Humanity is an aspect of nature, right?<quoted text>
But Joel, we are not talking about nature.
We are talking about humanity.
If you want to talk to Darwin, go look him up
Where is equality among human beings in terms of intelligence, health, proclivities, aspirations, discrimination, ethics, accountability, desires, fears, proficiency and mannerisms?
Both you and your wife may have equal rights but each will deal with a situation in keeping with his/her innate nature.