#38400 Apr 9, 2013
Yeah but topics like gay marriage, abortion and gun control sure make perfect distractions from the real problems our society is facing today. Great issues to get the common man and woman all hot under the collar and emotional. Ranting and yelling about their rights and perceived wrongs. They are to upset to think about the horrible economy or unemployment rates. Did I forget to mention a nice distraction from high gas prices. Who really cares who someone is screwing? If they want a piece of paper saying they are married who cares, give them the stupid piece of paper. As for guns, all of you gun lovers know they really aren't going to take your guns. The most they will do is make stricter laws. Abortion is what it is, it should not be used as birth control buy what if someone raped you and you were forced to give birth to something that was forced into your body? What if it was your mom or daughter, would you want them to have to carry the baby to term? Let these issues go for a minute, they just aren't that important and you can't change them anyway. Concentrate on learning about stocks and bonds, read about what is going on with Wall Street. Learn new ways to save and invest but please get off your soapbox about BS!
#38401 Apr 9, 2013
as with all problems that start out slow..
one cockroach.. you let it live, then another comes along because the first one sent a message to the rest of 'em telling them there was food to eat.
same with mice & spiders or other insects.
you let 'em go and it IMPLIES they are welcome, and before you know it.. they are accumulating as an infestation.
you couldn't hide your selfishness as you try, because no matter how much majesty you dish out.. there is always the uniqueness of you.
people rise out of the shadow to say 'hey there is a shadow where we hide and nobody exists outside of 'normal' as we live & breathe consensus'
yet you had to reveal yourself to say those words.
rolling backwards on selfishness isn't really the way to go, because despite what you are lead to believe.. selfishness is how strong people move forward.
the fact of the matter is, many people aren't selfish enough.. those people paint the ugly picture when they don't achieve.
when they get labeled as selfish, the missing note is 'not selfish enough'
try to patriotise this fact,
you buy a christmas gift for another person because YOU want to see the person happy.. not because everybody else is buying gifts for other people at the same time.
try to patriotise this fact,
you experience a list of problems throughout the entire month.. but each problem isn't the same, each problem isn't from the same person.
do you simply judge all repetitive problems as one, or do you count each problem individually?
people with real valid notes count each problem individually, otherwise people who cause identical problems are isolated from responsibility as you look at the problem & the description of the problem rather than the person causing the problem.
you might have something to say about the time & the era of the century, but without each person causing the problem in the notes.. your view & absorption is only HALF the value of what it could be.
see.. people already know witnessing stress (or being a victim to it) taxes the mental & emotional characteristics inside of them..
then they try the above escape goat of not noting everybody they witness, so as to look back at the problem with less tension.
it is a tactic used to create longevity of the mental & emotional track.. but the consequences of limiting & trimming are the opinion & decision of the person bottled up with the notes.
it is irrational to look at things of pain without noting who is to blame.. and forward progress to clean up the mess is insane without a note of who is responsible.
you can't always say 'this' is the problem without a source.. because without source, there is no starting point (except starting late from that point onwards, but that is how criminals slip away into freedom because somebody forgot).
aside from the above,
when you are in an arguement with another person.. and that person clearly isn't absorbing the context of what is said, only to constantly try to end the conversation with 'whatever'.. you are left with three choices:
1. you walk away
2. you stay and continue
3. you go above & beyond words
number 3 gets people in trouble because nosey people are either confused or unsupportive.
number 2 wastes time & energy, with the potential to never-ever solve the problem.
number 1 wastes time & energy, with the potential to never-ever solve the problem.
a person doesn't choose to listen, you've got to find the source of the reason and fix it first before going forward.
placing patches on top of something broken is a disaster waiting to happen.
the general rule of thumb that needs to be broken is, if the majority of the world places patches on top of something broken.. they will be there for support to do it again, but that doesn't imply they will be there to support you when disaster happens.
it takes more effort to clean a riot, that is why people participate because they know it is making the situation harder to be put to an end because of larger numbers.
