How do i get a white guy to ask me out?

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Apr 12, 2013
 
I am a 16 going on 17. I am a African American girl who is only attracted to white guys. I am to afraid of approaching a white guy. But the only guys I seem to attract are black guys. I have a very nice body. But do white guys even like girls with a nice butt? I just don't know what white guys like or how to attract one. Can someone please give me some good advice and tips.

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get a job, white guys did chicks with jobs.

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get a job, white guys did chicks with jobs.

I have a job but I'm applying for a another job also so I will have two jobs.
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I have a job but I'm applying for a another job also so I will have two jobs.
I'm an African American woman who has been been married to a white man for over 25 years. However, what white man is going to be attracted to a black woman who hates her own race?(I'm not ONLY attracted to white men. I just happen to be married to one.)

Work on your self-esteem, and stop the self-hate. Then you can attract any race you want.

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I'm an African American woman who has been been married to a white man for over 25 years. However, what white man is going to be attracted to a black woman who hates her own race?(I'm not ONLY attracted to white men. I just happen to be married to one.)
Work on your self-esteem, and stop the self-hate. Then you can attract any race you want.
I don't hate my race at all. The guys that I'm am around and that I live around are not attractive. They are show offs who think they can get anybody because they are cute. And they treat girls anyway they want to. I don't like that at all. I don't hate my race I never said that but I don't like the way black guys that around me treat women in general.

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Apr 13, 2013
 
Can somebody please give me some good advice I can actually use. Thank you guys any way that replied but I need a little bit more.
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Apr 13, 2013
 
well first off take a shower, wear some clean clothes,dress like a professional adult business person not a hood person, do something stylish modern with your hair if you look like alfalpa you won't get date from anyone .
image is everything.........

get some professional make up tips at your local department store they really want to make you look pretty, good, attractive so you will buy the stuff they sell.
but you learn some great make up tips.

don't over do jewelry, earrings, keep it simple
no face, nose jewelry.

now that your the complete package gotta think about the how and where your going to market this GNU you.

what kind of people do you think you want to attract or date or just be friends with??

trying being just a friend of someone in the race you would like to find a date from. starting as a friend is an easy jump off point to other things.
friends help you understand them and you better.

is your ideal person hanging in a library , book, job, or science fairs, NASCAR races, do volunteer work, get involved in political parties, professional associations groups like chamber of commerce .
how about art museums, having lunch at a place where professional eat lunch or in a park where professionals hang out to eat lunch.

if you have a skill set doctors without boarders is always looking for help. get into some professional environment such as college, university.

attend lectures on anything even if your not interested in physics, the concept of bending light, the square root of PI or who invented the mathematical concept of zero.

do you know who invented zero??? why not??

most important smile look happy even if your not happy inside, that smile will disarm the world, look people in the eye try asking people open ended questions the listen.

you will learn more by listening to people then you ever will by talking

good luck

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Apr 13, 2013
 
reality is a crutch wrote:
well first off take a shower, wear some clean clothes,dress like a professional adult business person not a hood person, do something stylish modern with your hair if you look like alfalpa you won't get date from anyone .
image is everything.........
get some professional make up tips at your local department store they really want to make you look pretty, good, attractive so you will buy the stuff they sell.
but you learn some great make up tips.
don't over do jewelry, earrings, keep it simple
no face, nose jewelry.
now that your the complete package gotta think about the how and where your going to market this GNU you.
what kind of people do you think you want to attract or date or just be friends with??
trying being just a friend of someone in the race you would like to find a date from. starting as a friend is an easy jump off point to other things.
friends help you understand them and you better.
is your ideal person hanging in a library , book, job, or science fairs, NASCAR races, do volunteer work, get involved in political parties, professional associations groups like chamber of commerce .
how about art museums, having lunch at a place where professional eat lunch or in a park where professionals hang out to eat lunch.
if you have a skill set doctors without boarders is always looking for help. get into some professional environment such as college, university.
attend lectures on anything even if your not interested in physics, the concept of bending light, the square root of PI or who invented the mathematical concept of zero.
do you know who invented zero??? why not??
most important smile look happy even if your not happy inside, that smile will disarm the world, look people in the eye try asking people open ended questions the listen.
you will learn more by listening to people then you ever will by talking
good luck
Thanks you where the most helpful so far lol.
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Apr 14, 2013
 
Reality is right.

You are 16. If you want to get out of your 'hood and meet other guys, school is the route If academics is not your strong point focus on a talent or skill .

Don't dress like a ho'. If you are not sure what that means , look at eh essential white chick teen magazine Seventeen at the library.

Don't get pregnant.

Listen to English spoken outside your 'hood and be able to speak that way. Jesse Jackson is a master of making his speech and accent fit his target group. Not just him, the Brits will tel you if you want to move between classes you first change your accent.

Don't hang around with gang bangers.

