive. we talked about this in a race, culture, and media class. Trust me, white dudes LOVE the booty. (or at least this one). what they don't like is a woman who acts like the jerks you're trying to avoid. It's really that simple. Just be you, don't put on a front. White dudes like real talk. Stylistic-wise, no one wants a hoe. But i see an even distribution in the world of white hoes AND black hoes. so like I said, be you, and be mature.
bensleys best

Nashua, NH

#30 Apr 22, 2013
if you have to ask your probably not going to be ask out for some reason, did you look in the mirror? the reason you don't get asked out is in your mirror,

“Every day, Improve..”

Since: Feb 11

Location hidden

#31 Apr 22, 2013
WOW, what a question!! Too bad I can't "help you", LOL. First of all, I'm taken by a fabulous Asian women, but secondarily and maybe more important to YOU, is that I am double your age and you don't need to start off with a sugar daddy;) Well, for all it's worth these are my "recommendations":

*Find a Yoga studio. Look for one that is a little "upscale" or at least a little pseudo-fancy looking. Find an area with lots of whitey in general, that should increase your odds. Best option is a complex gym where you can mix in weights with the Yoga. Even Asian chicks get in trouble when they have to compete with a ripped, hot young black chick with confidence and poise that has the grace of a girl doing regular Yoga. You will find LOTS OF hot white women there and that should help you hook up with a white chick for friendship and then potentially go "hunting" together. Just be careful so the girl doesn't hunt you, LOL. So many white women also like OTHER hot women, and especially black ones (in my personal experience). Don't hook up in the gym. Be a little "tricky" without appearing arrogant... Be patient and stalk your prey for a while before you go for the kill ;)

*Outfit: Get some HOT Yoga pants and a great top for workout. We whiteys LOVE hot chicks in Yoga pants, IMHO and it doesn't matter if you are from Mars ;) We're very simple creatures who are visual, like all guys. Otherwise, don't worry too much about how you dress in general. I personally prefer girls in casual wear and girls in professional wear is a turn-off, but if the girl is likable, it doesn't really matter WHAT she is wearing most of the time.

*"extracurricular activity":(I think this one is important if you wanna REALLY impress that one whitey ;) Develop or cultivate something you really like to do outside of sports as well. If you are pursuing a career, that may be good enough, but otherwise online gaming is a way to go to get white guys and before you assume they are all whimp nerds, know that the times have changed. I do at least one hour of PS a day and also work out 1 1/2 hours daily. Look for it all and you shall have it!! Also, girls that put some energy into gaming tends to become frighteningly good at it and that also impresses us. One chick beat the living daylight out of me in online FIFA, for example and it hurt my feelings, but also impressed the heck out of me, LOL.

*Personality: Be yourself, don't appear scripted and embrace improvisation and impromptu ways to open up when needed. Don't be afraid. Us white guys are just like other guys be them black, white, yellow or green and we LOVE a hot woman with confidence.

*Diet: Cut out soda and as much junk food as you can and add in water and fruits. It will do miracles for your skin. I would also invest in a good multivitamin and as a Black woman you should ALWAYS be taking Vitamin D, especially as you live in Chicago. A good Vitamin D level will also enable you to tolerate more exercise to your body without risking brittle bones. If you have never taken it before, I bet you your level is very low.

*Hair: To my experience, so many black women are confused how to have their hair and what white guys prefer. I personally LOVE black girls with straightened hair that is long, but what matters is what YOU like and feel comfortable with. Black girls are also incredibly cute with neat braids. Also, research both a great shampoo and conditioner for yourself, preferably from a hair dresser. I'm not gonna tell you to spend hundreds of bucks at Vidal, just get a good hair dresser for style and ask specifically about conditioner and shampoo.

Finally, one of my favorite coworkers is a black girl and I love her to death. I would jokingly tell her I'm sorry we are such good friends because that means we cannot make out, LOL. Hope my thoughts weren't too much generalization or nonsense ;) Let me know how it goes and good luck :)



“Every day, Improve..”

Since: Feb 11

Location hidden

#32 Apr 22, 2013
WOW, what a question!! Well, for all it's worth these are my "recommendations":

*Find a Yoga studio. Look for one that is a little "upscale" or at least a little pseudo-fancy looking. Find an area with lots of whitey in general, that should increase your odds. Best option is a complex gym where you can mix in weights with the Yoga. Even Asian chicks get in trouble when they have to compete with a ripped, hot young black chick with confidence and poise that has the grace of a girl doing regular Yoga. You will find LOTS OF hot white women there and that should help you hook up with a white chick for friendship and then potentially go "hunting" together. Just be careful so the girl doesn't hunt you, LOL. So many white women also like OTHER hot women, and especially black ones (in my personal experience). Don't hook up in the gym. Be a little "tricky" without appearing arrogant... Be patient and stalk your prey for a while before you go for the kill ;)

*Outfit: Get some HOT Yoga pants and a great top for workout. We whiteys LOVE hot chicks in Yoga pants, IMHO and it doesn't matter if you are from Mars ;) We're very simple creatures who are visual, like all guys. Otherwise, don't worry too much about how you dress in general. I personally prefer girls in casual wear and girls in professional wear is a turn-off, but if the girl is likable, it doesn't really matter WHAT she is wearing most of the time.

