“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#41 Jul 25, 2013
Not for nothing, but He DID call, she ignored his call, and did not return the call till the next day, and afternoon at that. If the met online, could she not email, or even text him?
Mimi Seattle wrote:
<quoted text>
Yeah I don't really like online either. As to this particular guy...I don't know babe. Inconsiderate of my time, my schedule, my priorities? Making me wait for hours for a call back and not even telling me where? Keep walking. But maybe that's just me. <shrug>

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#42 Jul 25, 2013
RACE wrote:
Not for nothing, but He DID call, she ignored his call, and did not return the call till the next day, and afternoon at that. If the met online, could she not email, or even text him?
<quoted text>
Yeah but she was in church and apparently he knew she was in church at that time so he picked a lousy time to call. But yeah email/text...but she did call him and leave a message.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#43 Jul 25, 2013
16hrs later...
Mimi Seattle wrote:
<quoted text> But yeah email/text...but she did call him and leave a message.
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#44 Jul 25, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
<quoted text>
Yeah I don't really like online either. As to this particular guy...I don't know babe. Inconsiderate of my time, my schedule, my priorities? Making me wait for hours for a call back and not even telling me where? Keep walking. But maybe that's just me. <shrug>
That's what I thought...but then he called at 440 and could sense I was not having it. So he offered a place much closer...I didn't want to go but I did and I'm glad. We had a nice time and come to find out, he did call me sooner but my POS phone never registered it!
He was thinking *I* was not calling, lol. We had a good laugh and I feel better about it. It was more comfy than date 1, so I agreed to a 3rd.
He offered to drive because he was trying to be a gentleman, but he understands my feelings and respected it. We shall see....I have a date tomorrow night with a different guy, lol. From his picture and couple of phone convos, I predict he is either a geeky, awkward guy (which I can deal with) or a major creepo! One or the other, and I'm anxious to find out!
:)

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#45 Jul 25, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
<quoted text>
That's what I thought...but then he called at 440 and could sense I was not having it. So he offered a place much closer...I didn't want to go but I did and I'm glad. We had a nice time and come to find out, he did call me sooner but my POS phone never registered it!
He was thinking *I* was not calling, lol. We had a good laugh and I feel better about it. It was more comfy than date 1, so I agreed to a 3rd.
He offered to drive because he was trying to be a gentleman, but he understands my feelings and respected it. We shall see....I have a date tomorrow night with a different guy, lol. From his picture and couple of phone convos, I predict he is either a geeky, awkward guy (which I can deal with) or a major creepo! One or the other, and I'm anxious to find out!
:)
Oh ok then I (tentatively) take back my negative judgement of him.

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#46 Jul 25, 2013
RACE wrote:
16hrs later...
<quoted text>
Touche.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#47 Jul 26, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
Still today, I would let a guy pick me up for a first date. Zero fears.
Exactly.

Why don't you get over yourself, ladies. Your man-hating is showing when you think every man is out to get you.

I tell you guys this story? Met up at a restaurant with a girl for a first date, decided to go to the park afterward, she was willing to ride with me. Then we saw this dude pushing his car on a deserted road. I stopped to see if he needed help. He didn't have a cell phone and couldn't remember his friend's number off the top of his head. So I gave him a ride too!

The girl and I ended up dating for a few months.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#48 Jul 26, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
<quoted text>
That's what I thought...but then he called at 440 and could sense I was not having it. So he offered a place much closer...I didn't want to go but I did and I'm glad. We had a nice time and come to find out, he did call me sooner but my POS phone never registered it!
He was thinking *I* was not calling, lol. We had a good laugh and I feel better about it. It was more comfy than date 1, so I agreed to a 3rd.
He offered to drive because he was trying to be a gentleman, but he understands my feelings and respected it. We shall see....I have a date tomorrow night with a different guy, lol. From his picture and couple of phone convos, I predict he is either a geeky, awkward guy (which I can deal with) or a major creepo! One or the other, and I'm anxious to find out!
:)
I'm a little heart-broken, but you probably weren't good enough for me anyway....

I need a girl who can party!

:)
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#49 Jul 26, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm a little heart-broken, but you probably weren't good enough for me anyway....
I need a girl who can party!
:)
It took you long enough to figure out...

“It made sense at the time....”

Since: May 09

Schaumburg, IL

#50 Jul 26, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
<quoted text>
Exactly.
Why don't you get over yourself, ladies. Your man-hating is showing when you think every man is out to get you.
I tell you guys this story? Met up at a restaurant with a girl for a first date, decided to go to the park afterward, she was willing to ride with me. Then we saw this dude pushing his car on a deserted road. I stopped to see if he needed help. He didn't have a cell phone and couldn't remember his friend's number off the top of his head. So I gave him a ride too!
The girl and I ended up dating for a few months.
i'm careful when i meet up with anyone for the first time... remember that my hubby was hanging around in the shadows when we all met for dinner! <his idea, not my doing>

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#51 Jul 26, 2013
Aisle Sitter wrote:
i'm careful when i meet up with anyone for the first time... remember that my hubby was hanging around in the shadows when we all met for dinner! <his idea, not my doing>
And he foiled our plans to do horrible things to you!

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#52 Jul 26, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
It took you long enough to figure out...
Hang in there, sweetie! You're good enough for someone!

;p

I'm fine with just being your friend... with benefits!

Since: Jan 10

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#53 Jul 26, 2013
I completely respect and understand a woman who doesn't want a guy knowing where she lives -- and being trapped in his car -- until she's comfortable with him.

Since: Aug 08

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#54 Jul 26, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
I completely respect and understand a woman who doesn't want a guy knowing where she lives -- and being trapped in his car -- until she's comfortable with him.
Me too

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#55 Jul 26, 2013
Trapped? Just pull your weapon and put it against his temple. He will take you wherever you want to go.
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
I completely respect and understand a woman who doesn't want a guy knowing where she lives -- and being trapped in his car -- until she's comfortable with him.

“What's it to ya?”

Since: Mar 09

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#56 Jul 26, 2013
RACE wrote:
Trapped? Just pull your weapon and put it against his temple. He will take you wherever you want to go.
<quoted text>
I know you're joking around, but what people like the mutt don't understand is that just because *you*(the general you) might be a nice guy doesn't mean all guys are, and especially meeting someone online...they can be anyone. Craigslist killer anyone? It's just not the same for women as it is for men. There are very very very few Eileen Wurnos(sP?) es in the world which is why it's such a big deal when one of them is discovered, but there are all kinda Ted Bundys.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#57 Jul 26, 2013
RACE wrote:
Trapped? Just pull your weapon and put it against his temple. He will take you wherever you want to go.
<quoted text>
Because armed women are never overpowered and killed with their own weapon!

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,326148,00...

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/141988...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/...

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Wilmington, IL

#58 Jul 26, 2013
Mimi Seattle wrote:
but there are all kinda Ted Bundys.
And what people like Mimi don't understand is women are more likely to be killed by their bf/spouse than by some random stranger/serial killer.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#59 Jul 26, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
It's difficult to beat crazy at times.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#60 Jul 26, 2013
edogxxx wrote:
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And what people like Mimi don't understand is women are more likely to be killed by their bf/spouse than by some random stranger/serial killer.
Yes. I would think that would be true. That doesn't preclude, however, that a person you know almost nothing about making a woman part of another statistic.

I wonder how many rapes are by strangers or other violent acts.

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