What do you mean by nature? Being? Self? Mind? What're these?
There are some persons who have risen high above sense pleasures by sublimating/transforming the carnal urges via yogic discipline. I don't know whether your tiny atheistic mind can comprehend this or not.
.....and now you're me inviting to Hawaii to join you in your love nest.
And your fascination with shopping = gay; always talking about stylish clothes = gay; skinny dipping with your "friend" = gay; showering with me = gay
Gay. End of story. Must be nice to be out of the closet (you can cuddle your fine clothes another time).
Not that there's anything wrong with that.