“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#22 Mar 17, 2014
Sublime1 wrote:
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There is no right or wrong. It all comes down to the people involved. A lot of women donít want their husband going out boozing it up once a month until late in the morning, especially if they arenít going to come home. It's a matter of frequency. I think itís important to discuss what you are expecting before you marry and have kids.
I knew once I got married, I wasnít going to be going out late into the night once a month. Not like we sat down and set limits and such before we married, but I just knew the person I was marrying and that this would cause some tension if I expected that. My wife isn't a big drinker and never has been. So, the hey, you can go out and party too once a month and not come home, isn't really the quid pro quid that this guy makes it out to be, because that doesn't interest her. This guy sounds similarly situated and given this I would be surprised if this guy didnít understand that too before he married. At the very least he should of.
So, it's really about knowing what you are signing up for. I will fault him for that. While you can say the same about her, I honestly donít know any guys with very young kids who go out partying once a month and who donít come home. I just donít and I donít hang with boy scouts and never have.
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LMAO. I canít say my experiences at 1 or 2 AM out on the town with the boys are anywhere close to what my wife experiences when she spends an afternoon shopping with her mom. That shyte that happens in a bar or a club late into the night never happens to my wife when she goes shopping with her mom. These are not even the two same things.
I never said it was a matter of right or wrong. I was stating that I initially had the same reaction as Cass. He's out one weekend a month. She's out one weekend a month. So hslf the month kids don't have both parents. Seemed a bit much till I filled in the details as I saw them. Then it does not seem like very much.

As far as shopping vs going out late, I was not comparing those experiences. I was comparing the amount of time the other parent would be flying solo with the kids. One parent leaves for girls/boys night out, the kids are likely gonna be in bed soon, so its not like leaving that parent to deal with the kids for a long period of time.

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#23 Mar 17, 2014
PEllen wrote:
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Hello.
Welcome to the Reg's place which has a broader scope than just Chicago people.
Clearly you have been around Topix for a long time- have you been lurking? Guided tours of the inmates are free for the asking.
Where do you usually hang out?
New people are cheerfully welcomed- tell us a bit about yourself.
I am a middle aged lady with 2 grown kids living in the Chicago suburbs. You?
interesting how you roll out the welcome wagon for every new person that shows up....while I just assume its ferrerman with a different name.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#24 Mar 17, 2014
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>interesting how you roll out the welcome wagon for every new person that shows up....while I just assume its ferrerman with a different name.
And here I thought that Annabelle was the poster formerly known as Angelique. But I'm not 100% sure. I think so, though.

Since: Aug 08

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#25 Mar 17, 2014
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text>As far as shopping vs going out late, I was not comparing those experiences. I was comparing the amount of time the other parent would be flying solo with the kids. One parent leaves for girls/boys night out, the kids are likely gonna be in bed soon, so its not like leaving that parent to deal with the kids for a long period of time.
I don't think it's just about being solo with the kids or being gone for a set period of time. If it were just that, he's offered to arrange for his folks to watch them.

He sounds like he has too much of a bachelor mentality. Those days are gone.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#26 Mar 17, 2014
PEllen wrote:
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Hello.
Welcome to the Reg's place which has a broader scope than just Chicago people.
Clearly you have been around Topix for a long time- have you been lurking? Guided tours of the inmates are free for the asking.
Where do you usually hang out?
New people are cheerfully welcomed- tell us a bit about yourself.
I am a middle aged lady with 2 grown kids living in the Chicago suburbs. You?
Yep. Angelique.

http://www.topix.com/forum/city/itasca-il/TJI...

I miss Redheadwglasses. That was an interesting thread, I have to say.

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#27 Mar 17, 2014
You still have not proven that is is NOT furryman.
:)
Toj wrote:
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Yep. Angelique.
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/itasca-il/TJI...
I miss Redheadwglasses. That was an interesting thread, I have to say.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#28 Mar 17, 2014
RACE wrote:
You still have not proven that is is NOT furryman.
:)
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(sigh) Some people will take that comment as serious.

