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“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Chicago, IL

#21 Aug 29, 2013
I just hope she isn't kissing her kid on the lips right after giving her husband a bj.

Since: Mar 09

West Palm Beach, FL

#22 Aug 29, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
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THat's how I feel! Especially LITTLE kids, when their kisses are big, open mouth slobber fests.
That description literally made my stomach heave a little.
;P

I don't kiss kids either but I always hear parents saying take the affection while they're offering, because someday they'll stop!

I'm very affectionate and kissy with SO's but not with anyone else. I'll hug friends, but that's it.

“reign in blood”

Since: May 09

Chicago, IL

#23 Aug 29, 2013
PEllen wrote:
This is the saddest part of the letter
"I have now insisted that he call her only once a week and in my presence. He's complying, but it distresses me to hear him enjoy the conversation so much"
Whatever else happens it will be a long time before LW 's husband laughs on teh phone with her. If ever.
How dare a married man enjoy a telephone conversation with antother woman!?

This is why I believe the wife is the problem, not the husband.

Since: Jan 10

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#24 Aug 29, 2013
If a married man has an hour to spend on the phone every night, someone needs to hand him a honey do list.

Since: Mar 09

West Palm Beach, FL

#25 Aug 29, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
If a married man has an hour to spend on the phone every night, someone needs to hand him a honey do list.
With item #1 being "me."
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#26 Aug 29, 2013
1:*sigh* This is how it starts...why do people intentionally put themselves into these situations?
Why would this man put his EX's comfort OVER that of his freaking spouse? I just don't get it...

2: Pshaw, my bro and I kissed on the lips all the way until his accident (tight, quick, benign). We just always did it. I would kiss his lips a few times when he was bed-ridden.

Now, I would let you tear off my arm if I could kiss him one more time....if you want to do it, do it! Life is too short.

“...,to wit”

Since: Jun 09

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#27 Aug 29, 2013
RedheadwGlasses wrote:
If a married man has an hour to spend on the phone every night, someone needs to hand him a honey do list.
Its an hour a week.

Would your comment be the same if the wife was on the phone for an hour a night with her girlfriends?
Kuuipo

Monterey, CA

#28 Aug 29, 2013
cheluzal wrote:
1:*sigh* This is how it starts...why do people intentionally put themselves into these situations?
Why would this man put his EX's comfort OVER that of his freaking spouse? I just don't get it...
This.

I don't think anyone is saying that married man cannot or should not have female friends. But in this situation, Friend is former high-school sweetheart. She evokes memories of a carefree time. She's also going through a tough divorce, giving off damsel-in-distress vibes. He WAS having nightly, hour-long conversations with Friend before LW put a stop to it. LW's husband is going down a slippery slope, IMHO, and it is time for him to honor his WIFE and stop these conversations. OR, LW should insist on meeting this woman.
cheluzal

Plant City, FL

#29 Aug 29, 2013
Right?
I have a policy: I will offend the rest of the world to protect my spouse. It's only fair.
Amazing how we can mistreat those closest too us. Probably get too comfy.
Maybe the threat of losing her would shock him. I hate seeing people go down slippery slopes that are avoidable.

Since: Jan 10

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#30 Aug 30, 2013
PEllen wrote:
<quoted text>Its an hour a week.
Would your comment be the same if the wife was on the phone for an hour a night with her girlfriends?
It was an hour a night until she complained.

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