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Since: Mar 09

Hollywood, FL

#21 Aug 26, 2014
L2: And this is why moving in together out of convenience/financial reasons vs. because you want to share your life with someone you love is a bad idea.

“Where is Tonka?”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#22 Aug 27, 2014
I just want to share my life with someone for a couple of hours every other night. If you want to pay me rent, I'm good with that.
j_m_w wrote:
L2: And this is why moving in together out of convenience/financial reasons vs. because you want to share your life with someone you love is a bad idea.

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#23 Aug 27, 2014
RACE wrote:
I just want to share my life with someone for a couple of hours every other night. If you want to pay me rent, I'm good with that.
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That sounds more like a FWB relationship.

Since: Aug 08

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#24 Aug 27, 2014
j_m_w wrote:
L2: And this is why moving in together out of convenience/financial reasons vs. because you want to share your life with someone you love is a bad idea.
ITA

“I Am Mine”

Since: Dec 08

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#25 Aug 27, 2014
j_m_w wrote:
L2: And this is why moving in together out of convenience/financial reasons vs. because you want to share your life with someone you love is a bad idea.
Only because, for people like this lw, it changes expectations. If they were not living together, would she have expected him to pay her rent if she lost her job? Moving in together is not a reason to change that expectation unless you have agreed to combine finances.

Since: Jun 09

Saint Petersburg, FL

#26 Aug 27, 2014
Toj wrote:
L2: He probably doesn't want you to lose another job or make the landing so soft you don't take all of this serious. You have kids. If you need to, get a second job. I don't get these people who think they get a free ride b/c they lost their job. You lose or don't have a job, you go out and get what you can right away.
Amount of time I've been without a job in the last 40 years? Zero.
Please relay this to my ex....:-)

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