Don't get pregnant. heck the sociology statistics about out of wedlock births and age of first birth in the black community. If you want o break out, don't be one of those statistics.

Oh, yeah, among whee guys there are plenty of SOB's. The grass may not be greener over here.
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Apr 14, 2013
 
yea, ya gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. but that holds true for any ethnic group or race and both genders .

dress like a turkey and you'll be attracting turkeys, dress like a swan and you'll have a better chance of attracting a swan.

it's the "old birds of a feather tend to gravitate in the same general direction thing".

Knowledge is power, learn about your self & other people, ask questions then listen to and remember the answers, people are always flattered when you remember names and details about them.

People who are interested in a wide range of things are generally more interesting and there for attractive than people who aren't or only have a limited range of interest.

learn about who invented zero, or why Madrid is located where it is today. who first proved the world is round when and how.. it's not who you think or about any special date you celebrate in oct.

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Apr 14, 2013
 
Ann wrote:
Reality is right.
You are 16. If you want to get out of your 'hood and meet other guys, school is the route If academics is not your strong point focus on a talent or skill .
Don't dress like a ho'. If you are not sure what that means , look at eh essential white chick teen magazine Seventeen at the library.
Don't get pregnant.
Listen to English spoken outside your 'hood and be able to speak that way. Jesse Jackson is a master of making his speech and accent fit his target group. Not just him, the Brits will tel you if you want to move between classes you first change your accent.
Don't hang around with gang bangers.
Don't get pregnant. heck the sociology statistics about out of wedlock births and age of first birth in the black community. If you want o break out, don't be one of those statistics.
Oh, yeah, among whee guys there are plenty of SOB's. The grass may not be greener over here.
Lol thanks really good advice but I dress very vintage. And I have really long braid and I pin them up and do different hair styles almost everyday. And I hang out with people who are in high school but take college class. And do also take AP classes and get college credits. But out here where I am I guess none of that matters. That's why I will at least try to get out of the area and go out more. Kinda explore different places. But any ways thanks good advice.
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Apr 14, 2013
 
art institute down town hang around talk about Picasso, Matisse other artist , attend museum of science 55th & lake shore dr, attend lectures at universities, book reviews, book discussion groups

start discussions with others about who first proved the earth was round when they did it and how they accomplished this mathematical feat.

which two groups of mathematicians were first in the world to develop and used the concept of zero in math and when did they first do this??.

they lived at opposite ends of the earth and had no known historical contact with each other. you would not suspect one of the groups was able to use or even understand complex math yet they were proven to be great astronomers.

so much for history lesson today.......
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You aint seen the pasty whites that come to FL! They look like cadavers.
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You aint seen the pasty whites that come to FL! They look like cadavers.
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actually those Negros( think n word here) what wander down from da hood with the alfalfa style type hair do's , da pants hanging down to knees with some lame old granpa underwear showing , babbling in ebonics so bad no one can understand them, and them trying so hard to look cool using tired old hand signs that they end up looking like dysfunctional lowland gorillas lost in da city are looking so tired. now that just ain't cool, ain't bad or even human like.
you ain't seen nothing as funny as dem negros.

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reality is a crutch wrote:
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actually those Negros( think n word here) what wander down from da hood with the alfalfa style type hair do's , da pants hanging down to knees with some lame old granpa underwear showing , babbling in ebonics so bad no one can understand them, and them trying so hard to look cool using tired old hand signs that they end up looking like dysfunctional lowland gorillas lost in da city are looking so tired. now that just ain't cool, ain't bad or even human like.
you ain't seen nothing as funny as dem negros.
I know exactly what you are talking about. They think that it is attractive to have their bottom show. But its pretty nasty. They are sending the wrong message about themselves. I don't know why would any girl go for someone who's under ware is always out.

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I know exactly what you are talking about. They think that it is attractive to have their bottom show. But its pretty nasty. They are sending the wrong message about themselves. I don't know why would any girl go for someone who's under ware is always out.
I'm white! And I don't live anywhere near you.:-)

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Apr 16, 2013
 
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I'm white! And I don't live anywhere near you.:-)
Well that's sucks but its always nice just to have someone to talk to lol.
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Well that's sucks but its always nice just to have someone to talk to lol.
what your missing here is the fact that lots of relationships
start off as friends and as a relationship grows it can grow into more than friends.

also being a friend can lead to introductions to other "friends" who could become more than friends if you give them time and a chance.

try being nice or a friend to people see what happens.....

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reality is a crutch wrote:
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what your missing here is the fact that lots of relationships
start off as friends and as a relationship grows it can grow into more than friends.
also being a friend can lead to introductions to other "friends" who could become more than friends if you give them time and a chance.
try being nice or a friend to people see what happens.....
Thanks good advice. But I didn't forget about how you talked to me ass wipe. And I totally hate cursing. I really do honestly, but you really deserved that. But I don't hold grudges because I'm a nice person. I'm sorry everyone else who is looking at this for my poor language.

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