I think it's all funny at this point.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Braidwood, IL

#29 Mar 17, 2014
Toj wrote:
Yep. Angelique.
Bummer. Thought I was getting laid for a minute. Ah well. What happened to Daghats?

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#30 Mar 17, 2014
Toj wrote:
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Yep. Angelique.
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/itasca-il/TJI...
I miss Redheadwglasses. That was an interesting thread, I have to say.
Now I question whether Toj is really Mary... errrrr ...Terri.

Only person I've seen on here to demonstrate such an archive quality Topix-memory has been....Ferrerman. That's a 5 year old series of posts!

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#31 Mar 17, 2014
edogxxx wrote:
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Bummer. Thought I was getting laid for a minute. Ah well. What happened to Daghats?
She lurks occasionally but got turned off by the political stuff and the sniping

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#32 Mar 18, 2014
Mister Tonka wrote:
<quoted text> Now I question whether Toj is really Mary... errrrr ...Terri.
Only person I've seen on here to demonstrate such an archive quality Topix-memory has been....Ferrerman. That's a 5 year old series of posts!
I'm probably not her. I type better, right? ;)

“An Apple a day”

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#33 Mar 18, 2014
PEllen wrote:
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Hello.
Welcome to the Reg's place which has a broader scope than just Chicago people.
Clearly you have been around Topix for a long time- have you been lurking? Guided tours of the inmates are free for the asking.
Where do you usually hang out?
New people are cheerfully welcomed- tell us a bit about yourself.
I am a middle aged lady with 2 grown kids living in the Chicago suburbs. You?
Actually, although my profile shows I've been around for some time,_I_ have not. Thanks for the welcome.

:)

“An Apple a day”

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#34 Mar 18, 2014
Sublime1 wrote:
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No one needs to subject themselves to interrogation or reveal any information about themselves before they can post.
My hero.

LOL

“An Apple a day”

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#35 Mar 18, 2014
Toj wrote:
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Yep. Angelique.
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/itasca-il/TJI...
I miss Redheadwglasses. That was an interesting thread, I have to say.
I love it when folks think they know who I am.

:)

“An Apple a day”

Since: Jun 08

nil carborundum illegitemi

#36 Mar 18, 2014
edogxxx wrote:
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Bummer. Thought I was getting laid for a minute. Ah well. What happened to Daghats?
What!!!! You're NOT getting laid????

Perhaps you should answer your door.

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#37 Mar 18, 2014
_Annabella_ wrote:
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I love it when folks think they know who I am.
:)
I don't know who you are. I do know you've used the avatar Angelique and now Annabella.

Since: Aug 08

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#38 Mar 18, 2014
_Annabella_ wrote:
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My hero.
LOL
Me thinks someone was channeling her inner Ferrerman.

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#39 Mar 18, 2014
So, are you 770's husband or one of her interns? bubble tea is pretty defining, even on the inet.
_Annabella_ wrote:
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Actually, although my profile shows I've been around for some time,_I_ have not. Thanks for the welcome.
:)

Toj

“Where is Everyone?”

Since: Jul 12

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#44 Mar 18, 2014
deja vu all over again wrote:
Looks like she already knows Mike and race!
http://www.topix.com/forum/news/weird/T7AK1EU...
How about that?!
Sub knows Annabella, Angelique and Chiarra are the same person. I don't think Race does.

I didn't know Chiarra and Annabella/Angelique were the same person until that link, but now I do.

Not that I really care. I do wonder why Chairra/Annabella/Angelique need all three identities, though. Not that it would affect my life in any way.

Still think you're a bit nuts for caring so much. Why do you care?

Since: Aug 08

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#46 Mar 18, 2014
Toj wrote:
<quoted text>Still think you're a bit nuts for caring so much. Why do you care?
She was a fever from which he'll never recover.

All heat and hunger.

She inflamed his senses.

When she devoured his very soul.

When he had nothing left to surrender.

She abandoned him to the wreckage of himself.

And smiled...

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