You've missed the point, as usual.<quoted text>
You are the one who dumbed your relationship down to 'two people' and a 'contract'.
Live with it, just don't call it a marriage, because it never will be.
A relationship is NOT just sex. Being a homosexual is NOT just about sex.
It many states it ALREADY is marriage. That's the law. Your feeble-minded opinion doesn't change that. When marriage equality becomes federally recognized, you'll still be wrong.
Live with it. Or not.