#38402 Apr 9, 2013
far too often people with small problems are embarassed to bring up the problem to somebody else.
they shy away from the questions or action because the response is small.
if you have a mouse in the house, they simply tell you to get a trap and get rid of the mouse.
the protest comes when people want to know why the mouse was attracted to the inside of their home in the first place, and also perhaps what can be done to prevent it from happening again.
because of the mental & emotional neglect in the responses when these people ask for help, they wait until the problem gets big enough as if it fills a void of embarassment.
why was there neglect in the first place?
because people call the information 'trade secrets'
an exterminator can get rid of the mice, but a really good exterminator will also do something to prevent them from coming back.
see, the prevention is the + in their A+ service, at least to them in their own views.
there is a lot of information that doesn't get shared because people either make money with the information, or because the person holds the information valuable like a family or industry secret.
it is those secrets that make people feel better about themselves when money doesn't satisfy the value they think they are worth.
because see, the two points of interest there are money & power.
the only thing left is fame.
but sometimes fame & power get mixed around with eachother.
because sometimes the answer is really really easy, and people are modest.. they think such an easy answer doesn't deserve the power category & should be put into the fame category.
and that is when they walk away feeling famous, as they look at you with less fame = you are a total worthless idiot to the person.
not everybody walks, talks, and thinks alike.
sometimes when the sharing of information happens, the person needs help themselves.. but nobody is around to answer the call for help.
maybe the other people gave the helpful person some food, and when the helpful person needed help.. they call the people giving food and they treat the person as if the food wasn't enough.
maybe the person giving help got extra money as a tip, and when the person calls the other people for help.. they treat the helpful person as if they are cursed with troubles.
morality is of more, not less.
but all too often people try to fix or solve problems by doing less rather than more.
people ignore problems, and that starts the entire process of less.
then people get involved while keeping the concept of less is more, because they feel it helps them stay out of the way when they don't know what exactly it is they are doing.. that way the people who know what they are doing get more room to work the solution.
the only reason why the loitering is allowed is to search for natural talent.
because some people are early predictors..
some people follow along on time..
other people snipe at the situation late..
all three of them say nothing about the people standing around confused & arguing until they finally come up with an answer.
but rather, it says something about people who can output an answer no matter if it is early.. on time.. or late.
and what happens is..
the bar fills up with people who are willing to argue confused until something is said that they agree with, regardless of whether it is right or wrong .. only that they agree.
it provides a blanket for people to get in and get out when they don't bother themselves with confusion.. but that is when the blanket gets caught up in progress like adjusting your foot in bed only to realize it is wrapped up in the blanket.
people got yelled at for getting in the way as if hunting for deer, shooting & missing, only to need to wait longer for the next deer to arrive.
i always say bring responsible help & leave the idiots at home.. or inform the idiot how to stay out of the way & wait for the person to tell you their reason for staying out of the way.
Since: Apr 09
#38403 Apr 9, 2013
#38404 Apr 9, 2013
people with the enthusiasm to help, yet the lack of coaching or counseling effort from you makes you a tyrant & a terrorist as to the efforts of team help.
you can't wash or rinse away emotions that clearly don't want to leave without the help of drug induced action.. yet oppressing the energy rather than gripping it and guiding it, well those types of people really cause more pain & more energy in the wrong direction civilization is meant to go.
nobody do any single thing
everybody do everything
as if it is really all that difficult to allow TWO baseball players to put their gloves side by side to catch the ball like a giant cup that is twice the size as one single glove.
apparently people watch too much baseball and they believe two players can't catch one ball because they always knock eachother over.
no matter how you slice it.. degeneration of teamwork is always going to come back and bite you in the work whenever you finally look up and realize corporations are normal people too, and somehow you managed to get everybody to wait .. then you needed the help and everybody listened to you instead of going the sane route.
