My wife and I are both friends of the supposed victim. Two of her four sons have visited us from HI.It's become quite clear that you're no authority on marriage, Greg. You just a sociopath who gets his kicks by trying to interfere with and exercise power over other people's marriages.
Apparently, you have broken up more than one happy marriage. You were even removed as pastor from a church for doing so.
Only a gay troll would make an unvalidated claim like that.
Anal sex is inherently harmful, unhealthy and demeaning. It causes the victim's brains to fall out their ass.