You really shouldn't call your husband-to-be (who did all the above on more than one thread) names like that!<quoted text>
Anyone who impersonates other posters and changes his nic like you do is a coward. It's a simple concept really. Sound it out, ask for help.
I would guess it's not good for your relationship - then again I'm not familiar with the kind of relationship you two have so in your case it just might be "normal".