*"extracurricular activity":(I think this one is important if you wanna REALLY impress that one whitey ;) Develop or cultivate something you really like to do outside of sports as well. If you are pursuing a career, that may be good enough, but otherwise online gaming is a way to go to get white guys and before you assume they are all whimp nerds, know that the times have changed. I do at least one hour of PS a day and also work out 1 1/2 hours daily. Look for it all and you shall have it!! Also, girls that put some energy into gaming tends to become frighteningly good at it and that also impresses us. One chick beat the living daylight out of me in online FIFA, for example and it hurt my feelings, but also impressed the heck out of me, LOL.

*Personality: Be yourself, don't appear scripted and embrace improvisation and impromptu ways to open up when needed. Don't be afraid. Us white guys are just like other guys be them black, white, yellow or green and we LOVE a hot woman with confidence.

*Diet: Cut out soda and as much junk food as you can and add in water and fruits. It will do miracles for your skin. I would also invest in a good multivitamin and as a Black woman you should ALWAYS be taking Vitamin D, especially as you live in Chicago. A good Vitamin D level will also enable you to tolerate more exercise to your body without risking brittle bones. If you have never taken it before, I bet you your level is very low.

*Hair: To my experience, so many black women are confused how to have their hair and what white guys prefer. I personally LOVE black girls with straightened hair that is long, but what matters is what YOU like and feel comfortable with. Black girls are also incredibly cute with neat braids. Also, research both a great shampoo and conditioner for yourself, preferably from a hair dresser. I'm not gonna tell you to spend hundreds of bucks at Vidal, just get a good hair dresser for style and ask specifically about conditioner and shampoo.

Finally, one of my favorite coworkers is a black girl and I love her to death. I would jokingly tell her I'm sorry we are such good friends because that means we cannot make out, LOL. Hope my thoughts weren't too much generalization or nonsense ;) I'm not gonna get into the entire underage issue, but simply say that you need to know the laws and what they are here and make sure neither you nor the lucky guy ends up breaking them before it can be done.. Let me know how it goes and good luck :)



bensleys

Nashua, NH

#33 Apr 23, 2013
I have the same question.

how do I get a beautiful black woman to ask out date and buy me a new Porsche convertible ( red)
for my birthday so I can drive her around in a style she is accustomed to??

She must be beautiful no Maxine waters ,whoopee Goldberg or michelle obozo types need apply.

one final thing she must speak English, none of this dial 6666 for ebonics nonsense. she must speak standard English no matter how much money she has..... Hummmmm hold on a second here......

on second thought......... if she is really rich she can sprinkle a word or two of ebonics into the conversation once in a while but not whole sentences or phrases.

here's how to contact me..........

you may laugh at this post but ya got to dream big shoot for the stars, if ya fall short you still land on the moon.....up in the heavens

I could end up with a beautiful black woman to date & eventually to love and a red Porsche to drive her around in.......
big al

Logan, UT

#34 Mar 15, 2016
InsideOutOreo wrote:
<quoted text>
Thanks you where the most helpful so far lol.
1. Be friendly. This is a good rule for all girls.
2. Get where the guys you want are. You're not going to catch any freshwater fish out in the ocean. The same goes for men. You need to be in college and a professional environment where the men you want are.
3. Flirt. Black girls have a reputation for being not attracted to white guys, and vice versa (both untrue). This is a bad reputation that can easily be overcome with a compliment and a smile to give the right signals. And don't take it personally if he doesn't reciprocate. Simply move onto the next attractive man.
4. Don't get angry or defensive because he says something stupid. Its pretty much 100% hes going to do it eventually, and its not because hes trying to be a jerk. Unless hes dated black women before, hes completely ignorant to what is offensive to woc. Explain to him why what he says is wrong. If he doesn't apologies and fix himself, then cut sling load and run.
SPREAD NUDE THIGHS

Spring Hill, FL

#35 Mar 15, 2016
This'll work Worked on me.
SPREAD NUDE THIGHS

Spring Hill, FL

#36 Mar 19, 2016
This'll work. Worked for me.
Tami

Morganfield, KY

#37 Mar 19, 2016
InsideOutOreo wrote:
I am a 16 going on 17. I am a African American girl who is only attracted to white guys. I am to afraid of approaching a white guy. But the only guys I seem to attract are black guys. I have a very nice body. But do white guys even like girls with a nice butt? I just don't know what white guys like or how to attract one. Can someone please give me some good advice and tips.
A lot of white guys like black girls. Don't be afraid to approach them. But, beware of the wrong kind.
Drug addicts, bums, the ones that wear their pants under their butts. The ones that view women as another notch in their belt. This kind will give you heartache.

Find one that makes good grades in school, that doesn't party, that has some focus on a successful future, believes in God, doesn't treat women like objects. This kind will give you a good future. I can't stress this enough.

If you feel you aren't attracting the kind you want, take a good look at yourself...and change to a better you. Don't be wild. Hold on to your morals...it will be worth it in the long run.

Don't settle for just anybody, even if white.
I am me

Anchorage, AK

#38 Mar 19, 2016
You can ask a white guy out yourself. And then never focus on the race or ethnicity of that person. Just look at other aspects of a human being.
SPREAD NUDE THIGHS

Spring Hill, FL

#39 Mar 20, 2016
Try it with a white THUG. They need a little.
Vinny

Mokena, IL

#41 Mar 20, 2016
If you are hot and have a nice body with strait long hair you shoul be good a black girl that I worked with who spoke proper English had short hair I asked her why do you where a wig she told me that white guys like girls with long hair and thought to my self this is true she only dated whith guy she said that most black men treat a woman like shit
Spread Nude Thighs

Spring Hill, FL

#42 Mar 21, 2016
Try it with a white THUG. They need luv 2.
Enquiring mind

Tulsa, OK

#43 Mar 27, 2016
Well how did it turn out?

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