Then consider this a warm (lust-free) hug from across the pond.<quoted text>
If the hug is avuncular, I may be soothed and feel wanted since my mind, emotions and nerves are messed up.
I would like someone to comfort me and tell me that all will be well with me.
I want someone to care for me.
I can sense your avuncular concern and am comforted a wee bit.
I guess you're in your late 50s or early 60s.
I do hope that you can maintain your peace of mind with a minimum of anxiety.
I am mid 50s (exactly) and do think of death from time to time but would not say I am afraid of it only of leaving behind substantial funds in my retirement account! But of course I would want my wife to be financially comfortable (and she or I would be).
We have no will yet but would likely leave or estate to nieces and nephews. How about you?