with economic turmoil.. it is only natural to see people lashing out with whimpering cries of pathetic efforts to relax.
but realize something..
in a strong civilization (just like a strong community) there would be more than the whimpering pathetic efforts, there would be a list from weak to middle to strong.
the amount of holes isn't astonishing given the receipt of output from the economy.
but people tend to forget, if they get out there and do it.. then they become part of the economy.
the confusion is when they feel like they are the only one doing it, and thus there isn't enough 'team work' to be held in such high regard as scultping or casting or molding the economy.
yet the lousy politicians do it no different than hollywood or musicians or anything else you see on television or in magazines.
you tell yourself you aren't as good as them?
did you make an effort to try & see what results you get?
sometimes a place for those results to go is the hardest part..!
because really good results are met with people that assume the artist already knows how good they are, without any idea it was their first time or that they are soon to give up on the hobby completely.
some good advice i got when i was a kid..
if you are putting yourself in other people's shoes, try living only in your own for a while.
same the other way..
if you are living in your own shoes, try living in the view of other people's shoes for a while.
a healthy character can do either one when requested.
#38405 Apr 9, 2013
you idiot, there isn't enough information there to know if 'what' is introverted or extroverted.
that makes it spam & assault & negligence & oppression & cruel punishment
(i'd say unusual but it happens EVERY SINGLE DAY)
you might as well be viewed like the drunk idiot leaning into everybody without enough electricity in their face to keep their words from slurring.
#38406 Apr 9, 2013
Saint Louis, MO
#38407 Apr 9, 2013
Since: Apr 09
#38408 Apr 9, 2013
You're not actually trying to be clever are you?
Oh my...this is so awkward for you...
#38409 Apr 9, 2013
life is not a game or an act.
the fact that you imply or state such focus only shows your intentions and|or tolerance with games or act.
acting contributes to inherited foolishness.
i am not a fool & i don't aim my focus towards such disgusting ugliness.. yet the fact of disgusting ugliness presenting itself back onto me is beyond my control.
“KiMare'a the Monster Mutation”
Since: Nov 10
#38410 Apr 9, 2013
Here is your problem;
Step, adoptive, foster and single parents ALL rate below biological parents.
Homosexuals want to claim that ss couples who can only ever be a deprived HALF of those situations are EQUAL to biological parents.
Silly stupid. At the price of a child's welfare.
Which makes it obscenely depraved.
#38411 Apr 9, 2013
i think it is punk to hide the truth behind children.
i think it is punk to hide the truth from civilization.
at worst, what can happen with an illicit registration between two people is..
the military let's them in.. or lets one in because the other already got in .. and then they are in there fighting.
maybe not the same day, maybe not the same week, maybe not the same month, maybe not the same year.
but when relationships turn sour, mediocre events sometimes occur.
Since: Apr 09
#38412 Apr 9, 2013
Dude, seriously, the only mediocre events occurring right now are your comments...
#38413 Apr 9, 2013
Man, your comments don't make sense. Coming on here talking in circles is not helping you to get your point across! Say what you have to say. It sounds like your trying to say you had an affair with another person who was in the military at one time or another but not necessarily at the same time as you! Congrats on finding true love. Now, what is the problem, please explain yourself.
#38414 Apr 9, 2013
stop telling me your world revolves around me, psychopath !
#38415 Apr 9, 2013
slow your ego down long enough that it pauses, maybe then you'll realize how stupid you look addressing your lack of endowment in public, pinche gop.
#38416 Apr 9, 2013
Great! Now Kimare's children are posting on Topix too.
#38418 Apr 9, 2013
you value idiocentric lifestyle.?
perhaps you deserve such shallow response, but i don't.
#38420 Apr 10, 2013
no unon thet lead to the of the humen race will last it cant or humanety is gon no gay marege .
Since: Apr 09
#38421 Apr 10, 2013
LOL...haters are always so stupid...
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